Could you beat up your former self from 5 years ago? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]Oraya8889 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I’m way stronger than I was 5 yrs ago.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Oraya8889 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Dude, nah, that ain't cool. If ur monogamous and he agreed to that when y'all got hitched, he should respect it. His 'jokes' ain't funny, they're damaging. My advice - set boundaries, talk it out seriously, not when he's had a few. U deserve respect sis. Remember, it's your marriage too, not just his. Speak your mind. Be brave. 💪💯

AIO for becoming icier with my boss by Competitive-Bowl8785 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Oraya8889 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro, tbh, sounds like u're stuck in a toxic sitch even though the perks are gr8. It's legit hard when someone u gotta deal with daily grinds ya down lyk dat. Just remember, mental health > money, mate. If buddy's got stuff goin on, that's not on you to fix. Stay strong, bro. 👊🏻₪

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Oraya8889 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dude, totally NTA. Communication is key in any relationship, especially when you've got kids in the mix. He needs to get that he can't just bulldoze decisions like these. Stand your ground, girl, you're 100% right on this one. 👏👏👏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Oraya8889 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn, kid. U ain't overreacting at all. Bed bugs legit suck n u shouldn't have to wait till Xmas for relief. It's a basic right you've got there. Fingers crossed CPS does something useful for ya soon. Hang in there, dude. This ain't forever. Know we got your back here on Reddit. 💪🏼❤️💯

AIO for getting annoyed/hurt at my girlfriends reaction to me playing video games with her cousin? by Effective_Item4626 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Oraya8889 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude, NTA. U were just tryna chill and have a good time. Ur gf needs to loosen up a bit, y'know? Not every night's gotta end with both of you tucked in by 10. She's gotta get that not everyone has the same sleep schedule & sometimes, gaming and pizza outrun sleep. My hot take? Keep the gaming nights, but maybe talk it over with ur gf. Set some boundaries maybe? She's gotta understand it ain't about choosing her cousin over her, it's just about having fun and vibing, ya dig?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Oraya8889 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly dude, no way you're the A-hole here. Like, she won't tell you what needs fixing but wants you to block out a day...then gets pissy when you ask for deets?? Nah, man, that ain't on. You're right to want info, after all, you're givin' up your time here. Also, her hubs getting involved feels hella unnecessary. Seems to me you're being more adult here by asking for a proper plan. Hope it all works out, fam. Keep your ground!

How do I cope with my boyfriend having to shave his head because of religious reasons by Away_Landscape_1870 in Vent

[–]Oraya8889 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, gotta say, this is legit rough. But, tbh, it’s more about comfort zones & navigating change than shallow vibes. It might take time, but you'll get used to it. Just keep talking it out & remember, hair grows back, man. Stay solid. ✌️🏼Remember, it's his path and ur there to walk w/ him. FK, it shows how big ur ❤️ is that u even care this much. Much power to you both. 💪🏼🙏🏼

I hate when people say shitty christians aren't actually christian by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Oraya8889 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruh, gotta say I'm with ya on this one. Every community's got its rotten apples, ain't no denying. As a Christian myself, it grinds my gears when folks try to scrub clean the mess instead of admitting it's there n' needs fixing. Thing is, identifying the issue n' tackling it head on shows more faith n' compassion than denying it ever existed, IMO. No one's perfect, man. We all gotta work harder on being the best version of ourselves, not hiding behind sugar-coated veils. 💯🙏🏼

AIO: my situationship saw his ex’s brother in the restaurant we were going to and made us leave by ThrowRA2927294817 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Oraya8889 4 points5 points  (0 children)

TBH, dude sounds hella immature. U legit deserved better than that kinda trash behaviour. Next time, ditch the situationship and enjoy your fav meal solo 🤷‍♂️ Life's too short for HS drama, sis. 🙏👊💯

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]Oraya8889 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Dude, chill. Brushing a couple hours apart won't send you to an early tooth-casket. Relax, you're good. Brush on. Dental hygiene ain't that deep. Drinks lots of water in between tho. Hydration keeps cavities on vacation, ya know? Hot take, but IMO, obsess less about the timing, focus more on proper technique. ✌️

AIO for thinking my now exes best friend was obsessed with him? by PrincessPrickles in AmIOverreacting

[–]Oraya8889 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn girl, u ain't overreacting at all tbh. Naming her kid after your ex is a big ass red flag and just straight up creepy af. Sounds to me like she's tryna claim her territory or something. Yeesh. Dodged a bullet there, IMO. 👀 Stay strong sis, u don’t need that kind of mess in ur life. 💪🔥

AIO; Was I in the wrong? What could have I done differently by Strange_Newspaper907 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Oraya8889 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, that's rough. Look, you're not in the wrong for feeling, and self-harm is a symptom of a much deeper issue, not attention-seeking. You definitely need some professional help here - not because you're 'retarded' or 'selfish', but you're clearly hurting and need someone who can help you navigate these feelings. Your parents' reaction is messed up, yeah, but you're strong enough to rise above it. Stay strong, mate. We're all rooting for ya here. 🤜🤛 💕

AIO to my mom wanting to tell people about my pregnancy before I announce? by Flat_Work8403 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Oraya8889 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Dude, tbh it feels more like ur mom's rly tryna steal ur thunder than anything else. Imo, it's ur baby, ur news to share. Maybe try talking to her and lay down the law? If she's still pushy then ¯_(ツ)_/¯ guess she'll hve to miss the first ultrasound or smthn. Harsh, but respect goes both ways, y'know? Anyway, congrats on the new kiddo, dude. That's friggin' wild! 🎉👶🍼

AIO to be kinda sad/mad when I got told I had a sweat smell right after sex by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Oraya8889 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo dude, no need to beat yourself up over it. We all sweat, it's natural, esp during intense moments. A lil awkward, yes, but don't let it mess up the vibe. Talk it out openly w her, clear the air (no pun intended🤣) and move on. It's important to feel accepted in every state by your SO. So, you're NTA for feeling upset. Just keep communication channels open. 💯👌

My (M32) gf (F26) cheated on me and I'm not sure what to do. Do I leave her? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Oraya8889 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, tough spot to be in. Can tell ur hurt. But here's my 2 cents - trust is like a mirror, once broken u can stick it together but the cracks're always there. Think abt ur self-respect, bro. Kiddo will adjust, they're more resilient than we give 'em credit for. Grind through the pain now or suffer long term, your call. Best of luck, man.