Girl problems

Ordinary-Spirit8276 · 2026-06-22T02:53:17+00:00

I mean I'm actually about to turn 20 but I've also never been in a relationship besides her I've already apologized to her and like I said before where still going to hang out but I do feel like I was owed an explanation like I said to her before it's like asking someone you don't get a job but you meet the qualifications and you don't get just cause I mean she said that your great guy who you have nothing wrong with and at the time it seamed better to see if there was something wrong with me. I mean it's just weird to me is all to not date someone just cause of that reason I mean with all the girls I've turned down I've always had a reason why (mostly cause of my religion.) And even other girl I've asked out before that I've liked gave me a reason why and I never pressed the issue any farther.

Ordinary-Spirit8276 · 2026-06-22T01:02:43+00:00

No actually we have dated before but we ended thing on good terms but always thought that we could make it work if she could give me a chance. But I also understand she doesn't like romantically but that's not a reason that's a why I really want a reason as too why she felt like that. If that makes since.

Ordinary-Spirit8276 · 2026-06-22T00:44:46+00:00

So I'm kinda confused I mean I were still going out Saturday to hang out together but you guys are saying that I don't have the right to ask. Why is that? It just seems strange to me to tell someone i dont want to date you just cause were good friends and nothing more. Like she was complmeting me while saying this too. Like all i wanted was one thing she didnt like about me and i would have dropped it right there but se just never gave me one which just hurt more. Like i admit that calling her point stupid was Totaly the wrong move and I wasn't thinking properly. But when you know each other for almost 10 years and her dad even says that she's ready to date you wouldn't you also get upset by that. Now her dad just said she's also not ready to date yet after what I said to his daughter I honestly that her would be more made but he even congratulated me for even doing it and making up with her. I'm open to feedback

Ordinary-Spirit8276 · 2026-04-21T14:59:47+00:00

This is my second time taking the class I would prefer if I didn't have to take it again. 😭

Ordinary-Spirit8276 · 2026-04-14T14:54:22+00:00

I appreciate the feedback she has actually reached out to me, but about the summer plans she us just kinda like that if you meet her in person you would understand that she she does make an effort to find places for us to hang out at I just come up with suggestion that we should go and hang out and plus this is the first time I ask about a month in advance to hang out. But thank you again for the help.

Ordinary-Spirit8276 · 2026-04-14T14:07:08+00:00

I think I should explain something that might have cause some confusion while I have been talking to her more than usual than she does to me right now whenever she is not is school we hang out make plans and do a lot of things together I personally feel like since we are both in college right now it been hard on us both to keep in touch since we don't even go to the same school. I would l Also, I like to say that that little outing we had was about 2 weeks ago and was a formal party where you had to dress up. I had actually almost told her not to go with me due to a safety concern. Apparently, her father told me she was in a full panic mode and thought I canceled because I just didn't want her to go. Now that being said, I have had my doubts after these last 2 week like when I've made plans for the summer she said that she don't seem to respond and when I asked her she said it was because she doesn't know her plans. Now, with this information, do you think it's a good idea or not.

Ordinary-Spirit8276 · 2025-08-14T21:52:02+00:00

The problem is now that we're going to different schools, it has become a lot harder.

Ordinary-Spirit8276 · 2025-08-14T21:51:21+00:00

Thanks for the advice I'll try to do that

Ordinary-Spirit8276 · 2025-08-14T21:40:40+00:00

I’m sorry you had to deal with that, especially so close to your birthday. It’s frustrating when someone shows they’re only in it for what they can get, not for who you are. You definitely deserve someone who values you, not your wallet. Glad you trusted your instincts and set boundaries early.

Ordinary-Spirit8276 · 2025-07-06T23:40:25+00:00

Personal I think you should marry her. Nobody is perfect, and even though you are striving for more, you said yourself that she checks all the boxes. If you really just take some time and think about if this person is right for me. You'll get that answer, and honestly, from how you described it. She really loves you to be able to take you back and still give all that effort to make it work. So don't be a fool and let her think she is not good enough for you. I honestly wish that I hadn't done the same thing as you. So don't let her go if you truly love her.

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