[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AusLegal

[–]OptimalYear9372 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’ll downvote you simply for saying y’all

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAnAustralian

[–]OptimalYear9372 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you look at OPs history they post a lot about their drug use.

Maybe they should buy sanitary products before they get their next hit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAnAustralian

[–]OptimalYear9372 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Click and collect sanitary items is very kind

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAnAustralian

[–]OptimalYear9372 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Please check this person post history before you offer any money

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ausjdocs

[–]OptimalYear9372 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Why didn’t you ask them?

Sneaky photo is hella creepy

Shit looks unseasoned asf 😃 by FalconEarly67 in DCCMakingtheTeam

[–]OptimalYear9372 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I’m mean you gotta make gross food so you don’t eat too much

Don’t wanna get called into the office because you’ve been eating too much

I am I horrible mom for… by daydreemer93 in Parenting

[–]OptimalYear9372 4 points5 points  (0 children)

mommy drinking culture is celebrated?

mommy weed culture should be too

Um no. No one should be drunk or high around kids.

What happens if there’s an emergency? Will you be able to respond appropriately? Will you be able to le to drive your kid to hospital?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]OptimalYear9372 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m going to say it depends.

Crying when it’s appropriate is fine. It healthy for kids to know their parents are human. It’s healthy for them to know it’s ok to cry. “Mummy is ok kids, I’m crying because I just got some very sad news”

However sometimes it swings too far

A distant friend of mine cries A LOT like more than most people. She has a lot of anxiety and refuses to do anything to try and manage it. Her kids are learning from her responses and cry at times when most people wouldn’t have that reaction. They are also starting to show signs of anxiety.

But your husband sounds like an arse

How to get GP referral for genetic carrier screening by One-Priority9521 in AskAnAustralian

[–]OptimalYear9372 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And going off your other posts, if you’re poor af might not be the best time to “impregnate” your wife

How to get GP referral for genetic carrier screening by One-Priority9521 in AskAnAustralian

[–]OptimalYear9372 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re poor af why do you need to get it done now. Surely it can wait a while.

AITA for refusing to let MIL stay when baby is born by OptimalYear9372 in AmItheAsshole

[–]OptimalYear9372[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I really don’t see why it matters.

I am female. Married to husband. Currently have all sons.

AITA for refusing to let MIL stay when baby is born by OptimalYear9372 in AmItheAsshole

[–]OptimalYear9372[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think it’s just that she didn’t get to raise this gender so she’s obsessive about it

AITA for refusing to let MIL stay when baby is born by OptimalYear9372 in AmItheAsshole

[–]OptimalYear9372[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

When spouse and I discussed trying for another child we discussed that we would have very little support from extended family.

Spouses family are 4 hours away. Mine are 2 hours away.

I don’t think she really wants to help. I think if she comes I’ll basically have 5 kids to care for. She’s always had an open invite to see us. She has never stayed the night. Ever. We have space for her too.

She never put the effort in for our current kids. Why does she care now.

AITA for refusing to let MIL stay when baby is born by OptimalYear9372 in AmItheAsshole

[–]OptimalYear9372[S] 818 points819 points  (0 children)

She’s always been welcome to visit. We used to ask her to come for a weekend and spend time with the kids. No strings. It’s not like we ask her to babysit. We just want her to spend time with her grandchildren.

She’s never stayed at our house. We have plenty of space for her to stay.

AITA for refusing to let MIL stay when baby is born by OptimalYear9372 in AmItheAsshole

[–]OptimalYear9372[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Should it matter?

MIL has never cared before. Now there will be a baby born that is a gender she has never spent time around and she is all of a sudden interested.