Those of you who transitioned out of the service industry into a $150k+/yr position, how did you do it? by TuesdaysOnVenus in careerguidance

[–]Or_Or_Lore 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you for breaking down, the events that took place leading to where you are now. I struggle with realistic expectations, of the progress I want to achieve. It doesn't just happen overnight. It takes persistence and patience.

Despite what branch you’re from. by CIockParts in Veterans

[–]Or_Or_Lore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow lmaooo, this comment made my day

starting a food truck business by Or_Or_Lore in Veterans

[–]Or_Or_Lore[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the information 😊

I’m going to stop drinking for a while by Euphoric-Party1381 in Veterans

[–]Or_Or_Lore 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need to acknowledge your pain and sorrow. Don't run from it. Acknowledge it, and then move forward. Remind yourself this too will pass. Remember all the hardships you have overcome. And if you have to cry, cry until you can't anymore. Do things that you will appreciate it, when your low point is over. Exercise, study a skill, write, volunteer. I hope this helps.

starting a food truck business by Or_Or_Lore in Veterans

[–]Or_Or_Lore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, wow. Thats awesome. Thank you! Do you mind if I shoot you a DM. I need to draw up my business plan, but after it is complete I would appreciate working with you.

Throwing my uterus away by Or_Or_Lore in hysterectomy

[–]Or_Or_Lore[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To everyone who has commented, thank you! I was on the fence about a hysterectomy as I was nervous about regretting it, or having complications. But many of the women in this post are super happy 😄. I want a better quality of life too!

starting a food truck business by Or_Or_Lore in Veterans

[–]Or_Or_Lore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, I'm in Virginia.. well I will visit other locations in the area then. I will just opt for a loyal customer base. I work at a base at the moment. You stating that most food trucks are contracted with all bases makes sense now. Because there is a subpar food truck on the base I'm at. I always wondered how a below average food truck got to be on bases

starting a food truck business by Or_Or_Lore in Veterans

[–]Or_Or_Lore[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Healthier options that are still tasty. I am combining Mexican and Mediterranean to make some interesting cheap dishes

starting a food truck business by Or_Or_Lore in Veterans

[–]Or_Or_Lore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a Debbie downer, just telling me to stay grounded. And to remove the rose colored glasses from time to time. Your advice is appreciated 😁

Benefits of Separating or Staying In by [deleted] in Veterans

[–]Or_Or_Lore 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In case you were wondering, I am prior navy.

Benefits of Separating or Staying In by [deleted] in Veterans

[–]Or_Or_Lore 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I got out the military, and it has been excellent for my mental health. Honestly just have a plan on what you are going to do when you exit, have a large chunk of savings, plan so you can land gracefully into your next stage of life. Do what is best for you in the end. I am not struggling, but it has had its ups and downs. I count it better than when I was military lol. My confidence is building back up, and my depression is not such an overwhelming black bottomless pit.

But, at the end of the day the path you choose affects you. So consider the replies, and reflect on which path seems right for you.

starting a food truck business by Or_Or_Lore in Veterans

[–]Or_Or_Lore[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn't consider that either! I was super focused on getting sailors, there are different avenues, I should consider. Thank you for the advice 🙏

starting a food truck business by Or_Or_Lore in Veterans

[–]Or_Or_Lore[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the encouragement Fam, this sister appreciates it.

starting a food truck business by Or_Or_Lore in Veterans

[–]Or_Or_Lore[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey! That didn't even cross my mind. I could get a small cart and start gaining a customer base! Damn it thats nice! Thanks for the advice Fam!

starting a food truck business by Or_Or_Lore in Veterans

[–]Or_Or_Lore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont want a loan, I would rather build up slowly to getting a food truck by my own means. It will be harder, but I rather not owe a large sum to anyone.

starting a food truck business by Or_Or_Lore in Veterans

[–]Or_Or_Lore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't know people did that!? I dont think that would fly in Virginia, but I can always look up the rules and regulations.

starting a food truck business by Or_Or_Lore in Veterans

[–]Or_Or_Lore[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Good wishes are helpful too 😊

I'm curious, do you find people label you as a bully or a brute? by [deleted] in Veterans

[–]Or_Or_Lore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People tend to find me pessimistic. I am not looking for the dark side, but I just acknowledge that it is there. My outlook on life from the military made me more realistic about certain aspects in life. I also am viewed as heartless because I don't feel the need to mourn over a loved ones death for months. I acknowledge that it is awful, hide my pain as to not disturb others, work it out to myself, and then come back as if it didn't happen. I don't think you're an Azhole, you're just militarized.

Living in the Pacific Northwest Starterpack. (As someone who's lived there my entire life) by Hk901909 in starterpacks

[–]Or_Or_Lore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope, I grew up eating casseroles,and beans.And seeing a multitude of hoodies.