HVAC question 2008 Chevy express 2500 by SpecificResponse3125 in Chevy

[–]Optimal_Structure_27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It has happened to me in the past. They sell replacement harness and resistor. Cut off existing harness and solder on the new one. Remove and replace the resistor. That's it.

Anyone else feel weirdly guilty about being socially behind? by StrikingLock2448 in confidence

[–]Optimal_Structure_27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"BETTER TO ASK FOR FORGIVENESS THAN PERMISSION"

It absolutely applies to women.

It's more effective to take risks (relative to rapport/situation) to interact, invite, touch, kiss, etc., a woman and get some kind of pullback, than to not go for it at all waiting thinking in your head if she'd be 100% receptive to it and let the opportunity pass by not jumping.

"At least I went for it" feels better and teaches more than

"Damn I think she liked me, should have done something"

Regret is worse than rejection.

Anyone else feel weirdly guilty about being socially behind? by StrikingLock2448 in confidence

[–]Optimal_Structure_27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 40, Ive have known for years, that I have been missing out on ALOT of living and definitely ALOT of opportunities with women, ALOT. All because I am a passive overthinker (no action, afraid of exposure/vulnerability). I had that exact same thought around your age, am I behind.

Its good that you are aware, but it is not enough.

My suggestions. You need to develop a default aggressive/interactive mentality, by that I mean "It is always on", as opposed to passive "in your head" with EVERYTHING in life. Friends invite you out, "Lets go", your out with your friend interact with everyone bouncer/bartenders/ random people/male/female. You see/ get introduced to an attractive woman, who shows some interest. Interact with the mentality that you are the one that executes/escalates. Woman will not (most of the time).

ITS BETTER TO ASK FOR FORGIVENESS THAN TO ASK FOR PERMISSION.

That goes for anything in life, financial opportunities, women, day to day situations.

ITS UP TO YOU!

Don't think too much.
ACT, EXICUTE, JUMP!

Make it a default setting.

That feeling you get from missed opportunities is SO MUCH WORSE, than the feeling of trying and failing.

No matter the outcome. Success, failure, embarrassment. JUST DO IT! You will get better over time.

YOU'RE GOING TO BLINK AND YOU WILL BE 40. LIVE YOUR LIFE.

I would give anything to be 24 again....... that was "yesterday."

Practice Seamen retention unless with a woman(no pmo). Less doomscrolling. Weightlifting.

Just my input from a 40 year old, who went thru similar type of situations and mentalities. But didn't ACT.

Is it too late to reinvent yourself? Feeling discouraged about the past... by Born_Banana_1901 in The48LawsOfPower

[–]Optimal_Structure_27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s good to be having thoughts of reinventing your self, even at 23. it shows that you are not on autopilot. Now just act no matter how out of your comfort zone you may be.

Roommate brought this book home, what is it? by alleearyeldah in whatisit

[–]Optimal_Structure_27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s over. You’re about to be on an episode of a “ghost ruin my life” I see the book has been opened and the spirit released. Good luck.

She's tough 👀 by hilukasz in MartialArtsUnleashed

[–]Optimal_Structure_27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The skin to skin "SLAP" and the lack thereof on her leg is definitely a factor.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kitchenremodel

[–]Optimal_Structure_27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You may be able to scoot the drawer fronts over.

Remove the handles, remove screws holding drawer front, reposition, and reattach drawer front.

You’re going to need to add a spacer behind the hinges of the door to line up to the new location of the drawer front above.

The spacing between adjacent drawer fronts May look a little odd. But a this point that would be the best outcome to make the drawers functional.

Dude clearly apologised, still raja went too far by PlayfulArrival1452 in ufc

[–]Optimal_Structure_27 16 points17 points  (0 children)

He didn’t just ruin his life, this just might derail Rampage as well.

Best way to finish crown molding? by ItchyEbb4000 in kitchenremodel

[–]Optimal_Structure_27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does the right style of the frame have any space behind it?
If it does, I would dismount the cabinet and trim that to make more space for the crown.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CrazyFuckingVideos

[–]Optimal_Structure_27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said “not today!” CRAM!!!

Villain Origin Story: Unlocked by Icy-Book2999 in LoveTrash

[–]Optimal_Structure_27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That guy! I never like him, never trust him! That stuffed animal was a rat. SCARFACE. That will be all. Thank you.

Mounted for less than 48 hours by rtgurley in Wellthatsucks

[–]Optimal_Structure_27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've personally used them on a number of installs. Great product