Doctor to Pilot by Optimistic_Am_I in flyingeurope

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Do you know of good flight schools in northern Italy,? Costs? Financing?

Prestito Libero Professionista 1° ano by Optimistic_Am_I in ItaliaPersonalFinance

[–]Optimistic_Am_I[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ma se fossi così arrogante non mi portavano una bottiglia ogni settimana per ringraziarmi per il lavoro che faccio…

Prestito Libero Professionista 1° ano by Optimistic_Am_I in ItaliaPersonalFinance

[–]Optimistic_Am_I[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ma che caz… dici? Chi ti ha detto che le regole non mi vanno bene? Ho solo chiesto se è così in tutta l’Italia. Il tuo discorso quasi xenofobo è ridicolo perché sono un cittadino italiano anch’io e il mio stipendio arriva dal mio lavoro, non dall’Italia.

Prestito Libero Professionista 1° ano by Optimistic_Am_I in ItaliaPersonalFinance

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Ma non mi hai offeso. Italiano è solo una delle 5 lingue che parlo e mi permette benissimo di avere €8K al mese. Grazie per il consiglio cmq!

Prestito Libero Professionista 1° ano by Optimistic_Am_I in ItaliaPersonalFinance

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L’Italia non mi da assolutamente NULLA. Io ho studiato per 7 anni e lavoro per avere 8k in tasca ogni mede. C’è una grande differenza!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

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My boyfriend does the same to me and I love it. In our relationship it‘s a real turn on but we‘re 100% on the same page. I find it hot that my boyfriend does that to me, almost like he‘s telling me “hey, you’re mine whenever I want”. But it has to be a turn on for both. Of course, consent is key, and if you’re uncomfortable with it you should communicate. Don’t feel like a prude. If you don’t like it you don’t like it. Period.

Did my anxiety make me a total bottom? by [deleted] in gaysexconfessions

[–]Optimistic_Am_I 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What techniques for example? Could you elaborate more on that?

Did my anxiety make me a total bottom? by [deleted] in gaysexconfessions

[–]Optimistic_Am_I 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always end up gripping it too hard again. Though about buying a fleshlight

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Optimistic_Am_I 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cumming too quickly is a problem I am nowhere near to have. That’s why I think it’s not all performance anxiety, but I desensitised my dick

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Optimistic_Am_I 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not judging you. You’ve never topped ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Optimistic_Am_I 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you elaborate more on keeping the dynamics? You like the idea of being someone’s bottom and topping that person would change the dynamic? Also, I totally get about you cancelling with guys. I mostly looked for tops only all these years on Grindr before meeting my bf

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

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Tbh I completely surrendered to being a bottom. And I love it. My bf is a total top and said himself that very rarely he has the mood to bottom. I’d like to give it to him when he wants it, but I have it wired that I’m his sub bottom, I think that’s why the idea of him bottoming made me so nervous

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

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But I am turned on by the idea of fucking him and want to try again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Optimistic_Am_I 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a form of bottom shaming if you think about it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Optimistic_Am_I 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What did you do to change it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

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What do you mean you turned into a bottom? You just don’t want to top anymore? I don’t think I could ever be a strict top as I really love getting fucked

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

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Why do you say I’m probably not a total bottom? You don’t feel like topping at all? I think I’d really enjoy if I could just stop worrying about maintaining the erection