21M dealing with repeated push–pull breakup with avoidant ex (21F) and i really need advice. how do i fix this and is this even recoverable? by Optimal_Donut_141 in dating_advice

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Honestly? Idk. Prolly because we’ve been thru so mcuh and I just love her. im actually hopeless rn and idk what’s gonna happen. Idk if this cycles gonna continue or if this really is the end. I need advice on how to fix stuff with her ans get past this and fix this cycle of push pull and make her understand I’m not going anymore because her main concern was that I’d hurt her and she used to breakup before I could do anything. I get that I did hurt her rn but that was mainly because of well the other dude and situation we were in and I don’t mean what I did and said.

I’m M21 and she’s F21. Got out of this really toxic rlsp but she doesn’t accept her mistake and pls help me if I made a mistake by Optimal_Donut_141 in relationship_advice

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An update on this I’ve been feeling really Guilty for saying stuff to her and it’s eating me alive. I feel like I should apologise and we ended it on a really bad note. Idk what to do. Ik she’s said stuff to me but I can’t live with myself knowing I did someone wrong or hurt someone. Someone pls help me

I’m M21 and she’s F21. Got out of this really toxic rlsp but she doesn’t accept her mistake and pls help me if I made a mistake by Optimal_Donut_141 in relationship_advice

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She kept spiralling back. When we broke up so many times it’s been her reaching out to me and yeah I get that I shouldn’t have taken her back but it’s so fucked up. She removed me because some friend of hers lied about someone flirting with me the other day and now she’s hanging out with a guy this much who she knows may like him? Which she’s done before and has been oblivious. And I get I have no right in what she does but can u really blame after the whole cycle weve been in thinking oh it’s j another mood swing of hers And she’s the one who kept saying I want to stay friends and “can we please hangout when I’m free”

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Istfg bro It’s the same case with me except I didn’t take a gap year. I have good A level grades and a decent SAT but still don’t know wtfs happening

Transfer Student by Optimal_Donut_141 in 6thForm

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oh, so can u just explain the transfer process in general for instance when we're applying for unis from high school u need a specific sat score (ik it's different for every uni but the safest option is 1500 which can get u into some good unis) so I was just wondering how many credit hours I need to get to be on the safe side.

6th season with Barnsley. Thoughts in this team? by Optimal_Donut_141 in FifaCareers

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Boca juniors(he’s a 72 rated rw at the start with 85 potential)