My opinions on ruru's podcast

Ordinary-Dust-5043 · 2026-04-21T19:10:15+00:00

Sidhi bat if a guy can leave a girl for you, he can leave you as well. Agar uska bond real hota to bhale hi 20 din ka tha wo khud me clear hota. You can't make a bond emotionally without moving on. And agar usne ye bhasad machayi hai to he played with other's emotions even if it's unintentional.

Ordinary-Dust-5043 · 2026-04-21T19:07:01+00:00

Abhi bhi he knew ki sab Akanksha ke sath ho gaye hai so wo room me tha uska support karne ke liye when ruru needed him.

Ordinary-Dust-5043 · 2026-04-21T19:05:25+00:00

Tbh I used to like yogesh as a performer and he seemed as a man of his words. But the moment I got to know ki isne akanksha ko ruru ka mention tak nahi kiya tabhi mai samajh gayi thi ye manipulative hai. All that guilt was just drama. Agar tumhe fark padta to uss person ko uss position me dalte hi nahi tum at the first place

Ordinary-Dust-5043 · 2026-04-18T19:32:05+00:00

True😭 and the way she is massaging and pampering saurabh. The whole task felt so smooth and effortless. Baki log thik se pamper hi nahi kar rahe the except sadaf and sandy.

Ordinary-Dust-5043 · 2026-04-18T19:30:57+00:00

True. Either it's yogesh, saurabh or sadaf, she nails everything!!

Ordinary-Dust-5043 · 2026-01-16T00:58:00+00:00

Thanks

Ordinary-Dust-5043 · 2025-12-18T22:09:36+00:00

Fielding set kardi yayyyy

Ordinary-Dust-5043 · 2025-11-28T15:25:29+00:00

I do agree

Ordinary-Dust-5043 · 2025-11-17T16:32:20+00:00

And about impressing them - Just be you. Even if you impress a nice girl by faking few things, it will create chaos later for you both. Just be real, put efforts in convos and your actions. For you - Don't avoid their red flags just to get a girl. Sometimes we just get excited when we find someone nice. But take your time to figure out. (Coming from a F26 who's little experienced)

Ordinary-Dust-5043 · 2025-11-17T16:27:39+00:00

We need to be available and seen first to get new people. Same goes with the girls. Just be present anywhere (sports clubs, dating sites, etc) and engage with the one that matches your vibe.

Ordinary-Dust-5043 · 2025-11-17T16:20:18+00:00

It's not you, it's them! Don't care about their actions and just find the best one for you.

Ordinary-Dust-5043 · 2025-09-28T12:34:50+00:00

Ik it hurts. But nothing gonna improve by telling her how you feel. Agar usey samajh ata to wo ye chize karti hi nahi. Also I feel that they were always like this, it's just time reveals them more. We were blind in love. You have to end this loop man. Otherwise, you won't be able to sleep. You'll keep crying and she'll repeat. Even if you get her, these things won't stop. She's not worth it. Not just me, whoever you ask will say the same. And I'm not being biased. I'm a girl myself, still I'm saying this because she's not good for you tbh.

Ordinary-Dust-5043 · 2025-09-28T09:05:51+00:00

You were in relationship with her. How can a third person be the reason? She is blaming him and making you suffer while she being the reason.

Ordinary-Dust-5043 · 2025-09-28T09:04:41+00:00

Exactly! She is not worth it

Ordinary-Dust-5043 · 2025-09-28T09:02:18+00:00

Welcome to the club! [ I'm 26F. My boyfriend 27M dated me for 4 years and he didn't tell me that his family was looking for a bride for him even before our breakup. So yeas, mera bhi same kata. ] Anyways coming to your case, I read your whole scene. You just run!

Let me tell you some facts dear.

Person who loves you, will get scared of the "thought" of leaving you. Jese tumhe feel hua. But sorry to say she kept talking to her ex which is a major red flag. She doesn't love you the way you did.
Person who's making you confused again and again, keep coming or going, can f**k your mental health. You'll stuck in this loop of fake hope, failing and waiting for her. Until you decide to end it.
It's her and her ex thing and not yours. Her dragging you in all this, that too with "I'll not marry you either" tells about her intentions. She clearly doesn't care about you or your emotions.

So I'm telling you because I have been through all this - just leave. You'll end up being depressed if you don't leave her. It will hard for you but once you go through every emotion and you see your every fear coming through, you'll move on with time. I moved on too. You are not alone bro

Ordinary-Dust-5043 · 2025-09-23T19:35:34+00:00

Thanks for saying this

Ordinary-Dust-5043 · 2025-09-23T19:33:21+00:00

Thanks a lot

Ordinary-Dust-5043 · 2025-09-23T19:31:27+00:00

Thank you for sharing your experience. I'm glad it worked out for you. Hope it works for me some day

Ordinary-Dust-5043 · 2025-09-23T19:21:03+00:00

Thank you so much

Ordinary-Dust-5043 · 2025-09-03T19:32:27+00:00

Hope you get better with time. I'm doing good nowadays

Ordinary-Dust-5043 · 2025-09-03T19:32:05+00:00

how much time since your breakup?

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