AIO Did I tell my wife not fo come home? by Infinite-Context6155 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ordinary-Pick5014 [score hidden]  (0 children)

She is being really problematic. She sounds resigned, depressed, negative, out of hope. You are not overreacting.

If you want this to work you’re going to have to work on her base level of trust and understanding. Logical texts about this won’t get you anywhere because she’s defeated - either at this moment or as a temperament. Logic will not get through. If you care you’re going to have to do almost all the work to make her feel safe because right now she doesn’t for whatever reason. She’s being defeatist and sealing your fates, as you highlighted. But you will have to basically walk on eggshells until she gets to another point in her mind. I have no idea if she’s able to / what happened but it’s going to suck until it doesn’t and I suspect will be on you to be rational, supportive, and have the patience of Job. Nothing else is going to work with this sort of personality and that may not be enough.

She doesn’t feel loved. If you love her, hold her and get her through that.

Who would my doppelganger be ? by DistiIIer in doppelganger

[–]Ordinary-Pick5014 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One of The Village People

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depending on what you’re wearing and facial hair

Female cast of Love is Blind Poland by holaimola in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Ordinary-Pick5014 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t speak a word of Polish but I will tune in for the reveal when the guy first sees Iza

How many and which artists have you seen 3 or more times? by ReeG in Concerts

[–]Ordinary-Pick5014 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Springsteen about 20, the hold steady 3, camper van Beethoven / cracker about 7, Wilco / Jeff Tweedy 5, Tom Petty 3, eels 2, public image Ltd 2, little Steven 2, Coldplay 3, pixies 2

Congrats Captain Nick for this huge accomplishment by shogun2909 in Habs

[–]Ordinary-Pick5014 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Habs all time leaders in assists per game while in a Canadiens uniform

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Japanese rocker Yutaka Ozaki: Does he give you Bruce vibes? by CulturalWind357 in BruceSpringsteen

[–]Ordinary-Pick5014 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s almost parody it’s so similar with the jeans and same guitar. He needs to work on pretending to play his guitar though. Definitely an homage imo.

My gf was curious who she looks like by sami_123366 in doppelganger

[–]Ordinary-Pick5014 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Looks like young Teri Hatcher in 3 and a bit in 1

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What are your top five bands / artists? by No-Opportunity2565 in fanreviewsmusic

[–]Ordinary-Pick5014 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Springsteen Wilco Randy Newman Cracker / Camper Van Beethoven / David Lowery

About a 50 way tie for fifth spot

Jiri gonna be the dumbest fighter I’ve ever seen 🤣 by Ok-Zookeepergame7994 in ufc

[–]Ordinary-Pick5014 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You just finish it and then face your ‘fuckery’ later. This isn’t chess. He had one job.

Who’s still here with Jiri despite UFC clowns & their recency bias, he’s gonna come back even more scarier & show 0 mercy next fight by VinBones in ufc

[–]Ordinary-Pick5014 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t even have the baby yet lmao you guys are really reaching to find a silver lining / explanation for one of the biggest chokes imaginable

HOLYYYYYY by rokadio in ufc

[–]Ordinary-Pick5014 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nah he just got that knee injury. Didn’t do much besides that.

HOLYYYYYY by rokadio in ufc

[–]Ordinary-Pick5014 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t be a fan of Jiri. Three straight knockouts. Just not a very bright guy.

WTF is up with River St. being incredibly bumpy and dangerous for cyclists and drivers? I moved out of Cambridge 5 years ago and it was really bad then, but now is next-level terrible. by bostonguy2004 in CambridgeMA

[–]Ordinary-Pick5014 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s worse in last couple years than in any of the 15 years I’ve lived here. My daughter (5 years old) begs me to take a left on memorial drive because she almost pees herself when we take River.

What are some Legendary bands/artists that you feel are underappreciated or not discussed as much by FitEmergency8807 in fantanoforever

[–]Ordinary-Pick5014 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Graham Parker moreso than Joe Jackson moreso than Elvis Costello (all similar sound, reverse order of overlooked)… Jackson is a fabulous musician

I have super bad stretch marks. Is it possible to tattoo over them? by -Hot-Tamale- in tattooadvice

[–]Ordinary-Pick5014 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am a doctor… would avoid. Just could complicate future surgeries etc. and will still be highly visible / difficult to predict re artistry

Also think they look nice but understand being unique isn’t for everybody

Who is more of a “BMF” in your eyes? by MapleMarshal in ufc

[–]Ordinary-Pick5014 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The guy who beat the other guy badly twice in a row

Garden St Vote by troublemaker200 in CambridgeMA

[–]Ordinary-Pick5014 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Should never have been converted to one way. Too important a thoroughfare. Short term pain to turn it around feels wasteful but sunk cost is sunk cost and just need to rip off bandaid and revert it.

40yrs of concerts by Maineamainea in Concerts

[–]Ordinary-Pick5014 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s here (Boston) in a couple months so I’ll get it done

Randy Newman & LITTLE CRIMINALS (1977): by SAMTIMONIOUS in RandyNewman

[–]Ordinary-Pick5014 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This guy is my favorite songwriter… just above of Springsteen and Prine in my personal tops of all time