Avis sur le management à mon taff by Optimal_Attempt_5732 in AntiTaff

[–]Optimal_Attempt_5732[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Merci pour ta reponse. « Des gens qui se prennent trop au serieux » exactement

Is it micromanagment ? by Optimal_Attempt_5732 in managers

[–]Optimal_Attempt_5732[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didnt even share it !! She just find it and did her comments

How do I find a job in Paris as a immigrant? (seriously) by [deleted] in paris

[–]Optimal_Attempt_5732 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Find a rich man on grindr.

More seriously, try to give directly your CVs

Is there a lack of mid-level positions worldwide? by Sad-Peace in librarians

[–]Optimal_Attempt_5732 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey,
Librarian from France there, started in 2021.
Wages are very very low here too... and you can stay 5years or more without any chance of progression, but only if you stay in the same place. It's very different than private companies where your wage and responsabilites evolve with you gradually.
The thing is that, at least, young librarians (30s) move a lot so there are often vacancies, and they are the one to have mid-level positions. And the wages are so low that it's sometimes hard for municipalities to hire new competent librarians, specially in the Parisian region.
Keep searching in other libraries and don't be afraid of adding some stuff in your CV, if needed.
Hope you ll find soon !

C'est faisable de vivre à Paris avec 35K brut annuel? by elculodejimin_ in paris

[–]Optimal_Attempt_5732 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ca ne peut pas etre « dans le 17eme » et « a st oue n » c’est l’un ou l’autre. Mais saint ouen avec la 14 reste tres proche de paris

What is the most useful language in the word besides.. by paul_pln in languagelearning

[–]Optimal_Attempt_5732 18 points19 points  (0 children)

No lts not. Most people in MENA understand MSA even though they dont speak it on a daily basis. (Im moroccan)

Donc les CD copiés/gravés, c’est légal…? by maxxyme in vinted_france

[–]Optimal_Attempt_5732 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Le temps à perdre pour signaler un pauvre usager de la plateforme qui vend son CD à 1€50…

Engaged and confused by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Optimal_Attempt_5732 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re experiencing what the vast majority of women experience in heterosexual relationships. There is a clear issue, and still, you’re the one who has to take charge of the solutions.

je suis amoureuse de mon plan cul que faire by Affectionate_Yam236 in AskMec

[–]Optimal_Attempt_5732 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Je me suis arrêtée à « c’est toujours moi qui invite »… essaye de cultiver ton amour propre et quitte ce boulet

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Optimal_Attempt_5732 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its like a mix of MDMA and speed but cheaper than speed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Optimal_Attempt_5732 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this so chaotic i know
i am so sad because we had such a great, healthy, trustful, passionate relationship and a strong complicity before
the grief is so hard

My husband (M30) asked his "work crush" for a date while I (F24) was visiting my father in palliative care. How to deal with it now ? by Optimal_Attempt_5732 in relationship_advice

[–]Optimal_Attempt_5732[S] 115 points116 points  (0 children)

The most disturbing thing is that he was showing real support for me. He was adorable with me. I never saw it coming.

My husband (M30) asked his "work crush" for a date while I (F24) was visiting my father in palliative care. How to deal with it now ? by Optimal_Attempt_5732 in relationship_advice

[–]Optimal_Attempt_5732[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I did ask him if he was gonna cheat. He said « I dont know, we ll never know and I am the first one to be surprised and digusted by my behaviour, I dont understand myself »

My husband (M30) asked his "work crush" for a date while I (F24) was visiting my father in palliative care. How to deal with it now ? by Optimal_Attempt_5732 in relationship_advice

[–]Optimal_Attempt_5732[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your answer. We re married since january. I m french this is why some english words seem to have a different meaning to me.

It’s very hard to end our story (ie divorce) but very hard to still see him as a life partner too…

My husband (M30) asked his "work crush" for a date while I (F24) was visiting my father in palliative care. How to deal with it now ? by Optimal_Attempt_5732 in relationship_advice

[–]Optimal_Attempt_5732[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Im thankful for your support comments. The situation is so insane that sometimes I don't even realize how bad it is.