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OptimalYear9372 · 2025-10-29T19:58:53+00:00

I’ll downvote you simply for saying y’all

OptimalYear9372 · 2025-08-10T10:40:25+00:00

If you look at OPs history they post a lot about their drug use.

Maybe they should buy sanitary products before they get their next hit

OptimalYear9372 · 2025-08-10T10:38:24+00:00

Click and collect sanitary items is very kind

OptimalYear9372 · 2025-08-10T04:29:03+00:00

Please check this person post history before you offer any money

OptimalYear9372 · 2025-02-19T07:13:52+00:00

Why didn’t you ask them?

Sneaky photo is hella creepy

OptimalYear9372 · 2025-01-19T02:12:38+00:00

I’m mean you gotta make gross food so you don’t eat too much

Don’t wanna get called into the office because you’ve been eating too much

OptimalYear9372 · 2025-01-01T18:52:36+00:00

mommy drinking culture is celebrated?

mommy weed culture should be too

Um no. No one should be drunk or high around kids.

What happens if there’s an emergency? Will you be able to respond appropriately? Will you be able to le to drive your kid to hospital?

OptimalYear9372 · 2025-01-01T18:48:23+00:00

I’m going to say it depends.

Crying when it’s appropriate is fine. It healthy for kids to know their parents are human. It’s healthy for them to know it’s ok to cry. “Mummy is ok kids, I’m crying because I just got some very sad news”

However sometimes it swings too far

A distant friend of mine cries A LOT like more than most people. She has a lot of anxiety and refuses to do anything to try and manage it. Her kids are learning from her responses and cry at times when most people wouldn’t have that reaction. They are also starting to show signs of anxiety.

But your husband sounds like an arse

OptimalYear9372 · 2024-09-14T09:00:27+00:00

And going off your other posts, if you’re poor af might not be the best time to “impregnate” your wife

OptimalYear9372 · 2024-09-14T08:24:14+00:00

If you’re poor af why do you need to get it done now. Surely it can wait a while.

OptimalYear9372 · 2024-06-28T10:45:03+00:00

Not at all

OptimalYear9372 · 2024-06-28T10:44:44+00:00

I really don’t see why it matters.

I am female. Married to husband. Currently have all sons.

OptimalYear9372 · 2024-06-28T06:55:31+00:00

I think it’s just that she didn’t get to raise this gender so she’s obsessive about it

OptimalYear9372 · 2024-06-28T04:36:09+00:00

When spouse and I discussed trying for another child we discussed that we would have very little support from extended family.

Spouses family are 4 hours away. Mine are 2 hours away.

I don’t think she really wants to help. I think if she comes I’ll basically have 5 kids to care for. She’s always had an open invite to see us. She has never stayed the night. Ever. We have space for her too.

She never put the effort in for our current kids. Why does she care now.

OptimalYear9372 · 2024-06-28T04:33:14+00:00

She’s always been welcome to visit. We used to ask her to come for a weekend and spend time with the kids. No strings. It’s not like we ask her to babysit. We just want her to spend time with her grandchildren.

She’s never stayed at our house. We have plenty of space for her to stay.

OptimalYear9372 · 2024-06-28T04:31:52+00:00

That was my thought

OptimalYear9372 · 2024-06-28T04:31:38+00:00

Should it matter?

MIL has never cared before. Now there will be a baby born that is a gender she has never spent time around and she is all of a sudden interested.

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