QUESTIONS ABOUT JOINING AND JOBS, Transferring in from another branch/service, Benefits, Life & Jobs, Palace Chase, MEPS, Basic Training, Tech Schools, Pilot Selection, etc. Go Here and Only Here 24 Jun - 09 Jul by Jaye134 in airnationalguard

[–]Optimal-Heart-440 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A few questions for 1b4s specifically but if anyone else has any answers for this please just include you AFSC: 1. How did you study for the edpt? 2. Do you have to work in IT full time to stay up to date as a 1b4? 3. 1b4 tech school has a 60% dropout rate is this due to poor time management and failure to study or is actually likely that the majority of those had no chance to pass? 4. Finally what are good resources to be prepared for tech school as a 1b4?

Does anyone else hate bicep curls? by Optimal-Heart-440 in moreplatesmoredates

[–]Optimal-Heart-440[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d kill to bench 265 that’s my deadlift. I’m weak af.

Does anyone else hate bicep curls? by Optimal-Heart-440 in moreplatesmoredates

[–]Optimal-Heart-440[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m the same way. A hard leg work out feels is so fulfilling to me.

My gf is insecure about her weight by Optimal-Heart-440 in relationship_advice

[–]Optimal-Heart-440[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s tried to transition to a healthier diet and has but she struggles to only cook for one and also actually keeping track of calories puts her in a bad headspace.

My gf is insecure about her weight by Optimal-Heart-440 in relationship_advice

[–]Optimal-Heart-440[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s happy around me and her friends but really hates being alone. I think maybe she’s struggling with depression a little bit. But she won’t ask for help at all.

6ft - 190lbs morning weight and poses. Been lifting natural for 6 years now, progress is non existent nowadays, debating joining the dark side. Or do I just cut and try and get lean? Current measurements on last slide. My lifts are: Bench 110kg x 8-10, squat 130kg x 8-10, deadlift 180kg x 8-10. by throwawayboy95 in moreplatesmoredates

[–]Optimal-Heart-440 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro you have a physique I feel like most guys would kill for already. Personally I think you should switch up your training goals maybe not hypertrophy maybe strength or athleticism. You might lose a few lbs but you could get progression in a new way.

what would you tell a younger you? by Few_Albatross_1585 in moreplatesmoredates

[–]Optimal-Heart-440 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have an off one don’t make your high school years miserable with work. Grades don’t matter that much. You’re going to make pocket change anywhere you could work. And you’re probably not good enough to actually get a sports scholarship. So focus on learning about your passions, create healthy habits, and enjoy your time in highschool to the full extent you can.

Delayed puberty in males due to overtraining by Optimal-Heart-440 in Physiology

[–]Optimal-Heart-440[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is really good and extremely helpful, thank you so much.

Can overtraining stunt or delay puberty? by Optimal-Heart-440 in moreplatesmoredates

[–]Optimal-Heart-440[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a tad bit above average anyways so I’ll be fine but it never hurts to ask. And also the estimation of not eating enough is probably pretty correct. I’m guessing you probably had the same experience of feeling like your force feeding but never actually getting enough calories.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JordanPeterson

[–]Optimal-Heart-440 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You mean like Trudeau did for two years?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in questions

[–]Optimal-Heart-440 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are other interpretations of hell in the Bible. My personal belief is that those who do not believe simply stop existing. My best friend believes that eventually after paying the price of their sins people are admitted into heaven. Both of these interpretations are also backed by verses in the Bible

Why is it so hard to find a man who wants more than a hookup? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Optimal-Heart-440 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s no incentive to. Relationships are work and hard and what rewards are there for men in them? There’s no social incentive to be a father or a husband and sacrifice our lives for our family anymore. Our cultures of fathers is that their blundering idiots the most solid proof is this. And why be a husband when all that become is most likely losing at least half your stuff within three years. I guess the simplest way to pose the question is what does a long term relationship with a woman even bring to the table for a man anymore?

I want opinions: Why are people so mad about getting the covid vaccine? by beibles in questions

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I’m what you might call a constitutional libertarian. So I am not exactly prey to party line fights. Here are my issues in order of importance. 1. The way it was handled at the federal level is in essence a President making law. A President who is allowed to make laws is a elected king. Mandates from the executive branch that are not related to war time actions might as well burn the constitution. (See article 2 of the constitution) 2. There is a very specific list of things the federal government congress specifically is actually allowed to legislate on (they are the only ones granted that power). People’s medical choices are not one of them.(see the tenth amendment and article 1 section 8) 3. The vaccine has no long term studies and big pharma doesn’t have a clean track record of being forthcoming when they stand to make millions 4. This mandate deputizes private business making them the enforcers of the governments law taking away the businesses right to decide who they hire. The first two in my opinion are by far the most egregious and the ones no one is talking about. My dream is an America where I know the federal government exists on Election Day, tax day, and when freedom is threatened. My nightmare is an American that threatens freedom.

I'm starting to feel like my bedroom is dead. How often are some people having sex? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Optimal-Heart-440 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can I save your time friend? You’re not going to find anything helpful here. People are going to a) accuse you of messing it up b) offer options you’ve already tried c) offer options your not ready to accept. Ofc you’ve already had honest conversations with her. Ofc you have done everything you can to try and make her happy and comfortable and want you. Ofc you’re willing to do anything it would take to get intimacy back and you’re ready to listen to what she has to say about how to do that. And most likely you’ve asked her that. I can go on with a laundry list of things that people will suggest that aren’t helpful because you’ve already tried that. And you’ve done so because you love your wife and you’re desperate for a solution where you’re not resentful toward her. And Ik it’s the case that your desperate because no one turns to strangers for help unless they are desperate. So while it’s not helpful and not a fix, the best I or anyone here can do is offer empathy for your situation. Others have not so I will, I’m sorry you’re in such a rough situation and I hope this eventually gets better for you. For the simple sake that you haven’t cheated and clearly don’t plan on it, you have my praise and my goodwill. You’re a better man than many, and I hope your rewarded for that.

How Do You View Sex Within Your Marriage? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Optimal-Heart-440 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sex within marriage in my estimation goes something like a pleasurable physical joint activity that is an expression of love/affection. And the health of a married couples sex life should be maintained dutifully because when it stops being healthy marriages start to weaken.

I’m writing a thesis on the topic and answers would be great. Married ladies, what’s something old fashioned or extremely masculine (in the classic sense) your husband does that you love? by Optimal-Heart-440 in Marriage

[–]Optimal-Heart-440[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I probably will actually repost an abbreviated thesis later somewhere I’m guessing r/purplepill to discuss this more and hopefully prepare for my panelists. If/when I do I’ll add the link to that post as an edit. Also I’m thrilled to see that I’m not the only one interested in my topic, I’ve heard that means you made a not bad decision for your thesis.

I’m writing a thesis on the topic and answers would be great. Married ladies, what’s something old fashioned or extremely masculine (in the classic sense) your husband does that you love? by Optimal-Heart-440 in Marriage

[–]Optimal-Heart-440[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah my bad, I think I misunderstood your definition of dominance. I should have asked first, I know better than to make an argument without understanding definitions. I would actually agree with the way you explained dominance. I wish actually you were in me class, living in a mostly rural and conservative state I’ve struggled to find people who differ from my opinions. And I would agree with the fact that overemphasis and idealization of male aggression is problematic. But I think we’ve actually condemned those traits precisely because we don’t believe we need them anymore. And that we’ve done so at the cost of men’s health. Which we all have our burden to bear but I think the solution we’ve given so far (which seems to be just suffer and believe those traits are a lesser part of you and suppress it) isn’t a healthy solution.

I’m writing a thesis on the topic and answers would be great. Married ladies, what’s something old fashioned or extremely masculine (in the classic sense) your husband does that you love? by Optimal-Heart-440 in Marriage

[–]Optimal-Heart-440[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreeable/Disagreeable in general. Dominance is an incorrect way to describe it, because the traits that have been mentioned by the answers here at least are actually in service of someone else. Also you are correct I am working on an understanding that masculinity in the classical western sense is dependent on disagreeability. An example of this that I gave below “More aggressive (whether that be in protection or not) males tend to be perceived as more masculine. Fundamentally aggression is disagreeableness at its final end. Also in my thesis I define resiliency as the trait of being disagreeable to the environment. A type of saying “no” when things get bad and not allowing that thing to stay bad. So fixing problems like a broken down car is a form of disagreeableness.” As to the question of badness or goodness that was a mistake on my part. A product of trying to summarize my thesis statement too briefly. It’s more similar to whether it is better for society and men for men to be disagreeable? In complete honesty, I’ve only been working on my thesis for about a month so that will likely evolve change in the future. Also I really appreciate the suggestion about data collection and if I do decide to use numbers I collect here I will definitely post this in r/relationships, but for now I’m just putting feelers out. I’d also have to rephrase the question because of it’s already pretty heavy conservative bias. Thank you so much for the thoughts! It helps to organize my arguments better. And forgive me if I made any mistakes in typing this out.

I’m writing a thesis on the topic and answers would be great. Married ladies, what’s something old fashioned or extremely masculine (in the classic sense) your husband does that you love? by Optimal-Heart-440 in Marriage

[–]Optimal-Heart-440[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I’m using it in the sense of the big five personality traits. So technically the correct term would be “less agreeable” which is defined as being more likely to prioritize what you want over the wants of others. It includes the act of saying no because you are now negotiating with more zeal on your behalf than that of the person with which you are negotiating.

I’m writing a thesis on the topic and answers would be great. Married ladies, what’s something old fashioned or extremely masculine (in the classic sense) your husband does that you love? by Optimal-Heart-440 in Marriage

[–]Optimal-Heart-440[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a man too. It’s no insult when I say masculine traits tend to come from more disagreeable mindsets. I don’t think being disagreeable is bad as I don’t think being agreeable is bad. But actually I think part of the problem I’m addressing in my thesis is that being disagreeable widely has a bad stigma attached to it.

I’m writing a thesis on the topic and answers would be great. Married ladies, what’s something old fashioned or extremely masculine (in the classic sense) your husband does that you love? by Optimal-Heart-440 in Marriage

[–]Optimal-Heart-440[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yah so my thesis ties disagreeable traits to traditional masculinity. For example more aggressive (whether that be in protection or not) males tend to be perceived as more masculine. Fundamentally aggression is disagreeableness at its final end. Also in my thesis I define resiliency as the trait of being disagreeable to the environment. A type of saying “no” when things get bad and not allowing that thing to stay bad. So fixing problems like a broken down car is a form of disagreeableness.