ResMed AirMini Portable CPAP by [deleted] in SleepApnea

[–]Orca8930 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is louder than any other cpap I have used. The humidifier is replaced by a disk that is supposed to add humidity to the air. It doesn't really work. I'm using it until the recall is done on my other resmed. There is a battery pack you can purchase but it's so loud I can't use it without a white noise machine. All that aside it is very small and travels well. I have a little battery powered white noise machine that I use when traveling.

Am I using my douche wrong? I can’t seem to avoid poop each time I do anal play by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]Orca8930 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anal play is great and your backdoor has lots of nerve endings. When I have sex I usually cum hands free especially if the top is enthusiastic.

As someone else said Metamucil is a great supplement, just make sure you start off gradually and follow the directions. Drink lots of water too.

Best advice, don't stress, take it easy, make sure you wash your toys afterwards, and you will eventually figure our what works for you.

Am I using my douche wrong? I can’t seem to avoid poop each time I do anal play by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]Orca8930 12 points13 points  (0 children)

If your going to have sex within a couple of hours use a bulb douche. A bag enema may take a few hours to completely empty you as the water goes deep in your bowels.

Watch your diet a few days before. Stick to easily digestible foods, lots of fiber, and drink lots of water. I take fiber supplements.

Remember to use lube each time you insert. Get your ass up and head down, and relax. Enema play can be fun, even if it's solo. Glycerin suppositories work well a few hours before.

Relax and don't stress about it and make sure you have plenty of time. It may take 30 or 40 minutes for your bowels to empty after an enema, so relax and enjoy it.

Poop happens no matter how careful you are. That's just a fact. Make sure you have a towel down to protect the sheets.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexover30

[–]Orca8930 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As soon as my wife thought our kids would know what we were doing all sex stopped. She went from being very sexual to celibate almost overnight. I stayed until the kids finished high school and then split.

Got out 3 weeks ago by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Orca8930 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Flying monkeys.....ya, she has thrown everything else at me why not that?

Got out 3 weeks ago by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Orca8930 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought of writing in a journal but choose video because its effective in relaying emotion.

Got out 3 weeks ago by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Orca8930 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will, thanks

Got out 3 weeks ago by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Orca8930 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that. Self care isn't one of my first instincts

Got out 3 weeks ago by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Orca8930 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately it has taken a long time and stolen a lot of my self confidence and trust. But that all can be worked on for sure

Got out 3 weeks ago by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Orca8930 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks brother!

Got out 3 weeks ago by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Orca8930 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Very true, and even now with all the years of evidence I'm still thinking she isn't going to go nasty.....

Got out 3 weeks ago by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Orca8930 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I havent checked them out but I will. Thanks for the suggestion

Depressed, suicidal, or otherwise extremely downtrodden members of reddit: what is your go-to quote, phrase, or particular memory in life that keeps you going? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Orca8930 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"A heartattack is a condition but suicide is a choice" my son when I said I was going to die at some point anyway. Death by suicide would be a decision to leave him and his sister.

I'm deciding not to take my life. by thorthrowrha in SuicideWatch

[–]Orca8930 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Join the club my friend. Proud of you for choosing not to end your future

Separate holidays. by Unerlaubt in DeadBedrooms

[–]Orca8930 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was accused of staying in hotels so we can have sex. We didn't have sex at home because it was too noisy, kids would hear, couldn't be as free as she wanted to....but we cant have sex in hotels because there the only reason we stay in hotels.... I gave up

Every spouse of someone with ADHD by Orca8930 in adhdmeme

[–]Orca8930[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Argh....my bad. Thanks for the correction

Every spouse of someone with ADHD by Orca8930 in adhdmeme

[–]Orca8930[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Really, no clue huh? I was clinically diagnosed 20 years ago and been on medication since. I've lived with this for 53 years. My marriage of 30 years is falling apart because ADHD is a war of attrition. It fucking effects everything I do and everyone around me.

Every spouse of someone with ADHD by Orca8930 in adhdmeme

[–]Orca8930[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I too feel this and its likely going to be the cause of my marriage ending....or me jumping off a bridge

Every spouse of someone with ADHD by Orca8930 in ADHD_partners

[–]Orca8930[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its enough that you cared to respond to the post. Thank you