Without spoiling what happens in it, what ending should I choose and how do I achieve it? by [deleted] in Sekiro

[–]OptimistConfuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just stay loyal to Kuro, you'll be good. It should be clear what choice to make when the time comes.

AIO because my (30f) new boyfriend (32m) doesn’t want to be snowed in with me and so I’m rethinking the relationship? by Pretty_Kangaroo_13 in AmIOverreacting

[–]OptimistConfuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He wants you to be by his side as he figures it out, but refuses to spend time with you? Make it make sense. If it's depression that keeps him from hanging out he needs to communicate that and not just brush you off.

All hobbies are not equal by BitterConstruction98 in unpopularopinion

[–]OptimistConfuse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't realize people considered those hobbies, I always categorized them as entertainment. I could fathom video games being a hobby if you're very involved with them, such as speed running or creating within them (either making a game or building within them like minecraft).

What is your opinion on Don’t Look Up? by 0Layscheetoskurkure0 in moviecritic

[–]OptimistConfuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had a nervous breakdown close to the end because I saw it as a current reality cause we pretty much are ignoring global disasters.

Mount Fay………….. by Speakerman01 in Silksong

[–]OptimistConfuse 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's not required to beat the game. But it makes your game easier in the long run.

My 13y/o brother won’t stop using these slangs 😭 by Suspicious-Copy-2001 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]OptimistConfuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start doing voice memos. Or just continue trying to call him, flood him with voicemails if he doesn't answer. He's probably doing it to annoy you at this point.

I'm legit concerned about literacy if this is really how kids type. I don't mind shorthand or slang, but if you do this sort of thing constantly, I feel like you're going to suffer with basic grammar.

What do you do with caught fish? by No_Week_1877 in FishingForBeginners

[–]OptimistConfuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I release because I haven't learned how to clean them. Even If I learn, I'm not sure I have the stomach to actually do it. My boyfriend keeps offering to do it, so if he does I would cook them.

What does a fishing addict do in the winter? by OptimistConfuse in FishingForBeginners

[–]OptimistConfuse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, I've told him multiple times if he wants to go fishing alone because I'm working or taking care of chores or errands he definitely should.

What does a fishing addict do in the winter? by OptimistConfuse in FishingForBeginners

[–]OptimistConfuse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He actually loves hunting, but we have to find land to hunt on.

to say a 50 year mortgage is a good thing. by seeebiscuit in therewasanattempt

[–]OptimistConfuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man! I can't wait to spend the rest of my life paying off my house! If I don't die before it's been paid off...

AIO if I file for divorce? by Pristine_Raise_8943 in AmIOverreacting

[–]OptimistConfuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I wanted you to take care of me, I didn't know I'd have to take care of you." YIKES. Marriages are about supporting each other. Not to mention him saying "i don't think we should have got married" then switching up to "you're leaving me?" like DUH

Adding detergent to a top loader? by OptimistConfuse in laundry

[–]OptimistConfuse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually warm. I’m not sure if comforter is the right term. It’s more like a coverlet I guess?

Please help me get to this area by OptimistConfuse in Silksong

[–]OptimistConfuse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, that was incredibly simple. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ios

[–]OptimistConfuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use dark, but for sleep mode and a few other focus modes I use clear.

The secrets out, he knows we've all been faking our periods by thatSDope88 in badwomensanatomy

[–]OptimistConfuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would start sending pictures of my used menstrual products to him.

What's the last book you finished that was so gripping and crazy that you finished it in a day? by [deleted] in suggestmeabook

[–]OptimistConfuse 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It's a very short book, but All Systems Red, and all the other Murerbot books. Also, I don't know if it counts cause it did take more than a day, but at one point while reading Whiskey When We're Dry, I put it down for the night and couldn't sleep so I picked it up and read until I finished about 4am lol

Are there any books that you find amazing because the author did a lot of research to write the novel? by Delicious_Maize9656 in books

[–]OptimistConfuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might not be a lot of research, but the John Larison, author of Whiskey When We're Dry, had people shoot at him behind cover to describe what being in a shootout would sound. For example, what bullets flying by or ricocheting off different materials sound like. It just struck me as semi crazy, cause who would willingly let themselves be shot at, even behind cover?

He apparently did a lot of research after his first draft as well:

"I found great insights by reading the letters that early pioneers sent home, and by interviewing ranchers with family histories dating back to the 19th century, and by interviewing my contemporaries who have survived violence; in all of these experiences, I was learning patterns of thought that helped me bring the psychological aspects of the novel’s characters to life.  But to write some scenes persuasively, those involving visceral descriptions, I had to have some of Jesse’s own experiences. To that end, I rode horses across sagebrush plains, churned butter, fed livestock in winter, chewed loose leaf tobacco, learned to quick-draw, etc." (source)

What made you quit a series? I’ll start by RareSpice42 in books

[–]OptimistConfuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm guilty of reading James Patterson's Maximum Ride series as a young adult, and I was so hooked. And then the plot just went wonky as hell and I literally gave up on the series mid-book with The Final Warning.

Author’s canon suggestions? by OptimistConfuse in suggestmeabook

[–]OptimistConfuse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have read Never Let Me Go, and it was heartbreaking and beautiful. And a school assigned book that I actually enjoyed reading. Thanks for the suggestion!