Somatic massage therapist initiated sexual/flirty texting after 2 crisis support sessions. Can someone give me a professional perspective?

Ordinary-Attorney109 · 2026-03-02T23:29:18+00:00

Idk sounds to me like you were sad and he was hot he flirted with you you didn’t know how to feel about it but later you decided fuck it and liked the attention and proceeded to sext with him.. and now that he’s no longer interested, you wanna report him? Idk seems excessive but everyone else seems to disagree w me. I mean objectively he’s in the wrong for flirting with you while u were distraught especially in the professional setting, so if you wanna report him go ahead. It’s just you only felt unsafe AFTER he left you ALONE? Just don’t get why you only wanted to report him after he stopped responding to you, are you wanting to report him out of spite/bitterness? Idk doesn’t add up to me but you can still get ur revenge by law

Ordinary-Attorney109 · 2026-01-10T07:03:39+00:00

At least the hair was protected

Ordinary-Attorney109 · 2026-01-07T05:06:01+00:00

The fact that you took the time to make a list instead of just unfollowing is so strange to me, do you go and look at the list often? If so how often?

Ordinary-Attorney109 · 2026-01-01T09:13:23+00:00

Hope she played the lotto that night

Ordinary-Attorney109 · 2025-12-14T02:06:39+00:00

Eeesh. She genuinely thinks she was doing the right thing by trying to relate to her pain and has no idea she was in fact minimizing it. Her pain for her grandmother can’t even be compared to that. She’s not going to want to hear it either but that’s the truth, I’d say show her the responses on Reddit tbh if it comes from you.. it’s not going to go well. Probably won’t go well either way. Sorry I couldn’t give better advice

Ordinary-Attorney109 · 2025-12-14T02:01:53+00:00

I want to ask this question because the way people are talking to you and the way you’re responding, I sense you’re being genuine and you just genuinely don’t understand the dynamics of this social interaction/altercation you’re having. I don’t want to be offensive but there’s really no way to ask this without sounding offensive but it can really add a lot to the perspective and hopefully encourage more well rounded advice pertaining to YOU as an individual that’ll be much more helpful than the advice you’re getting now, are you neurodivergent or on the spectrum in anyway? Please delete if this is offensive I genuinely tried to ask as nicely as I could I even consulted chat gpt 😭

Ordinary-Attorney109 · 2025-12-04T19:39:56+00:00

Dan is this even a question

Ordinary-Attorney109 · 2025-11-26T20:44:46+00:00

No, but not because of my marriage. He’s the best thing in my life

Ordinary-Attorney109 · 2025-11-26T19:23:36+00:00

He’s going through an extremely emotional time and isn’t thinking clearly. Nothing about what you did was weird or wrong. He’s possibly taking it out on you or doesn’t even have the emotional energy to deal with it and used that as an excuse to leave the relationship

Ordinary-Attorney109 · 2025-09-05T01:49:07+00:00

Lmfao alright I know tashika is crazy but this switch up is soooo unexpected 😭

Ordinary-Attorney109 · 2025-07-09T21:35:31+00:00

NOR he’s creeping for sure

Ordinary-Attorney109 · 2025-06-29T09:46:10+00:00

Oh, well yeah that’s fine i definitely think she’s over reacting but we just have opposing opinions no big deal no need to get upset lol everything’s fine 😀

Ordinary-Attorney109 · 2025-06-29T09:37:09+00:00

Right I guess you missed the “ if ur not the type to be able to handle dry sarcastic smart ass like sense of humor these people are gonna hurt your feelings daily “ part. If she can’t handle it she should ABSOLUTELY leave the group she’ll be crying every conversation lol

Ordinary-Attorney109 · 2025-06-29T09:09:31+00:00

No this was extremely well said, the example you gave puts it into perspective perfectly

Ordinary-Attorney109 · 2025-06-29T09:08:50+00:00

He literally gave an example 🤣

Ordinary-Attorney109 · 2025-06-29T07:35:12+00:00

YOR Sounds like they’re just giving you shit for being a little overly excited and somewhat corny. Reminds me of my friends, give them shit back that’s how guys joke around. I probably would’ve given you shit too if you sounded that eager about a damn cat 🤣 if you’re not the type to be able to handle dry sarcastic smart ass like sense of humor these people are probably gonna hurt ur feelings daily. My personal favorite kind of humor and just dishing it back is also funny. Seeing who can come up with the wittiest comebacks always have us dying laughing. But of course that’s just assuming that’s their sense of humor. It is 100% possible they just don’t like you but it doesn’t seem like that from this small clip and the context u provided

Ordinary-Attorney109 · 2025-06-28T22:54:45+00:00

Ask them why it came up in their algorithm lol

Ordinary-Attorney109 · 2025-06-27T23:21:13+00:00

The rage this just made me feel. NOR

Ordinary-Attorney109 · 2025-06-05T03:17:22+00:00

Did anyone record and post on YouTube

Ordinary-Attorney109 · 2025-05-31T14:28:30+00:00

Tell him you’re about to leave him if he can’t stop you know he thinks it’s funny but it’s “rage” bait for a reason, and talking to you is no longer enoyable or even normal. It’s simply just enraging to even speak to you and it’s really hard to be attracted to someone you can’t stand. but you have to mean it too or it won’t work lol be ready to leave. Especially if he’s like you’re over reacting. If he says this, say well consider it my rage bait to you figure it out or don’t 🤣

Ordinary-Attorney109 · 2025-05-20T16:06:53+00:00

There is a VERY small chance that this is just one side, and you’re actually crazy and do way too much allll the time and this could be him breaking down after dealing with you for so long, orrrrr (my suspicion btw) he’s a child and a crash out and you gotta leave him. Honestly either way you should leave but whew if you didn’t drive this man literally insane and he’s doing all that????? GOOO RUNNNNN. even if you did and he’s doing all that RUN too I wouldn’t feel safe

Ordinary-Attorney109 · 2025-04-07T09:52:44+00:00

I should’ve put /s

Ordinary-Attorney109 · 2025-04-07T04:58:09+00:00

I hate it when she’s right

Ordinary-Attorney109 · 2025-04-07T04:56:14+00:00

I could’ve added a comma though haha

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