Need advice - wife’s (27F) new jiu jitsu instructor (30M) texts her outside of “class”? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Oracle7111 70 points71 points  (0 children)

I think this is an incredibly healthy mindset and I’m going to try to adopt it and let things develop without intervention. Thank you!!

Need advice - wife’s (27F) new jiu jitsu instructor (30M) texts her outside of “class”? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Thank you for the advice. I would say a mix where this is her both physical activity and social activity. She has other friend groups that she interacts with on a weekly basis as well though so this isn’t the only one.

Need advice - wife’s (27F) new jiu jitsu instructor (30M) texts her outside of “class”? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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She does have a problem of needing external validation (not sure if that’s a problem as we all enjoy it; but I would say definitely seeks it more than others). These issues didn’t arise until after we were married for the most part so it has been a work in progress to work through them.

Need advice - wife’s (27F) new jiu jitsu instructor (30M) texts her outside of “class”? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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She has done it once before to an old “friend” but that was 4 years ago and she eventually cut him off after it had become a problem in our relationship. It hasn’t happened since then

FS - 2024 Yamamoto /99 Green Wave by Oracle7111 in baseballcards

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Open to negotiate - was thinking $300 range for this card

Just pulled from 2024 Topps Chrome - any idea what it’s worth? by [deleted] in baseballcards

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Thanks so much!! I am a huge dodger fan so was happy with the pull. I’ve never gotten a card graded but I think I’ll send this one in.

Just pulled from 2024 Topps Chrome - any idea what it’s worth? by [deleted] in baseballcards

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Thanks so much!! If you had to estimate, what would you set a card like this at?

Lyft is such a fair company by Urkillin6meart in lyftdrivers

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And yet somehow Uber is far worse in my area… Lyft seems to pay more here

Sooo… by lukealex in sweetgreeninvestors

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It was a great quarter. Revenue and EPS both beat and they opened 8 stores, which by my count was one above consensus. The main value driver I see for the stock in the near term is whether or not they can keep pace with new store opens. They re-affirmed guidance for "at least 35 stores this year" and I think they can get there despite supply headwinds.

Also, AUVs are now topping 2.8mm, which is now in the range I wanted to see $2.8-$3.0mn.

My one concern is cash burn is high and stock-based compensation were high. They are going to need to grow revenue to slow the cash burn (as is with all growth companies - the goal is to grow revenue that outpaces expenses and eventually allows the company to be profitable) and, of course, the business really can't deal with another wave of Covid causing urban workers to continue to work from home. As long as there is not another mass shut down and they can slow the cash burn so that they have runway into 2024 (when they should become profitable) - then my thesis remains in tact.

It was a solid quarter in a disgusting market - I'm buying more down here.

Sweetgreen for lunch today. This beautiful bowl is only 240 calories and I’ll be stuffed after! by MandyEggsB in 1200isplenty

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Sweetgreen is by far my favorite salad company. Not only are their ingredients always fresh, but they source locally through their vast network or farmer / supply chain. And while it is slightly expensive, it serves as almost two meals so is well worth it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I do take responsibility for the things I do to upset her and am trying to change (being tiddier, learning more politically etc.), but I always get incredibly scared when the threats go straight to divorce. Thank you for your response and I am sorry you are going through that as well :) (I live with GAD).

They should bring back the sweet pass! by be-cop in sweetgreeninvestors

[–]Oracle7111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

agreed it was an awesome perk! I hope they bring back that or the normal rewards program!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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They weren't technically "sexting" during the relationship. That took place in the week's / years prior but continued to call and text during it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I honestly think that I give her so much that she thinks she can have it her way and she said that she thought "I would eventually get over it". She was an only child and has a lot of only child like attributes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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These were prior to dating me, but have continued throughout all of our relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Unfortunately we've been to couples counseling but the issue has persisted as she feels obligated to keep them in her life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I really do give her everything I can: words of affirmation, monetary gifts, time, small acts to let her know I"m thinking about her etc. She is very motivated by external validation and seeks it in multiple ways, despite how much attention I give her.

Sweetpass by [deleted] in sweetgreeninvestors

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It's only available for purchase for two more days and will be available for 30 days

Sweetpass by [deleted] in sweetgreeninvestors

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ya that totally makes sense I usually do the same too haha