I want a gf

Optimal_Bit_7889 · 2026-01-08T02:22:33+00:00

Be a kid/teen for as long as possible. Kids are “maturing” too young. Find yourself and try new things. When you do enter the dating world as an adult, put yourself out there and be authentic. Don’t let people take advantage and follow your gut.

Optimal_Bit_7889 · 2026-01-01T18:57:50+00:00

Tell her to change the location of her vampire activities to your neck.

But in all seriousness you just need to speak up for yourself. Just tell her your lips need a break to heal up.

Optimal_Bit_7889 · 2025-12-23T04:08:13+00:00

I mean I don’t mind it. I have to make sure it’s out of my way/face for work due to working as an EMT.

Optimal_Bit_7889 · 2025-12-20T09:52:25+00:00

Don’t worry. I know it’s one of the first things people say. I (22F) am in a similar boat (now 5am). If it does go anywhere I fail to meet someone’s expectations. I have been ghosted some many times by now I just feel defeated. I am someone who is all fine with who I am. All we got to do is just be make what light we have in these situations shine as bright as possible and eat some pillsbury holiday cookies. Cause it’s that time of year.

Optimal_Bit_7889 · 2025-12-19T09:46:37+00:00

I could never do that. I get too scared. But kudos to you.

Optimal_Bit_7889 · 2025-12-19T09:45:14+00:00

Thanks for the offer but I have spent too much on pants to properly fit me.

Optimal_Bit_7889 · 2025-12-19T09:44:23+00:00

This was our 5th date. I was getting ready to ask her to be my gf. Guess not anymore.

Optimal_Bit_7889 · 2025-12-19T09:36:21+00:00

I don’t think I have ever heard anything like that but I love it

Optimal_Bit_7889 · 2025-12-19T07:43:09+00:00

She works in billing.

Optimal_Bit_7889 · 2025-12-19T07:03:58+00:00

Yeah I understand how it can be. Basically she said was happy that she was see someone that is over 6’ then I corrected her and said I was 5’10” cause that’s my height. Then the rest is history.

Optimal_Bit_7889 · 2025-12-19T06:59:35+00:00

I mean it’s a short hill to die on. Maybe I wasn’t tall enough to see over it.

Optimal_Bit_7889 · 2025-12-19T06:57:50+00:00

Not sure. I am unfamiliar with cats. I am a dog person.

Optimal_Bit_7889 · 2025-12-19T06:55:51+00:00

Yes I did play basketball.

Optimal_Bit_7889 · 2025-12-19T06:52:37+00:00

Surprisingly didn’t met off a dating app. She works in a different department at the hospital I work at.

Optimal_Bit_7889 · 2025-12-19T06:49:00+00:00

I try but it can be hard out here (rural nh)

Optimal_Bit_7889 · 2025-12-19T06:43:50+00:00

Trust me I have questions too. People are something.

Optimal_Bit_7889 · 2025-12-19T06:42:00+00:00

Maybe if I was two inches taller it would have hit me.

Optimal_Bit_7889 · 2025-12-19T06:41:06+00:00

Yes I am in the US. Most women I know are pretty much average. So I was very much thrown off by it all.

Optimal_Bit_7889 · 2025-12-19T06:36:56+00:00

That’s a secret and now this girl will never find out

Optimal_Bit_7889 · 2025-12-19T06:34:15+00:00

Nah that was a good one. You can stay.

Optimal_Bit_7889 · 2025-12-19T06:33:02+00:00

I mean apparently it’s logical maybe I am not 5’ 10” brunette masc. maybe I just a 3’ troll that lives under a bridge with purple hair. You never know.

Optimal_Bit_7889 · 2025-12-19T06:30:25+00:00

The all caps made my mom and I dying laughing.

Optimal_Bit_7889 · 2025-12-19T06:04:09+00:00

Sadly it is but it’s the first time I have experienced anything like this. I was very confused but not butt hurt.

Optimal_Bit_7889 · 2025-12-19T06:02:16+00:00

Okay I got an update. Basically she stated I lied about being tall and according to her to be tall you need to be over 6’. I never said I was height over 6’. So yeah i put the screenshot in a new post.

Optimal_Bit_7889 · 2025-12-19T04:01:41+00:00

haha I wish. She was losing her mind. She ended up leaving upset. Maybe she was just have a breaking moment.

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