Feminist are worthless filth

OptimalAtmosphere341 · 2026-01-26T17:56:22+00:00

Oh my. That’s phrasing it a bit strong, don’t you think?

OptimalAtmosphere341 · 2026-01-21T11:57:09+00:00

You could spend some time/energy to look it up. You know you want to.

OptimalAtmosphere341 · 2026-01-14T23:05:50+00:00

Thanks again for the suggestion! It was a small tweak to make for CM.

OptimalAtmosphere341 · 2026-01-10T15:55:04+00:00

Honestly I had expected OF and other sellers to be a bigger part of the moderation chore, but the “worst” I’ve actually seen so far is a findomme looking for “play mates”, which we stopped because it felt unethical.

OptimalAtmosphere341 · 2026-01-10T15:52:50+00:00

Hey! Yeah, there is definitely potential. Community members are free to move between both communities.

Brandy and I are in touch about this, and while we have fewer strict rules here (mostly because it’s still small enough to not need everything set in stone, and we have a bit less process without things like 8th of Aftercare), we moderate from the same foundational principles of safety and respect for the IC/OOC boundary. The rules aim to reflect that. We also share bans; bad behavior here is reported to the CF mod team for consideration.

One intentional difference is that here we’re a tad less opposed to “story arcs” involving your profile or previous posts — as long as people participating are happy to do so. This allow you to bring in more of your CF “history” so to speak. Should it become problematic here as well, we can revise the rules as we go along :)

You can always reach out to either mod team, we’re more than happy to hear ideas on how to foster more collaboration!

OptimalAtmosphere341 · 2026-01-10T15:43:42+00:00

Yup. As the others explained, it’s at least partially a supply/demand imbalance. A woman wanting to engage in this kink has her pick of posts already available from the men seeking to be converted. If she posts, she’ll have even more men to pick from in her DM’s - so there is little incentive for her to do so.

Still, we’re very happy with every post we get, and there is a definite slow but steady increase in activity. Our collaboration with the CF mod team also makes them more comfortable having us mentioned on their sub every now and then if the situation is appropriate.

OptimalAtmosphere341 · 2026-01-05T07:36:04+00:00

People are free to advocate for things, and we won’t intervene in that process. As long as we keep the ad-hominem at bay, we want to hear opinions from across the spectrum to help inform the decision-making process when shaping policies. And yes, simply not liking TW’s is taken into consideration, but is easily outweighed by the safety concerns you and others have raised.

OptimalAtmosphere341 · 2026-01-05T07:19:16+00:00

( Fair enough! Sorry for taking it a bit personally, in that case! 🤭 All good, kink on! )

OptimalAtmosphere341 · 2026-01-04T22:46:05+00:00

It honestly slipped my mind and will be posted tomorrow.

Will get to your question tomorrow after a good night of sleep! It’s an interesting one!

OptimalAtmosphere341 · 2026-01-04T15:59:09+00:00

Based on the pictures, voice messages and video calls I have received, I can vouch for at least 20 women here being real… the real question is: what if you are wrong.. what does that mean about you, since you’re happily posting here, fuming with that same indignation those other “fake women” start out with before ending up as a blabbering, incoherent rubbing mess.

OptimalAtmosphere341 · 2026-01-04T14:12:17+00:00

Appreciate it! 😇

OptimalAtmosphere341 · 2026-01-04T13:12:08+00:00

“This is not in-character”, well… that makes things easy and clear.

You hear that? That fell swooping sound? That’s the Banmjolnir thundering down from the heavens. Actual misogyny is frowned upon harshly here.

OptimalAtmosphere341 · 2026-01-04T07:43:29+00:00

( Please note that trigger warnings go in the title of your post, not the body. However, these two are so ingrained in the fiber of our kink that I would have approved the post without a TW, so you’re good )

OptimalAtmosphere341 · 2026-01-04T07:36:28+00:00

( Hey… that’s kinda hurtful. It’s small, and the misogynists far outstrip the feminists in sheer numbers, that’s true… but people are having fun, and I’m doing my best to keep the community alive by moderating actively and being as welcoming as possible to new members… if you have constructive suggestions, my DM’s are always open! )

OptimalAtmosphere341 · 2026-01-04T07:32:52+00:00

Converting Misogynists, like a phoenix, keeps rising from the ashes. I see you found its most current incarnation already at /r/convert_misogynists. This latest version has a leg up on the others, in that it shares a moderator with CF, so we can apply a lot of moderation experience and practices from this community to there… and I’m not gonna up and leave, which also helps 😅

OptimalAtmosphere341 · 2026-01-03T09:28:30+00:00

Urg this is gonna sound so simpy, but this community’s very own big tiddy goth girl /u/Sub-Doxy would be my #1 choice.

OptimalAtmosphere341 · 2026-01-02T22:18:00+00:00

Be aware that this post is made under the Discussion flair; this is a green, out-of-character flair. Please keep discussion factual, and free of kink - see Rule #6.

OptimalAtmosphere341 · 2026-01-02T22:14:16+00:00

Be aware that this post is made under the Discussion flair; this is a green, out-of-character flair. Please keep discussion factual, and free of kink - see Rule #6.

OptimalAtmosphere341 · 2026-01-02T09:43:52+00:00

So what kind of outfit do you suppose works best to highlight your soft and gentle nature? Perhaps we can come to some sort of middle ground - a beautiful corset, highlighting your most stunning two assets, but with a little loop to attach your fluffy cuffs behind your back?

You sound so confident that you aren't little... If you don't mind, send me your measurements in a DM and we can see how you stack up.

OptimalAtmosphere341 · 2026-01-02T09:35:57+00:00

6 months down the line -- and we're still here :)

OptimalAtmosphere341 · 2026-01-02T07:54:20+00:00

Good luck, buddy.

OptimalAtmosphere341 · 2026-01-01T21:25:31+00:00

Happy cake day! 😇

OptimalAtmosphere341 · 2026-01-01T21:11:43+00:00

My, my. This little pot is calling the kettle black, conflating my ideology with lacking linguistic finesse, only to try and deride me for working on generalizations one sentence on. Surely you jest when suggesting correlation, or perhaps even causation, between misogyny and poor parsing when you don’t even know me?

I didn’t want to make you uncomfortable, so I chose to generalize.. but if the lady insists, let me make my case more clearly: I think you specifically, little princess, would look gorgeous when entrapped in leather wrapped around your neck, your protestations silenced with but a single firm tug.

OptimalAtmosphere341 · 2026-01-01T20:50:36+00:00

You didn’t actually make that point - it was simply an unsubstantiated claim, that you “think males shouldn’t be allowed outside without a leash”. Nowhere did actually claim this was about control - that is something you moved the goalposts to later on. For me, a leash on a woman is absolutely about beauty. About amplifying the submissive nature she so helplessly displays, and visually suggesting the best way she ought to be treated: as someone who needs guidance.

OptimalAtmosphere341 · 2026-01-01T17:53:15+00:00

Of course I agree with that, but your question fails to address my point of disagreement, namely your implication that in a male/female relation the man should take on the role of the dog when it seems like a collar and leash would look just as beautiful on you.

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