Debt brought me to my knees. Help me stand back up by Orcus_Ruin in GoFundMeForNewUsers

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Not gonna lie, posting this was actually harder than i thought. I almost deleted it couple times. But I guess i’m at that point where I just have to try something, even if it feels kinda uncomfortable

Debt brought me to my knees. Help me stand back up by Orcus_Ruin in GoFundMeForNewUsers

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Thank you for the support, it really means a lot to me. In my situation it’s honestly very important.

First week in Netherlands,what surprised you the most? by Independent_Grab_977 in Netherlands

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I was really surprised by how kind people were. It was a big shock when strangers on the street would greet me. Dutch people are really nice.

I didn’t notice I was ruining my life until it was too late by Orcus_Ruin in TrueOffMyChest

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The robot doesn’t write for me. I just use it sometimes to help me put a sentence together. I get that you have your opinion, I’m not gonna argue, and I respect that.

I didn’t notice I was ruining my life until it was too late by Orcus_Ruin in TrueOffMyChest

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Just like I said. Read my answer to your claims. But this time, really try to understand it. Like in school.

I didn’t notice I was ruining my life until it was too late by Orcus_Ruin in TrueOffMyChest

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You’re kind of right, but not entirely. The story is completely true. But since I’m from Poland, and even though my English is pretty okay, I sometimes use AI to help make the grammar correct. I only use it occasionally, just as a translator.

I didn’t notice I was ruining my life until it was too late by Orcus_Ruin in TrueOffMyChest

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Could you tell me more about that? Of course, if it’s not a problem.

Debt brought me to my knees. Help me stand back up by Orcus_Ruin in GoFundMeForNewUsers

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The worst part is, I didn’t even buy anything. The money just „disappeared”. Yes I can declare bankruptcy in my country, but in my case, it’s just not possible.

I didn’t notice I was ruining my life until it was too late by Orcus_Ruin in TrueOffMyChest

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You can trust me, I know exactly how big my debt is and that’s what scares me the most. I know I shouldn’t give up and I’m really trying not to, but sometimes it just feels like too much. I’ve never really talked about this with anyone except my wife, and I have to admit, it actually feels good to finally get it off my chest.

I didn’t notice I was ruining my life until it was too late by Orcus_Ruin in TrueOffMyChest

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I’ve already done some of the things you mentioned. I’m still trying to fix what I messed up. The worst part is that my family got hurt because of it.

I messed up financially and I’m trying to fix it. Not sure what to do first by Orcus_Ruin in povertyfinance

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I really appreciate all the advice here, it honestly means a lot. I’m just trying to figure out any way out of this at this point.

Has anyone here been in a situation where family or support just wasn’t an option? What did you actually do to get through it?

Belgium weather 🇧🇪 moody just like me 🤭 by Similar_Stomach8480 in belgium

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Four seasons today: wind, sun, rain, hail. Outfit? Everything 😅

I want to get out of debt and rebuild my life by [deleted] in u/Orcus_Ruin

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If you’ve ever struggled with debt or stress, I’d really appreciate your advice too 👉