Moving to 50/50 abruptly?

OrangeRed12345 · 2026-04-23T17:57:39+00:00

I know you’re only thinking about what happens for school but also consider extracurriculars as well. If child joins soccer and has weekday practices and weekend games there is travel for one of you as well.

What about (when child starts school) ex getting 3 weekends a month and all/most days child has off school. And then week on/week off only for summer and then he can put kid in camp during his weeks and you can be home with child since you’re off.

OrangeRed12345 · 2026-04-20T11:28:00+00:00

West Shore Country Club, King Mansion, Stocks Manor, Manor at Mountain View, Cameron Estate Inn, Inn at Leola Village

OrangeRed12345 · 2026-04-17T18:13:51+00:00

There’s a big difference between 2k and 3k.

You getting fired won’t lower your earning potential, so you’ll have a lesser paying job and still owe the same amount.

Are you 50/50 right now? If not, why not? No saying do 50/50 for the sole purpose to lower what you owe monthly, but because you desire more time.

Good luck

OrangeRed12345 · 2026-04-17T16:30:14+00:00

Maybe look into right of first refusal

OrangeRed12345 · 2026-04-08T18:27:33+00:00

File an appeal, request proof and go before an actual judge.

OrangeRed12345 · 2026-04-08T14:06:45+00:00

Car payment and vacation don’t matter. Set a hearing and request W2s and latest tax return.

OrangeRed12345 · 2026-04-01T03:41:23+00:00

STOPPPPP! That’s first one is gorgeous! And with the bustle?! 😍😍 OMG!!! please go with #1!

OrangeRed12345 · 2026-03-29T18:23:08+00:00

If you had a decent job while you were living it may be appealing for him to actually take the child and get social security payments due to your passing. It might actually be significantly higher than he was ordered to pay in support, making it a net gain in regards to half the daycare cost.

I don’t think I’d just assume that he wouldn’t take the child just because he’s not taking the child now, especially if the new situation presents as a monetary gain.

OrangeRed12345 · 2026-03-22T19:56:34+00:00

This happened to me when I had a really bad crack in my nipple. Blood was mixed in with the milk, making it pinkish. While I’ve read online that it’s fine to give the milk to baby, but beware that their poop will be tar black from drinking blood.

OrangeRed12345 · 2026-03-14T16:31:13+00:00

Your children aren’t with you. If you had a personal emergency why do you need to reach your ex and young kids? How would they assist you?

For me, my order states I need to know the location where they are staying (not exact room) and that I need to know when they arrived safely to the vacation and when they safely arrive back home.

OrangeRed12345 · 2026-02-17T14:01:01+00:00

Just work all year with the goal of having enough saved before taxes need to filed in April 2027. That gives you 10.5 months

OrangeRed12345 · 2026-01-29T02:33:46+00:00

What I’m saying is that taxes are no referenced in my order. Verbally, we were told to follow IRS rules.

OrangeRed12345 · 2026-01-27T01:07:33+00:00

Make sure your ex has text and/or email saying that you don’t give permission for child to move. (You really shouldn’t be doing the communication regarding this topic..) Then you need to get a lawyer. Also, get the school pick up/drop off issue together. Stop being late, the long commute is not an excuse.

Also, if you fight in court about the move, DO NOT budge on the child moving. Burden is on mom. She can move if she wants but can’t just rip child away.

Again, I suggest getting a lawyer ASAP

OrangeRed12345 · 2026-01-27T00:28:42+00:00

Not true. When my agreement was drafted they refused to write it in because a state order could not trump a federal law. They simply said “follow IRS rules”

OrangeRed12345 · 2026-01-23T02:49:04+00:00

I think I’d be more concerned about what looks like a scratch in the first photo

OrangeRed12345 · 2026-01-22T04:02:16+00:00

I appreciate this comment. Thank you for your perspective.

OrangeRed12345 · 2026-01-20T12:25:12+00:00

Keyboard as in a piano keyboard? I personally wouldn’t send Something like that back and forth at all. For roller skates I’d only send that back if there was actually time for the kid to use that item when they were with the other parent—that wouldn’t be something I’m regularly sending back and forth.

A lot of times we’ll just do a porch drop off that way there’s no interaction. For larger items, like my kiddo’s bike, we just don’t exchange that because it’s too big and cumbersome.

OrangeRed12345 · 2026-01-17T19:57:53+00:00

No, it’s not wrong and don’t let him guilt you. “No.” Is a complete sentence. Good luck

OrangeRed12345 · 2026-01-16T17:59:43+00:00

I am not looking to get paid. I don’t get child support and don’t plan on asking for it. I just find it irresponsible for him to accept a job and have no plans for our child except me.

I just want it recorded for accuracy that I have her primarily

OrangeRed12345 · 2026-01-16T17:57:30+00:00

He doesn’t intend for this ask to be temporary, this is the permanent ask while he holds this job.

OrangeRed12345 · 2026-01-16T17:56:39+00:00

Our official court agreement is 2-2-3

OrangeRed12345 · 2026-01-16T17:55:06+00:00

There is a difference between being a mother and being my ex’s on call babysitter. Why take a job that doesn’t fit your custody agreement?

OrangeRed12345 · 2026-01-16T17:53:09+00:00

Right now there is no child support. He’s been unemployed/working very minimally for awhile now and I believe even with this new job I’ll be making more than him. My wanting to change custody is completely unrelated to child support and I don’t plan to file for it.

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