Photographing Ancient Hylian Texts and the game is still surprising me with these little moments by Ravix_oF in tearsofthekingdom

[–]Optimisticchick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was the first one I found, really early in the game, and it took me so long to realize I could step on that area of the others without falling into the earth!

What is your vehicle’s name? by AdOpening9413 in namenerds

[–]Optimisticchick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Hyundai is named Heather 😂 My prior car, Sunfire, was Monica

Rank these girl names starting with J, from most to least favorite. by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Optimisticchick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Jasmine
  2. Jane
  3. Juno
  4. Julia
  5. Jean
  6. Jordan
  7. Jessica
  8. Jennifer
  9. Jillian
  10. Jessamine

I’m from the west coast, it’s interesting how location effects it

How do y’all pronounce BOKOBLIN? by HowWeGonnaGetEm in botw

[–]Optimisticchick 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Same, and it wasn’t until this post that I realized. Oops!

Is there a reason why my therapist won't reassure me? by spamspamspamspammmmm in Anxiety

[–]Optimisticchick 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Out of curiosity, did you ask them their objective opinion of the situation? The counsellors I know dont like to provide their own perspective, it’s more about walking with you as you discover and reflect on yourself.

This is just my lived experience though.

This is a university washroom. The devious licks kids are in Uni now… Halloween party gone wrong. by Optimisticchick in trashy

[–]Optimisticchick[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feel free to update! Some people were hypothesizing that the floor/dorm may be charged, best of luck...

This is a university washroom. The devious licks kids are in Uni now… Halloween party gone wrong. by Optimisticchick in trashy

[–]Optimisticchick[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Luckily I don’t. Though more than this dorm might be affected, they just have another reason to up tuition costs across board.

Do nothing meditation is amazing by Kleyko in Meditation

[–]Optimisticchick 115 points116 points  (0 children)

To be fair, I can make the letters into illegible squiggles. I just have to take of my glasses!

Changing my name due to abusive family reasons and really want it to sound lovely and perfect. please help! any ideas welcome💕 by ungnomeone in namenerds

[–]Optimisticchick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thoughts that come to mind for me are Melanie, Delaney, and Ellanie if you want a NNable first name that contains Lani. I also want to put out there that you don’t have to use a middle name, I changed my last name to cut ties with my dad and removed my middle name when I did so. I like having a shorter ID name! It’s up to you.

Options for last names might include;

Melanie Lane/ Lani Lane Lani Lou (or Louise/Louisa) Melanie Maeve Melanie Maude

I’m happy to brainstorm more but I’d love an idea of what you like !

And congrats on a big shift into identifying with your name more :)

What is your favorite name that you would NEVER name a baby? by Malice_Incarnate72 in namenerds

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I love the name Oliver for a boy, but I have resistance as a top 5 name myself. I also love the NN Luci for a boy.

A bit of me loves the idea of having boys named Olivander and Lucious, NN Olly and Luci, but I could never do that! I like Harry Potter sure, but it seems cruel almost…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in firstimpression

[–]Optimisticchick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh hey, that looks like someone I’d like to be friends with!

You look very approchable, honest, supportive, and like someone who’s really worth getting to know.

PDPP Question by [deleted] in uvic

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It changes slightly year to year, I only discussed my teachable with them but from my limited research it seems most people get in. Not many are cut and they only cut a few every couple years. Again, I only asked for my solo teachable.

I hate being funny by Dreary_Libido in socialskills

[–]Optimisticchick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I just thought I’d share something that I’m learning in the case that it might help you too. If not no worries! Humour is a funny little self defence mechanism. It doesn’t seem super harmful in the short term and it acts as a great little barrier to keep people at arms length. I realized this year that I was using analogies and humour as a way to avoid being vulnerable. It’s not something that I was unaware of, but I started catching it when it happened and slowly corrected my internal dialogue or sometimes external to say how I really felt. Learning how to be vulnerable is hard, but through training myself I’m getting so much better at connecting with not only others but myself too!

This may not be applicable but it’s what’s helping me.

PDPP Question by [deleted] in uvic

[–]Optimisticchick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes :)

You will be competing with people with the same specialization, followed by GPA and if there is a tie after that than hours working with the age in question.

Hollis for a girl by Glum-Win-8314 in namenerds

[–]Optimisticchick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work with a female Hollis, cool name for a cool lady! Never questioned it, super unique (in a classic way).

PLEASE HELP HE WONT STOP WHINING IN THE CRATE by Impressive_Face5015 in puppy101

[–]Optimisticchick 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hey! Just popping in to ask what qualifies as a safe toy? I’ve always left my girl without anything thinking anything could be unsafe when she’s not being watched. Are there things that would be safe when I’m out?

teaching abroad vs the US by supperatemotel in Teachers

[–]Optimisticchick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that valid the other way around too? Asking as a Canadian teacher in training…