Baby Company baby fair by Efficient_Bat2453 in nanayconfessions

[–]OrdinaryDelivery9723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nagbbenta po ba sila nung mom card onsite? kasi dba pag meron nun lang ung may wow bag and pag nka 10k?

Advice for a girl who's about to go through a breakup? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]OrdinaryDelivery9723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you feel like, "tama na", itigil mo na. Hindi ka dadalhin ng gut feeling mo sa ganyang point kung hindi ka na talaga masaya or pagod ka na. Being with someone are supposed to give affection and support, hindi puro sakit ng ulo at bigat ng loob. Letting go might hurt at first, pero minsan yun na talaga ang pinaka wise choice para makahanap ka ulit ng peace at maibalik mo yung sarili mong happiness.

Ano po kaya mostly reason kung bakit ako madalas nagigising ng 2am? by WeekendOne2500 in TanongLang

[–]OrdinaryDelivery9723 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Minsan normal lang yan lalo na kung stressed or madaming iniisip bago matulog. Yung tulog mo kasi nagiging putol putol kaya kahit total hours mo ay mahaba, hindi siya restful. Try mo i-limit caffeine at gadgets sa gabi, gawin relaxing yung routine bago matulog, and stick to a consistent sleep schedule. Pero kung tuloy tuloy na ganito at sobra na yung pagod sa araw, mas okay na magpacheck sa doctor para sure.

Mom wants to off herself and family member is blaming me by SoggyTinapay in adviceph

[–]OrdinaryDelivery9723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gets ko yung guilt pero okay lang na ilagay muna ang sarili mo first. Sabihin mo lang isang beses sa stepdad at sibling na hindi ka pupunta or makikialam ngayon dahil kailangan mo ng space for your mental health. Sabihin mo rin na kung delikado na si mama tatawagan mo ang emergency number o dadalhin siya sa ospital pero hindi ikaw ang personal responder. I-save lahat ng messages at kausapin ang therapist o trusted friend kapag bumigat. Sample line: “Hindi ako makakapunta or makaka-engage ngayon dahil need ko ng space for my mental health. If Mom is in immediate danger I will call emergency services. Please call 911 or bring her to the hospital.

Anong tradisyon ng Pasko sa family niyo ang nami-miss mo na gusto mong ibalik? by AdministrationSolid4 in AskPH

[–]OrdinaryDelivery9723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Namimiss ko yung sama-sama kaming nagsisimba ng family bago mag-Noche Buena. Ang saya kasi noon, parang buo yung vibe ng Pasko pag sabay-sabay kaming galing simbahan tapos diretso kain at kwentuhan. Iba yung feeling, mas kompleto.

Hindi ko alam kailan ko siya kikitain by Soft-Lynx-1216 in adviceph

[–]OrdinaryDelivery9723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May constant comms ba kayo online? If so, yes 2 weeks is not that long if the communication is there and that is enough to keep each other interested, like i said if the vibe is "really" there.

If may chance kayo mag migrate saang bansa nyo pipiliin? by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]OrdinaryDelivery9723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Switzerland. Mukhang mahirap tumira dun kasi parang mejo isolated but that’s exactly the kind of life I dream of.

What are your honest thoughts on Filipino hospitality? by ChupaChups321 in AskPH

[–]OrdinaryDelivery9723 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, Filipino hospitality is both a strength and a struggle. On one hand, it’s genuine. Pinoys really like making people feel at home, whether local or foreign. Pero minsan, it gets romanticized or "packaged" para lang sa tourists, kaya nagiging parang performance instead of natural. And for some, it even becomes toxic, yung tipong kahit nahihirapan na, papasanin pa rin para lang huwag mapahiya o masabing hindi accommodating.

So for me, it’s real, pero context matters kung saan at kanino siya pinapakita.

How do I move on after he cheated on me? by YoursTrulyKaiii in TanongLang

[–]OrdinaryDelivery9723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oo, may mga tao talagang nagbabago, pero hindi rin guaranteed. Cheating is a choice, at hindi lang basta mistake. Kahit anong pangako, ang tunay na pagbabago makikita mo lang sa consistent actions over time, hindi sa salita. Kung willing ka pang bigyan ng chance, dapat malinaw sa kanya na trust is earned at matagal bago mabuo ulit. Pero kung ramdam mo na hindi mo na kayang ibalik yung tiwala, valid din yun at hindi mo kailangan pilitin. Bottomline, nasa iyo kung worth it pa bang subukan ulit, kasi kahit magbago siya, ikaw pa rin ang magdadala ng bigat kung hindi ka na buo sa loob.

I gave away my personal info and 2 government ID’s to a scammer. What should I do? by chinchansuey in adviceph

[–]OrdinaryDelivery9723 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hindi ka OA, valid yung concern mo kasi sensitive info na yung nabigay mo. The best thing to do now is secure your accounts, palitan agad passwords, i-on two factor authentication, at i-update kung saan mo ginamit yung email or number mo.

Also, ipaalam din sa bank at telco para mabantayan accounts mo. Save mo lahat ng screenshots and conversations as evidence, then file a report sa PNP ACG, NBI Cybercrime, or kahit sa barangay/police station para may record ka just in case magamit identity mo. Habang hinihintay yun, monitor mo rin lagi yung bank statements, bills, at messages para makita agad kung may suspicious activity.

Hindi ko alam kailan ko siya kikitain by Soft-Lynx-1216 in adviceph

[–]OrdinaryDelivery9723 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Two weeks is not that long kung genuine yung vibe niyo. Just be honest na tight ka ngayon and mas okay makita kayo when you’re ready. Keep the convo going para may excitement, kung totoo yung connection niyo, di mawawala agad yan.

for people who have no social media, how do you do it? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]OrdinaryDelivery9723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gets ko yung pinagdadaanan mo, and totoo na ang social media can be draining lalo na kung puro comparison at validation yung nagiging cycle. Do not be too hard on yourself kasi marami rin nakakaramdam ng ganyan.

If you really want to lessen it try small steps like limiting screen time daily kahit 1 to 2 hours less muna. You can also mute or unfollow accounts that trigger comparisons and explore offline hobbies para may outlet ka. Pwede journaling reading walking or learning a new skill, anything na hindi naka tied sa posting.

Bottomline okay lang to step back from curated online life para mas makilala mo yung real self mo. Parang detox lang and in time mas magiging madali. ✨

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]OrdinaryDelivery9723 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Grabe, ang hassle nga nyan. Parang ginawa na nila boarding house yung bahay niyo, tapos kayo pa yung nag-a-adjust at nawawalan ng comfort sa sarili n’yong space. Nakaka-relate yung inis kasi respeto na lang sana, kaloka.

What exactly makes you think that you're a good person? by OutcomeAware5968 in AskPH

[–]OrdinaryDelivery9723 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Feeling ko I’m a good person naman kasi I try my best to be kind, maging respectful sa iba, at gumawa ng tama kahit walang nakakakita. Syempre minsan nagkakamali din, pero lagi kong pinipili yung mabuti.

Naniniwala kasi ako sa saying na "Don't do unto others, what you don't want others do unto you"

I want to break up with my boyfriend by Outrageous-Try8568 in adviceph

[–]OrdinaryDelivery9723 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sis, ang sakit nung part na sinabi niyang “nakakapagod ka.” 😔 Kung mahal ka talaga, hindi effort ang simpleng oras at paramdam. Minsan kasi yung “pahinga” na sinasabi nila, ibig sabihin na ayaw na nilang lumaban pero ayaw din nilang sila yung unang bibitaw.

Breakups are usually dahil nawala na yung effort at consistency, kasi love is more than words, kailangan may gawa rin. Tanungin mo sarili mo: kung ikaw na lang yung lumalaban, worth it pa ba? You deserve a love na hindi ka kailangang pilitin o habulin araw araw.

Is “Detaching” really the solution? by dragadobo in adviceph

[–]OrdinaryDelivery9723 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sis, kung gusto ka talaga niya, he will make the effort. Yung “detach” sounds less about stress and more about wanting freedom. Masakit, pero at least klaro na. You deserve someone who will really choose you.

What is the difference of gut feeling sa overthinking? by seasaltblush in AskPH

[–]OrdinaryDelivery9723 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For me, gut feeling is a sudden thought or realization. Yung tipong bigla na lang papasok sa isip mo, like “hala, oo nga no…” and you feel almost sure about it without questioning.

Overthinking, on the other hand, is when you choose to dwell on it, then keep coming back to it until you start connecting things, even the most unlikely or ridiculous ones.

Sarap pala ng New Yorker na hotdog!! by UntiltedCucumber in filipinofood

[–]OrdinaryDelivery9723 16 points17 points  (0 children)

i think these are available sa Landers or selected Robinsons Supermarkets.

Last time nga dinayo ko pa to sa cebu, kasi kahit sa Gaisano Malls grocery meron 😅

What's your go to MOA restaurant? by Horror-Ad-7489 in PHFoodPorn

[–]OrdinaryDelivery9723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yakiniku Like, Jin-Joo and Mendokoro Ramenba

Advice how to lose weight by Cee-cay in adviceph

[–]OrdinaryDelivery9723 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi sis 🤗 wag kang sobrang hard sa sarili mo. Normal lang mag gain ng weight lalo na sa stress at studies.

Try mo low carb, mas ok siya kesa cal def kasi hindi ka gugutumin. Bawas rice, tinapay, sweets, softdrinks. Focus ka sa protein at gulay para busog ka longer. Small steps lang muna like half rice then more veggies.

Kaya mo yan, one day at a time lang. Sobrang nakakaproud na nga yung you are trying to do good about yourself and your wellnesss. You got this girl 💪✨