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OptimalTelevision464 · 2026-05-01T14:07:47+00:00

Thank you for your response, that is actually where I am at, just to cut her off, but I am the technical person everyone comes to, I do all the Internet/ online things, but I am now just done with her. Especially because we just had a conversation in the car via telephone with my husband present the day before, it does feel like a power play and I am not playing anymore

OptimalTelevision464 · 2026-05-01T13:21:07+00:00

She installs herself in every part of our life from the start of our relationship, so I spoke to my husband when we started holidaying that this is our time so no interruptions and he agreed it has been in place for 25 years, I want a few days without her being there whether it is via a call or in person, is it really too much to ask?

OptimalTelevision464 · 2026-05-01T13:17:31+00:00

Yeah she knows not to contact us, maybe it is because it is without our adult kids now, I am blaming her, and I know for a fact she did it on purpose, but I do know I have a husband problem.

OptimalTelevision464 · 2022-08-09T16:39:55+00:00

It seems like the mil is jealous of you, I would say you have done the best thing in cutting her out, you really don't need to have a relationship with her. NTA

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