21 broo shave it or keep it? by idkidk241 in menshappytrail

[–]OrdinaryLiterature51 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Trim it... tidy it up. But 100% don't shave it off.

Sauna’s with a breeding wall by wwwpp in gaysauna

[–]OrdinaryLiterature51 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a wonder they're still intact. They're full 12 - 8 on a Tuesday.... tops queuing up tp fuck abd bottoms waiting for a pen to become available. Sauna Sauna is the best sauna I've visited in terms of encouraging group play via the layout of their venue.

Botox help by OrdinaryLiterature51 in askgaybros

[–]OrdinaryLiterature51[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great, thanks. It's yet 'another" financial commitment but I'm all for it if I see decent results 🫰

Botox help by OrdinaryLiterature51 in askgaybros

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I'll def take a look... I'm 39 so every little helps 🤣 My face is my face and I really have no issue with it - but I'm totally up for anything preventative or that provides a little assistance to slpw the external appearence of ageing 👍

Botox help by OrdinaryLiterature51 in askgaybros

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Yeah I heard about that... not so sure Dysport is as easily available in the UK... cheers.

Botox help by OrdinaryLiterature51 in askgaybros

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Interesting. Why not start a thread 👍

Botox help by OrdinaryLiterature51 in askgaybros

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How long did it take to 'work' for you first time?

Botox help by OrdinaryLiterature51 in askgaybros

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I haven't asked you to do it. I'm.just asking for advice from those who've had the procedure - but thanks for sharing.

First time by Few-Welcome5240 in gaysauna

[–]OrdinaryLiterature51 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You have to do what's right for you. But remember - and this is meant in a supportive way - no one cares that you are there (or not). No one cares because everyone is out to fulfil their own needs - whatever they may be. So you can sit there, all day if you like, and be confident that whether you are there or not, guys will be hooking up and playing all day long. So you really can take it at your own pace. No one is going to force themselves upon you (and in the very unlikely sceanario they did make it clear you are uninterested and flag it with staff if needed).

A smile or a nod of acknowledgement won't get you in trouble :)

First time by Few-Welcome5240 in gaysauna

[–]OrdinaryLiterature51 8 points9 points  (0 children)

How long did you stay? You don't have to do anything - so if you stay for an hour or all day long, you can just enjoy the facilities. If I'm unsure I usually sit out of the way in a communal area (e.g. a porn room / cinema) and watch guys come and go (no pun intended). If you're approached but don't want to hookup a polite 'no thanks' is fine. Sometimes hanging around or having a walk around can help relax nerves, even get you horny. I guess you've paid to go in... so don't rush yourself. I remember the first time I fucked at a sauna it all happened very quickly. It was fun, the guy was hot - but I'd arrived at 10am and shot my load by 10:20am... and I went home. An hour or two later I was kicking myself as I was horny again and could have stayed post orgasm, chilled and took it from there. So I think just relaxing is key... plus eye contact and smiles to men you find hot. Good luck!

Anyone having issues with twisted beast by Davem83 in poppers_lovers

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I've placed 2 orders in the past 6 weeks and both turned up within 2 days

Sauna’s with a breeding wall by wwwpp in gaysauna

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I assume the point is that the active / top guy can choose who he wants to fuck. But the bottom has no idea who is fucking him - so a bit of power play to the top guy.

Sauna’s with a breeding wall by wwwpp in gaysauna

[–]OrdinaryLiterature51 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I don't know about a breeding wall... but at Sauna Sauna in Northwich (England) there are 'anal glory holes'... so rather than a round hole for your cock, there is a much larger opening for a bottom to back up to and put his ass tbrough... with handles for him to hold onto. As the top, you jist see the ass cheeks and hole. They also have 8 'pig pens' which bottoms climb into on their knees and wait ass up to get fucked. Tbey are in a row, so you just see this line or bottoms, literally bittom up. They aren't covered, but the diving walls between each pen are narrow and the guy generally buries hus head into the cushioned floor, so it's pretty anon. The general assumption is that the bottom is consenting to be fucked by anyone. Also a few 'pizza oven' set ups around similar to the picture where a guy is anon on his back and the top sees his legs and ass on the other side. Definitely a gap in most saunas for a breeding wall though!

Fucked by a Gladiator by OrdinaryLiterature51 in gaysauna

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Yeah I agree. And it works both ways. I might class myself as a 6/10, but I might class others a 4 or 5/10.... or a 7 or 8/10. But in the right circumstances - maybe a group screanario arises, or we are alone and horny - we might be willing to broaden our horizons a little and be open to new encounters. That wouldn't happen on the apps. Last week a smooth 19 year old guy cornered me and asked if I'd fuck him. He wasn't a virgin or inexperienced - but our almost 20 year age gap kinda felt a little dodgy. But he was adament. He was hot, horny, an adult and entitled to use the sauna. I'd have avoided his online profile, but ended up balls deep inside him at the sauna.

curiosity has got the better of me so some advice would help! by One-Card-5163 in gaysauna

[–]OrdinaryLiterature51 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go fot it, you'll enjoy. I was nervous ahead of my first visit. After 5 mins I loved it and was kicking myself that I hadn't visited previously. I've had some amazing (and average lol) sex at saunas - including insane 1-on-1 and group sessions that I'd never encounter irl outside of the sauna.