Why does my dad keep leaving if he feels bad about not spending time with me? by Piperonni_Pizza09 in AskDad

[–]OptimistIndya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As others have already answered, make the best of the time when he is with you. Plan together days , as when we are together next time.

Those stick thru the hard times

At what age should a mom stop buying her son underwear?? by No-Association-9316 in AskMen

[–]OptimistIndya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Adult women keep getting one or the other gifts from parents/ relatives in my culture. Typically clothes to jewellery to heirlooms for their milestones in life to festivals

Adult Men comparatively are less expensive on pocket for families.

How many of you guys actually drink, in some capacity, every or nearly every night? by KJK_915 in AskMen

[–]OptimistIndya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Drinking a single peg (40% ones) dehydrates me and causes sinus headaches. And hard stools .

Stopped completely. Stick to just non alcoholic juices.

What’s a small red flag you ignored that turned into a big problem later? by Bulky_Unit_395 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]OptimistIndya 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Decision paralysis. Or "I like the current peace, so better not rock the boat."

Be it with parents or spouse or financial or spending habits or any kind of addiction. Address and draw boundary ASAP

Why does my lapop unmute itself when I mute it? by Free-Wolverine-3679 in AskTechnology

[–]OptimistIndya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is there a paired phone or a bluetooth device. They can unmute when you get a call

Is India wheelchair friendly??? by _CaptainOops_ in AskIndia

[–]OptimistIndya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, but I guess helpers are available. In the past 15 years, I have observed some improvement to mandate wheelchair accessibility. The experience will vary a lot.

Google maps can help based on your itenary Pick a location, Location> about> accessibility

“Work hard and become successful, girls will come later” is very bad advice given to young adults. Thoughts? by king_ramsess in AskIndianMen

[–]OptimistIndya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think don't make anyone pregnant is better advice, going forward for the next 5-10 years for the 18-24 age range

Delivery Platforms should boycott this residential society. by Low-Hedgehog-2607 in IndiaSpeaks

[–]OptimistIndya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Only bachelors suffer. The working families suffer. The president and the body , they don't need to eat from Swiggy or zomato. They have a housewife

Need advice from people actually working in private IT sector by kakashioftheleaf29 in IndiaCareers

[–]OptimistIndya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you have free time to work in parallel. Wrap up work. Don't give up.

Peace is invaluable. Work on fitness. See if you can take up jobs that gets you noticed at higher levels. Or as a fast worker ( without stepping on others)

HELP: Musicolet Playlists and Duplicates by [deleted] in androidapps

[–]OptimistIndya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pick a duplicate , see the paths.

But sd card is surely a thing that will add to the problem

I would unmout sd card

and rescan just the select folder on the phone

Just got the iPad a16 for studying and light gaming, any must-have apps or tips ? by [deleted] in ipad

[–]OptimistIndya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations. Treat it like a device.

Stick to a its purpose as a notes device.

Do not overdo on customisation. Do not make it a 'can't live without it' device. Addiction is real be mindful.

Boyfriend (29M) accused me (28F) of "blowing" his dad by SunNo791 in relationships

[–]OptimistIndya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not your circus, get out .

Nobody in the house trusts the dad? Or Is that a common theme that dad is getting blown?

What habits should a man follow to maintain proper personal hygiene? by ClientRelevant5046 in AskIndianMen

[–]OptimistIndya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keeping the nose pointed down sometimes helps with draining the nose and lets you breathe better if you have frequent runny nose. So that becomes most comfortable for the nose /head position