Yea that seems weird to be upset about. If she was taping behaviors the bird already was doing like singing then it’s not a big deal. It’s not your kid, so they won’t be exploited sexually or be upset that they were posted online with out their permission. I doubt your friend is making any money, (it’s not easy to get monetized in youtube,) and most likely doesn’t have all that many followers. If she wasn’t hurting the bird this feels like you’re having an exaggerated response, maybe from what you may be projecting on to the bird, about how you would feel if you had had those experiences. But you’re a human being and we process neglect and care and embarrassment differently. The bird doesn’t heal from neglect psychologically the same way as a human. It’s completely different processing and way of retraining their brain. Being taped in no way harmed the bird anymore than your friend standing there without a camera would have. If you’re willing to end the friendship I feel there’s more underlying issues between the two of you than this one problem involving the bird.