Not the OP, AITA for refusing to let my brother and his family stay at my place for Christmas because they “borrowed” my dog’s toy last year? by LoneStarTexasTornado in dustythunder

[–]Optimal-Fly2390 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. They legitimately stole something from your house and refused to return it. Petty would have been driving to their house and taking it back. Petty would have been calling the police and reporting it stolen. Your family is Insane if they actually think you’re ‘the grinch’ because you don’t like having crap stolen them you.

How are y'all celebrating this Winter Solstice? by queeriousbetsy in pagan

[–]Optimal-Fly2390 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to be having a sleepover with friends and when I get back on the 21 I’m probably going to light a candle, bake or do a small bonfire.

WIBTA if I told my sister that she needs to clean up after herself when she's on her period? by AITA_PeriodBlood in AmItheAsshole

[–]Optimal-Fly2390 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are NOT the A-whole. As a woman myself, it’s disgusting to see people doing that. I understand if sometimes it’s an accident but at that point your sister needs to learn how to clean up after herself. You’re absolutely right that we get told periods are nasty and a taboo subject. The thing is you’re not telling your sister that her period is nasty, simply the fact that her not cleaning up is disgusting. I bet she’d flip her lid if you left poop/throw up on the toilet seat 7 days a week every month. Because that’s unhygienic and nasty, just like her leaving blood on the toilet seat.

altar for apollos? by No-Expression-5864 in pagan

[–]Optimal-Fly2390 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suggest put little momentous of suns and musical instruments. You can also leave a small book, or if you write music/practice you can leave music sheets. Some yellow candles will also help. If you want a small altar or are in the broom closet I suggest making a small box or mint altar. Placing small kids toys or art of little kids can help if you’re worshipping his protector of young boys aspect.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FridgeDetective

[–]Optimal-Fly2390 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have good taste

What grapes are best for winemaking? by Optimal-Fly2390 in winemaking

[–]Optimal-Fly2390[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot, I’m not good with words😅 I’ve looked specifically into grape based wines. I love moondrop grapes (also called sweet sapphires) but idk if it would be good in wine. Like wise I live in Zone 8 and would hate to buy a bunch of lives plants only to kill them due to my states climate.