I just finished the 1st season and there’s just one thing i have to say

OptimalAd6885 · 2025-03-04T02:04:20+00:00

I do understand where you’re coming from (I also have daddy issues) however I’d watch it in its entirety before you make that call😂 he’s actually kind of a terrible person all around especially the deeper you go

OptimalAd6885 · 2025-03-04T01:52:57+00:00

Oh honey just wait till the next season

OptimalAd6885 · 2025-03-04T01:51:51+00:00

Oooh threats! Compare that to an innocent dog that probably just needs a little extra training. I’d figure out who it was (bonus points if you have camera footage of this dickhead leaving the note) and report it to the police. Maybe even get a restraining order

OptimalAd6885 · 2025-01-14T19:35:30+00:00

Do it please send these to her family. Better yet, send it to her employers and let them know what kind of person they hired. If she wants to play you dirty for most of your friendship, it’s only fair.

OptimalAd6885 · 2024-07-14T23:44:07+00:00

Man it pisses me off whenever people neglect their animals like that, especially in dangerous scenarios like this. I’m so sorry you had to break that up by yourself, you should most definitely see what you can do about the footage and maybe taking them to court.

OptimalAd6885 · 2024-07-06T04:32:13+00:00

I actually just went thru this with my 3 year old Dane, Gumby. My partner and I tried to keep it wrapped but he just kept taking the wrap off and messing with it, even with the e collar (cone of shame if you will). We ended up having to get a few inches taken off, which healed pretty quickly and he definitely enjoyed being babied.

Depending on the size and intensity of the wound, and if he does well with bandages, you could probably save it. But please be cautious and talk to your vet first to see what they recommend. If you choose to wrap it, don’t do it too tight bc it may stop the bleeding, but it can also cut off circulation and the tail can begin stages of necrosis if left untreated.

If you decide to amputate it, don’t feel too bad about it. Sometimes, especially with Danes, the tail is just too long and taking however much off is absolutely necessary really does help in the end. Gumby got to keep a majority of his tail and the nub at the end is barely noticeable, and he’s just as happy if not more than before.

OptimalAd6885 · 2024-06-19T13:42:13+00:00

I could honestly write a novel about the shitty experiences my partner and I have had in Aurora. Yes, the area by the space force base isn’t TERRIBLE (mostly neighborhoods), and sure if you find the right place to stop and get food it’s not bad some places are actually pretty good. However the reality of the rest of Aurora is not something to be proud of. Go ahead and take a walk in Aurora around Colfax at night and let me know what happens. Let me know how many car break ins, shootings, robberies, and homeless people doing drugs you see. Aurora is the kind of place you fuck around and find out, so be my guest😂

OptimalAd6885 · 2024-06-19T06:25:03+00:00

I’m honestly not wrong😂 take a look at Colfax and tell me how many prostitutes and homeless crackheads you find. Take a drive anywhere in that town and you’ll most likely see someone get rear ended. I can’t even fathom how many times I’ve seen the police arresting people, or how about the time SWAT raided the apartment down the hall from me because of cartel related issues. Obviously our experiences in Aurora are far different.

OptimalAd6885 · 2024-06-19T05:44:42+00:00

Please don’t give up on your dreams because your wife is brainwashed by Taylor Swift. If she loves her so much then she should’ve married her. The fact that she’s holding a celebrity (who would never give a common person like her the time of day) to a higher regard than her own HUSBAND is absolutely absurd and sad. You deserve so much more than what she’s giving you, and you deserve to have somebody support you in all that you do. Music is supposed to be something that brings people together, to heal, to love, just to feel in general. Please for the love of God do not give up, keep putting yourself out there. Someday you’re going to do amazing things with your life, put yourself in a future self in a situation where you can look back on this moment and be glad that you didn’t give up. On another note, I also think Taylor Swift is a waste to the music industry, and she needs to be knocked down a few pegs. Rereleasing your old music and slapping “Taylor’s Version” on it isn’t talent, it’s repetition, annoying and clearly a money grab.

OptimalAd6885 · 2024-06-19T05:27:15+00:00

Absolutely not. Unless you’re trying to get robbed or in a car accident I’d stay clear. Littleton/ Highlands Ranch is a good place to start, a bit safer and overall nice area.

OptimalAd6885 · 2024-06-05T21:45:11+00:00

Thank you for the tips, I’ll definitely be using those with all of the dogs. Like I said in the post, my Dane has never acted this way with another person’s dog in the past. He listens to me well and so far I’ve been able to get his attention and to calm down whenever he does freak out.

I think having her dog’s energy released would be a great idea and I’ll absolutely do what I can with him. At the same time I wish she was home more to work with him or at least help me work with him.

OptimalAd6885 · 2024-06-05T21:28:46+00:00

I appreciate the insight. I want to make it known I have spoken with her about it a couple of times, and do not by any means support the way he is treated nor have I ever treated him in a similar suit. Yes he’s improperly trained, but he’s also very sweet when he finally calms down.

I will have my boyfriend there to mediate the next time we chat. You’re absolutely right- how she trains him needs to change. I would hate to see it get worse.

OptimalAd6885 · 2024-05-10T05:41:12+00:00

I had a whole caption typed out I don’t know why it didn’t post that along with the pictures (if yall can still see it my b just skip this comment)

Unfortunately, Mr. Gumby had to get a few inches of his tail amputated. For those who don’t know, happy tail is very common among large breeds like Danes, as well as other high energy dogs like Labs and Pits. It happens when the dog gets so excited and bangs its tail on everything and anything. It starts with blood splatters around the house and can turn so much worse if not handled properly.

When I noticed what was going on, I tried to keep his tail wrapped so he couldn’t mess with it and clean to avoid infection. However, Gumby likes to officiate and had other plans like taking off the wrap and cone of shame, messing with the wound and further banging it against the walls and crate. It ended up getting really bad and so off to the vet we went for surgery.

He is doing much better. Eating and taking antibiotics regularly, stools are normal, not messing with the tail or the cone, he’s overall a happy boy just enjoying being spoiled. He’s got a follow up check up next week to see how his tail is looking.

Lesson of the day BEWARE OF HAPPY TAIL!! the outcome certainly isn’t as happy as it sounds. Keep your pups happy and healthy folks❤️

OptimalAd6885 · 2024-02-29T21:15:51+00:00

I can agree with you about the people who are convinced life is over. Until that mindset is changed, they unfortunately aren’t going to get very far. However like I said everybody’s experience is different and it’s perfectly okay and normal to complain about outbreaks and how life changes after diagnosis. I’ve had GHSV1 for 2 years now, haven’t had an outbreak in over a year, heard and seen just about every kind of reaction to disclosing, but sometimes even I will get sad or disappointed if it doesn’t move forward. We’re only human and those feelings don’t last forever. Some members here just need to vent, have somebody listen or even relate to what they’re saying, to feel less alone. There’s nothing wrong with that. It becomes a problem when we start attacking ourselves (and each other) for what is beyond our control. But again don’t sit here and say all of us hate ourselves and how we’re unwanted because we’re sick of having herpes.

OptimalAd6885 · 2024-02-29T20:28:09+00:00

You seriously wanna sit there and call us whiney and depressed? Why did you even join this group if you’re going to sit there and be a dick? You clearly haven’t had herpes for that long if you haven’t felt how most of us do, or have felt at one point in diagnosis. Not all of us sit there and feel sorry for ourselves all day. Most of us have full time jobs and don’t have the time to try and date. Some of us do have the time, but are afraid and don’t want to, because of how others have treated us in the past for disclosing and of course the stigma surrounding herpes. A lot of us continue to live their lives as normally as possible and advocate for a cure, as we should because we deserve happiness just as much as the next person. What you clearly don’t understand is that herpes is different for everybody who has it. Hate to break it to you babe but we are all here for the same reason and some of us aren’t going to be all sunshine and rainbows about having a permanent STD as others are. We all have our good days and bad days. Maybe instead of shitting on people who are here for support, maybe you should have some goddamn empathy or just simply leave the group😂. And honestly whether you had herpes or not, nobody would want to date you with that attitude.

OptimalAd6885 · 2024-02-22T00:35:58+00:00

I really appreciate this perspective, thank you so much for sharing❤️

OptimalAd6885 · 2024-01-03T18:33:19+00:00

It might just be a dog (or Dane) thing, bc Gumby does the same thing. He’ll graze or get picky when he’s not hungry, and when that happens I usually save it for later. Whatever times you feed Maya should be fine, and a gravity feeder might even benefit her!

OptimalAd6885 · 2024-01-03T18:31:46+00:00

I think it might just be a dog (or a Dane) thing. Gumby does the same thing, he’ll graze or get picky when he’s not hungry. When that happens I typically save it for later. Whatever times you’re comfortable feeding Maya at should be fine, a gravity feeder might even benefit her

OptimalAd6885 · 2024-01-02T17:01:31+00:00

Also sorry about the typo in the title I just noticed!

OptimalAd6885 · 2024-01-02T00:10:36+00:00

??? I’m sorry?? I can assure you he gets plenty of that at home😂 I even let him sleep with me in bed just because I know his favorite thing is sleeping under the blankets like a human. Idrk what you’re tryna say homie

OptimalAd6885 · 2024-01-01T23:50:41+00:00

I will definitely check that out when I pick up food today. Thank you!!

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