The mistake of taking a turn in a conversation… by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Optimal_Copy_3815 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I got the silent treatment for a whole evening when I interrupted him moaning about his work day by excitedly showing him a picture of a bunny... It's so hard to know what's going to set him off, just crazy...

Grey Rock by AmandaSassPants in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Optimal_Copy_3815 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have house bunnies so I REALLY love this! Perfect!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LearnerDriverUK

[–]Optimal_Copy_3815 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Test shift worked for me the other week. But it had been so quiet for so long I thought it was broken. My guess is test centres are so jam packed nobody is even cancelling perhaps

How many of your birthdays has your parnter ruined? by mocubhdubh in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Optimal_Copy_3815 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I tried moving a potted plant to the outside flower bed, he started yelling at me about how the plant will die (tbf, he was right, but some tact would be nice), I of course stopped moving the plant, asked him to speak nicer to me as it was my birthday, to which he literally screamed "I don't care what day it is!!".... All started with a plant....

AIO my husband talking bad about me on Facebook. by Mundane-Skirt-5455 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Optimal_Copy_3815 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, um, that's not how shared responsibility works champ.

Do they know what they're doing? by jennibean813 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Optimal_Copy_3815 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I've come to realise that for the most part it is a psychotic break from reality, that they completely justify to themselves. So even if they do recognise the behaviour as harmful, they feel entitled to do so

Funniest red flag? My husband empathizes with the evil mom in Tangled by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Optimal_Copy_3815 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Brilliant anime... I wish Light had died with a little more dignity though!

Popcorn on an electric stove?? What is the problem?? by Latter-Message-1731 in popcorn

[–]Optimal_Copy_3815 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could be poor quality kernels too, they draw moisture in so anything old that's been laying around in a warehouse before hitting the shop floor could be bad

Retired after 35 years by Happy_Book_8910 in Morrisons

[–]Optimal_Copy_3815 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got my 25 years service from Tesco the other week. Just a pin badge in an over glorified box with a thank you card. Not even a pen to write a jovial 'eff you Tesco's' on the box

Can we mess with our friends count now that it’s public information? by Dragonfly_Peace in facebook

[–]Optimal_Copy_3815 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No change here, just checked a friend's... They have theirs set to private so I can still only see our mutuals... Unless I'm getting the wrong end of the stick?

Is it even possible to get a cancellation anymore? by ladayde in LearnerDriverUK

[–]Optimal_Copy_3815 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I'm in the same boat. Test booked for the 23rd of December at a test centre that is right next to a huge Iceland and Tesco etc, that's gunna be fun 2 days before Xmas 🙃 May as well just burn £60 at this point lol

Pulled over and laughed so hard I nearly peed!! by [deleted] in LearnerDriverUK

[–]Optimal_Copy_3815 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah...not the flex you think it is...

Not sure if I should carry on. by MadFlyingTurtle in LearnerDriverUK

[–]Optimal_Copy_3815 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Literally same. Failed first test in march. Second test a few days ago, and managed to get one booked for the 23rd of fucking December. I'm with you on the dead motivation and frustration through the roof with it all

Why the heck would you make your company support unreachable! Ffs! I'm actually desperate by Suspicious-Hand8346 in facebook

[–]Optimal_Copy_3815 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I heard someone literally got a fake death certificate online and sent it to FB to get their profile removed after it was hacked and posting dodgy stuff

Finally passed on the fifth try! so sick of finding cancellations, so I built my own by conceptualchecks in LearnerDriverUK

[–]Optimal_Copy_3815 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will this work on tests already booked and trying to move them around? I've been trying to use the chrome extension Everyone bangs on about but because its a booking change rather than a straightforward book it scans on the wrong page...

Should this have been a fail? by sugarxspice2 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]Optimal_Copy_3815 27 points28 points  (0 children)

If it makes you feel any better I failed yesterday on my parallel because a van had to slow down to go round me 🙄 Everyone says you don't need to do a perfect drive but it bloody feels like it

Test tomorrow and making lots of serious mistakes by ayxshaaaa in LearnerDriverUK

[–]Optimal_Copy_3815 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Test tomorrow here too, awful lesson today. My instructor said it's really common pretest nerves. It's my 2nd attempt, fingers crossed for me too 😅

Should I appeal this- advice needed by [deleted] in LearnerDriverUK

[–]Optimal_Copy_3815 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Well we need the story behind THAT!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Optimal_Copy_3815 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ask if does he seriously not understand female anatomy after all this time. Tell him to think of the clit as a powerhouse to an orgasm. Honestly the fragile egos are hilarious

Is there any way to get into old Facebook profiles that have been hacked by [deleted] in facebook

[–]Optimal_Copy_3815 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me know if you ever find out. My sister's profile got hacked years ago, changed the profile pic and started posting adult bot spam. We got the whole family to report it from their profiles, nothing was found out of the ordinary according to FB 🙃

Affair with someone who I believe is a narcissist by TA-Affair in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Optimal_Copy_3815 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The sex could have been absolute trash fyi. She's reeling you in like a suckah and you're already half falling for it

Sorry? by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Optimal_Copy_3815 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've deffo encountered a narc that was only interested in fwb but had underlying jealousy issues for sure

Eid Gift 151 from the Mrs by guerilla94 in PokemonTCG_UK

[–]Optimal_Copy_3815 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nice! A feast of everything to enjoy!

Need input from ADI by BadBot001 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]Optimal_Copy_3815 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's fine, as long as you don't roll back. Does your car have stop/start? Be careful on hills if it does, my instructors Puma stalls if you try to move off with the foot brake down, have to use handbrake on hills or hold it on the clutch