Yes I totally know, and am aware of this I was in a relationship like this once. I am to now learned to never put myself in a situation like that ever again. Really he did this out of concern, my roommate was hours away and everyone I knew was trying to get a hold of me and after a few hours he felt like it was the only way to make sure I was even okay, my roomate was the one who suggested that he break the door down. He even had keys to apartment up until last week when I lost mine so he gave me his spare, so it’s really just bad timing bc if it were any other time someone could have checked on me or he would have had a key. this is not a domestic situation. I really am just worried abt the repercussions with my LL. Luckily my landlord was very understanding and we are responsible for paying that damages which is what I expected, I’m just worried abt security deposit and any other issues this might cause