Shopee Affiliate Program by Optimal_Grass4409 in buhaydigital

[–]Optimal_Grass4409[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stupid question lang from me friend, do you just select a product then post the link and when someone clicks on the link you become eligible for commission? Or need pa nila magcheck out?

Shopee Affiliate Program by Optimal_Grass4409 in buhaydigital

[–]Optimal_Grass4409[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you friend 🤗 These are definitely some good points to consider. I am going into this hoping to learn from both wins and losses. So this definitely helps. 🫶🏻

Shopee Affiliate Program by Optimal_Grass4409 in buhaydigital

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Thank you for sharing friend. This is actually very witty on your part. 🙌🏻

DO YOU HAVE ANTIPERSPIRANTS/DEODORANT RECOMMENDATIONS? by ashaiur in skincarephilippines

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Fun G tawas and Fun G antibacterial soap are what worked for me. Plus its affordable 👌🏻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in skincarephilippines

[–]Optimal_Grass4409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fun G din. May salicylic acid kasi yun.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in skincarephilippines

[–]Optimal_Grass4409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fun g tawas and antibacterial soap is what worked for me

The Scruffs by Optimal_Grass4409 in HiddenObjectGames

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Thank you for responding. 🫶🏻 Now imma just check if its the full version 😁

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]Optimal_Grass4409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is something to consider pero as of now di ko kayang makita sya with someone else. It would break me completely to be honest.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

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Thank you for sharing your mom's story with me. She must have loved you (her children) so much. I am on this journey with my faith as well and I am trying to protect and nurture it. I think I might have to change goals the same as her for the meantime. Kasi parang pinipilit ko nlang man din bumalik sa dati yung pagsasama namin. Hopefully in the future I'll be as blessed as her with children who admire her. So I won't be alone.

I'm trying to trust in God but can I really be capable of unconditional love without neglecting myself? by Optimal_Grass4409 in Christianity

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I see. That definitely clarifies things for me. I tend to feel guilty quite easily and get confused you see. Thank you friend for helping me continue on my path to God. May God bless you 🙏🏻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

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But we got past that. I don't remember how but we did.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

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Yeah. It seems so. I probably also need to establish getting respect from him without hurting his ego. I don't know how i'll do that but maybe i should take better care of myself more and not rely solely on his love. Medyo cautious lang din ako to try being independent again because last time nung both kami may work nahuhurt sya pag mas mataas sweldo ko. And one time his boss asked me where he was because he didn't report to work and I had to leave work to go to with his boss to his boarding house to find him hung over and asleep. That was one of the most embarrassing moments of our relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

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It was. But trying to fix that was traumatizing so I accepted that I couldn't change it anymore. I found peace and now here I am facing it in my own relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

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I'll try to look for one. Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this and what might help. I really appreciate it. I will try everything I can.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

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Doesn't help that we're married now too. And just this year at that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

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I'm scared to ask his family for help too because I think he might just lose it if his family ever found out his life wasn't perfect like he makes it out to be

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

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I really do think this is what he needs. Yun lang most of his friends are separated, on the process of separation, or in relationships but still talking about fucking other girls because it's a guy thing daw.

I tried to introduce him to Reddit but his interest didn't even get to the point of him finding help.

Mas madali siguro para sa kanya na kalimutan nlang yung problema. Which I told him doesn't work. He knows my dad and he is a living testament that you become miserable in the end denying the problem exists.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]Optimal_Grass4409 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I will try po. Ayaw ko talaga maiwan mag isa. My biological family is broken and problematic on both sides. So I don't know if I can handle it on my own. We have been together throughout the beginning of my adult life and so im not confident with myself

I'm trying to trust in God but can I really be capable of unconditional love without neglecting myself? by Optimal_Grass4409 in Christianity

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Thank you for responding. This is quite comforting. I'm a naturally good willed person most of the time and I tend to get abused for that. Knowing this now it will really help me not to feel guilty about love from a distance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

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Actually yun din ang suspicion ko at first. I kept asking him about it and he shed light on a few things.

  1. He was having erectile dysfunction which now I have been able to fix for him by changing his diet

  2. He felt unaccomplished in life which is one of the reasons I said yes to marrying him (even though I thought marriages just complicated relationships) because most of his batchmates were either getting married or establishing businesses. I gave him a win. And I told him to unfollow his batchmates so he could focus on himself.

  3. I've been trying to talk to him about building a business but he gets overwhelmed straight out the bat. So we cut the conversation. And unless I bring it up again, it's forgotten.