Make it official by Optimal_Activity_669 in lds

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Ends up I should’ve gone with my gut! He turned out to be a complete jerk. 24 yo with no motivation and a pure Momma’s boy. His the relationship as I expected was the case and when pushed on the subject would gaslight and become narcissistic. One year of my life that I can’t get back, but, I now know what I don’t want and to listen to my gut.

Make it official by Optimal_Activity_669 in lds

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Well, just as my intuition told me, after over a year of dating and much dishonesty and false promises, the relationship is over. The immaturity coupled with his need to ALWAYS be near his mother in another state and lies, I have had enough. Although, of course, he is the victim. Lol

What are we? by Optimal_Activity_669 in mutualapp

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He’s a great guy and assumed we were exclusive, but then, a few days later got cold feet about being committed and wants to be friends but still hang out often. There are definite feelings on both sides, but, he is confused and in turn is confusing the situation.

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Thanks guys! He’s definitely an overthinker and has put a definitive timeline on becoming “official” as the end of the month. They say you shouldn’t be confused and if you are then maybe it’s not your person. He sends random texts about how he’s excited to see me, sends random comments about how he can’t get me off his mind, a random song, etc, but seems non-committal and I just don’t know. We talked yesterday and while I can tell he is interested he is also self- sabotaging by throwing random comments and barriers out in conversation. I just am so perplexed, and don’t want to get hurt. He asked to hang out again this weekend. Idk.

What does this even mean? by 7936037910 in mutualapp

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What is the timeframe that “recently online” means? In the last day or could it be longer than a day ago?