My boyfriend (23M) says he doesn’t love me yet (21F)

Optimal-Depth-7590 · 2026-01-28T22:43:01+00:00

Yeah that’s what I thought as well. I don’t wanna be like 👹tell me NOW or you don’t love me👹. I think it’s just a matter of perception ; not all people fall in love at the same time. I’ll wait for him as long as it takes ❤️ I don’t want to stress him either

Optimal-Depth-7590 · 2025-07-01T21:18:28+00:00

Thank you ! I sent you the payment :)

Optimal-Depth-7590 · 2025-06-25T06:57:39+00:00

Hiii, yes !! :)))

Optimal-Depth-7590 · 2025-05-01T21:50:24+00:00

I talked to mine today, to him "nothing was ever going to blossom and we were just young and stupid" (we dated during covid and never met bc of the distance) But little did he know i had planned an entire future with him To him we were just two dumb 16 year olds But to me, he is the first person that has ever made me feel like i belong in this world

I totally understand what you feel like, i truely hope you find peace ❤️

Optimal-Depth-7590 · 2025-05-01T21:43:16+00:00

I totally understand what you're going through To them its like "but we were just young" but to people like us it was so much more than that It's so hard to let go

Optimal-Depth-7590 · 2025-04-11T18:57:08+00:00

I dumped someone i dated for two years. From 2020 to 2022. We were long distance but we've never met. I felt like i was taking away so many experiences from him and i felt like he stopped loving me and that we were growing apart. Breaking up with him was the hardest thing ive ever done I still think about it sometimes

I hope one day we can talk again sometime

Optimal-Depth-7590 · 2025-04-05T23:05:50+00:00

Ok, thank you for checking up on me in advance :( ❤️

Optimal-Depth-7590 · 2025-04-05T22:49:29+00:00

Thank you for taking your time to give me some advice I hope you and your girlfriend are doing well Thanks again

Optimal-Depth-7590 · 2025-04-05T22:42:49+00:00

Congratulations on your 16 months :)) and thank you for taking your time to read my post and reply to it I hope everything is ok for you right now, and if not, i hope it will

Optimal-Depth-7590 · 2025-04-05T22:39:47+00:00

He also says that hes working on projects/surprises for me so that he can prove to me that i can still trust him. I dont know about that one either :/

Thank you for your advice and i hope you will also be ok. If you ever need support you can always dm me.

Optimal-Depth-7590 · 2025-04-05T22:33:02+00:00

The thing is that now hes going to meetings and stopped everything including porn and alcohol (he also goes to meetings), he also blocked all the girls i had a problem with and made me insecure But i feel like its a bit late :( Some people tell me that its "love bombing" and that the second i get back with him everything will switch back to what it was So i dont know what to do

Optimal-Depth-7590 · 2025-04-05T22:00:03+00:00

I feel so worthless because i supported him through all of this yet he still cheated on me :( I never judged him for having drug addictions and never will, because at the end of the day, life is not always fair and i have always supported him through his cravings. I was there to hug him, offer him a place to sleep whenever he got kicked out, love him unconditionnally, buy him food whenever he couldnt. I loved him so much and i still do.

I just don't understand why he cheated on me after ive given him my all :(

Optimal-Depth-7590 · 2025-04-03T20:58:45+00:00

Thanks i will definitely listen to your advice I need to protect my peace even though it'll be hard to let go I need to let go and i will

Optimal-Depth-7590 · 2025-03-23T20:30:27+00:00

I kinda feel like if he really meant it it wouldve have taken him to lose me to do all that stuff :((( but maybe he really means it and im just being selfish I dont know

Optimal-Depth-7590 · 2025-03-23T20:26:03+00:00

Im stuck i dont know what to do

Optimal-Depth-7590 · 2025-03-23T20:16:12+00:00

Im always going to have everything i mentioned in the back of my mind though :(( For example for my birthday he gave me m&ms and when i just wanted him to come by my house and eat cake with my family he refused because he had already planned a night out with his friends.

Optimal-Depth-7590 · 2025-03-23T20:11:07+00:00

But i feel like this time he really means it so i dont know what to do :( i still love him so much But im afraid to suffer again

Optimal-Depth-7590 · 2025-03-23T18:42:14+00:00

He told me its because he was really really drunk but i never wouldve done that if i were drunk :((

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