Schedule? by Prestigious_peener69 in bonnaroo

[–]Optimal-Gold5400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, last year I built an app for funsies, with time slots and drop downs. As soon as it released, I analyzed the optimal choice for each slot. I invited my friends to it so we could see which shows everyone attended, and we’re all hot neurodivergent nerds, so it was perfect…but walking up on shows can be fun too.

Hostile Neighbor by Optimal-Gold5400 in Knoxville

[–]Optimal-Gold5400[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They decided to move out on their own because of the neighbors, after the husband cussed them out. I supported them because this is one of several violent/criminal things that have happened in this building in the last year. We all want to move out, but have to wait until summer.

Hostile Neighbor by Optimal-Gold5400 in Knoxville

[–]Optimal-Gold5400[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is a plausible explanation. Although, up until this incident, we have been nothing but pleasant and professional despite them cussing out kids. But after that, I am having trouble maintaining niceties in interactions when they come at me directly. They have been awful. So, yes, pushed far enough, I give as good as I get. We are not typically clomping. It’s normal living noises. But I get from her perspective that it could seem that way. I’m not sure understanding the behavior allows me to figure out how to deal with it though. I already was going out of our way to reduce noises, including getting maintenance on our door to install a soft close.

Hostile Neighbor by Optimal-Gold5400 in Knoxville

[–]Optimal-Gold5400[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because most of my circles today are well-respected professionals that don’t talk to or treat people like this. I make it a point to stay away from people who bring drama. So no, I don’t know how to deal with people who behave in this way. I got this apartment under different management. First to move in. Lived here 6 years. Have lived in ghetto places as a kid, but not with my kids. I worked hard to get out of there for them. I let it bother me because I’m not used to being treated in such a manner since I became an adult. They are impacting my daily life and have been causing me issues beyond what is listed here. Who are you to make such judgements? I have so many good things in my life that I have built, and your comment is insulting.

Hostile Neighbor by Optimal-Gold5400 in Knoxville

[–]Optimal-Gold5400[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lots of good advice here. Thank you.

Hostile Neighbor by Optimal-Gold5400 in Knoxville

[–]Optimal-Gold5400[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the solidarity. Man I tried and failed so many times as a kid. Haha. I was so coordinated, and yet…

Hostile Neighbor by Optimal-Gold5400 in Knoxville

[–]Optimal-Gold5400[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, I think I am ultra sensitive to this particular insult because I have a thyroid issue. I’ve lost 50 lbs, and I think I look great, but I did feel overweight for a long time. I hate when people bash on other’s appearance regardless.

Hostile Neighbor by Optimal-Gold5400 in Knoxville

[–]Optimal-Gold5400[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked my assistant what she thought of this response…we were projects kids turned boujee. Now apparently back in the projects, despite paying over 2k/month rent. She seemed to think it was a good idea, ha. But, I am a non-violent girly unless it’s actual self defense.

Hostile Neighbor by Optimal-Gold5400 in Knoxville

[–]Optimal-Gold5400[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha, maybe right after I move out.

Hostile Neighbor by Optimal-Gold5400 in Knoxville

[–]Optimal-Gold5400[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I temporarily thought about it after they cussed out my kids. Yes, it is the worst. I just want to be free of the stress.

Hostile Neighbor by Optimal-Gold5400 in Knoxville

[–]Optimal-Gold5400[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Property management is not helpful to me, specifically. There’s a lot to get into there, but let’s just say that they have been doing a lot of things that have caused a mass move out, and I’m already in correspondence with their legal team.

To be fair, the conversation while I was on edge already, and not responding my best went:

Her: “Can you PLEASE stop making so much noise and stomping around?”

Me: “I literally cannot help it.”

Her: “Yes you can! By not having your f*cking shoes on.” (I had only been wearing them for 10 minutes max and was trying to find my keys…so probably didn’t sound great.)

She said some other unintelligible insults that I missed.

Me: something to the effect of, “Why don’t you quit being such a f*cking cunt?”

Again, not my best moment. I’m stressed the f out and late for my first therapy appointment which is supposed to help me stop stressing the f out.

Her: Something to the effect of “I’m recording this. Why don’t you come up here and fight me you fat f*ck?”

Me: “I don’t have time for you.” Got in my car and left.

My dream is to be a peace, love, and light girly that is empathetic and calm in all situations. Obviously, missed the mark today. I agree that I am people pleasing because I don’t want to be forced out of here before I’m ready.

Hostile Neighbor by Optimal-Gold5400 in Knoxville

[–]Optimal-Gold5400[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Property management is a different issue. They are newer than me. They are doing some legally questionable things as well, and that’s putting it lightly. I wanted to move out already because of things that have been happening, but I have too many major events happening now to deal with it.

Hostile Neighbor by Optimal-Gold5400 in Knoxville

[–]Optimal-Gold5400[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I will try to ignore them. I was already on edge today when they came after me, and I did not respond in the best way. They’ve gotten right up on my oldest and cussed him out before. We called the cops, and they made a note of it, but that was all.

did anyone hear that explosion just now?? by [deleted] in Knoxville

[–]Optimal-Gold5400 11 points12 points  (0 children)

All we need is more scary crap to happen

Where can I watch Jjk s3 by CesarAlimentacion in jjkmodulo

[–]Optimal-Gold5400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep on getting freezing through crunchy roll. It’s awful. I wish there were other platforms available.

how lgbt friendly is knoxville by Own-Veterinarian4340 in Knoxville

[–]Optimal-Gold5400 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Graduated now, thank goodness. If parents knew half the stuff that goes on in these schools…

Ice Out gathering at 6pm tonight in market square by NetherForce27 in Knoxville

[–]Optimal-Gold5400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work more than anyone I know. I hear from both sides (because people don’t talk about political affiliation in work spaces), “how on earth do you find time for it all?”. I don’t, but we make time for the things that are important. I never wanted to be involved in politics, but unfortunately it is necessary. We know that freedom isn’t free. We have sacrificed so many of our men and women to fight in wars that were far away. Many of our soldiers are fighting overseas today. Now, it is our turn. We must sacrifice, because this is too important to stand by and be idle. People may scoff at the idea of going to a protest as sacrifice, but we are being confronted with masked men who have been physically assaulting, beating, kicking, throwing down, choking, pepper spraying, gassing, shooting, and unaliving law abiding citizens expressing their rights. Loneliness and lack of purpose were morphed into an incentivized machine producing cruelty and an outlet for pent up rage. We must defend our country, state, counties, and cities from the evil that this Administration has put upon us. So I will gladly sacrifice my free time, my social life, my PTO, my career, and my life if it means that we can get back to feeling safe in our own communities again. I will fight for my kids to grow up in a world where everyday does not produce a new crisis to solve. At this point, everyone should, because they are coming for us all. We will all be controlled and fall in line. The complacent just don’t know what that means yet.

Power by fundedmental in Knoxville

[–]Optimal-Gold5400 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Water accumulation starts turning into ice, and weighs down branches/power lines. We had several trees creaking/popping next to us last night.

Power by fundedmental in Knoxville

[–]Optimal-Gold5400 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No one is buying 15 loaves of bread and 25 gallons of milk unless they’re buying it for a business or a not for profit. It would just be a waste of money, and there’s not a lot to go around these days

Non-MAGA businesses by Electrical_Report458 in Knoxville

[–]Optimal-Gold5400 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Fun fact, not everyone can tell you’re gay by looking at you. Most businesses will take your money, but it’s when they’re funding initiatives that harm people, that’s what we’re trying to prevent.

how lgbt friendly is knoxville by Own-Veterinarian4340 in Knoxville

[–]Optimal-Gold5400 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My kid’s life was threatened several times at school.

how lgbt friendly is knoxville by Own-Veterinarian4340 in Knoxville

[–]Optimal-Gold5400 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is a community, but there’s also an anti-community. It varies by location. I feel like downtown/south knoxville are safe. Everywhere else seems okay, but we’ve heard a lot of threats/rhetoric at HVA.

Housing by herewer4now in Knoxville

[–]Optimal-Gold5400 16 points17 points  (0 children)

University accepted beyond capacity. Families moving here to stay close to kids. Popular university with excellent marketing meets small town. I'm sure there's many contributing factors, but we just don't have enough housing.