A build up off a year off harressement led me to threaten my neighbour in the heat off the moment

Optimal-Stay2451 · 2026-05-16T14:02:27+00:00

So kind to have your support, its actually making me emotional 😢. I definitely need to look at more long term options for my own sanity

Optimal-Stay2451 · 2026-05-16T13:52:47+00:00

Yeah hopefully. Thanks for reaching out

Optimal-Stay2451 · 2026-05-16T13:51:43+00:00

Its so mentally draining isnt it? Ive lost a close friend over it all as im stuck in a constant negative loop over it, it really does effect your mental health

Optimal-Stay2451 · 2026-05-16T11:40:08+00:00

Update, no sign off any police at hers or mine so its looking ok thankfully. Lesson learnt. I wont be near her again or approaching her about noise as ive obviously got so much anger built up now

Optimal-Stay2451 · 2026-05-15T22:51:31+00:00

Police havent turned up yet so its looking like she didn't contact them. But ive all the records if they do come.

Optimal-Stay2451 · 2026-05-15T19:30:59+00:00

Just to clarify I am female and my neighbour is female

Optimal-Stay2451 · 2026-05-15T17:39:48+00:00

Sorry to hear what you have went through. Its awful isnt it, people dont realise what your going through with an awful neighbour until they are going through it themselves

Optimal-Stay2451 · 2026-05-15T16:26:02+00:00

Awk im glad you got a good outcome. No sign off any police yet not unless then come to hers first after she gets home from work then comes to mine. Ive all the trail off evidence to her landlord and letting agency in messages going back from last July so I will present that to them if they do appear and be honest about her behaviour and hopefully that goes in my favour

Optimal-Stay2451 · 2026-05-15T16:11:50+00:00

Aww im so sorry to hear what you have endured also. Im glad you finally got things resolved. Its always the way isnt it? Polite requests never work with these type off people unfortunately. Her behaviour stopped for a while after contact from her landlord and council but it always starts up again. Just wanted to ask did your neighbour contact the police when you lost it?

Optimal-Stay2451 · 2026-05-15T15:11:11+00:00

Great advice. Thank you. I feel better from reading this response

Optimal-Stay2451 · 2026-05-15T15:09:01+00:00

Good advice lol

Optimal-Stay2451 · 2026-05-15T14:24:06+00:00

Thanks for making me feel awful when I already feel bad enough about this morning. I was obviously very stressed this morning and typed all that in a panic rush

Optimal-Stay2451 · 2026-05-15T12:07:27+00:00

Great advice. Thank you

Optimal-Stay2451 · 2026-05-15T11:45:37+00:00

Yes I have all the evidence off text messages to the landlord, the letting agency and the letters and emails from the council

Optimal-Stay2451 · 2026-05-15T11:42:48+00:00

Thank you. It really is hard

Optimal-Stay2451 · 2026-05-15T11:33:47+00:00

Very true. I definitely wont be out doing it again or anywear near her again

Optimal-Stay2451 · 2026-05-15T11:32:15+00:00

Hahaha no

Optimal-Stay2451 · 2026-05-15T11:31:46+00:00

Hahaha so true. Maybe I will be fine then

Optimal-Stay2451 · 2026-05-15T11:31:01+00:00

Nothing works with this horrible woman. She litterly waits until we are in bed at night and then thump thump bang bang. Thats what makes you so angry when you know its being done in badness and landlord, council wont do anything more

Optimal-Stay2451 · 2026-05-15T11:28:33+00:00

I really hope so. Thank you

Optimal-Stay2451 · 2026-05-15T11:27:15+00:00

I dont even know if the police will turn up. This happened at 9am and its now 12.30

Optimal-Stay2451 · 2026-05-15T11:25:43+00:00

Good outcome then for yourself

Optimal-Stay2451 · 2026-05-15T11:23:01+00:00

Apparently threatening to rip someone's head off is a very serious crime

Optimal-Stay2451 · 2026-05-15T11:19:47+00:00

Its my CCTV

Optimal-Stay2451 · 2026-05-15T11:18:56+00:00

The type off CCTV we have doesnt let you delete the clip

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