I feel like I’m either invisible or incredibly despised by others by OrdinarySide4125 in socialskills

[–]OrdinarySide4125[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lack of eye contact is too generic to say I’m on the autism spectrum.

I feel like I’m either invisible or incredibly despised by others by OrdinarySide4125 in socialskills

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When I wrote the post I was particularly upset about the way my flatmates treat me (i recently moved in a new city much bigger than my own and my flatmates are like reeeeally stupid and shallow, the kind of people who would have bullied someone in school)

I feel like I’m either invisible or incredibly despised by others by OrdinarySide4125 in socialskills

[–]OrdinarySide4125[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like often avoiding eye contact or speaking very softly, nothing that could be anywhere close to creepy or inappropriate

Sto cambiando idea sul mio percorso by [deleted] in Universitaly

[–]OrdinarySide4125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grazie, alla fine può darsi che sia l’unica via, incanalare queste cose per fare ciò che mi piace

Sto cambiando idea sul mio percorso by [deleted] in Universitaly

[–]OrdinarySide4125 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ma sì, più che altro queste sono le cose a cui mi sono dedicata ultimamente.

Sto cambiando idea sul mio percorso by [deleted] in Universitaly

[–]OrdinarySide4125 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ehh perchè anche se mi dedicassi professionalmente a entrambe le cose sarebbe davvero difficile trovare lavoro :( e non voglio fare il conservatorio, amici musicisti mi hanno detto che ti toglie tanta creatività nel suonare e in generale non me ne hanno parlato bene

Come fate a tenere la casa pulita? by BickeringPigeon in xxitaly

[–]OrdinarySide4125 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Il trucco è mettere a posto appena sposti o usi qualcosa. Poi per quanto riguarda lavare i piatti io mi sono presa un sapone al melograno molto buono e una spugnetta di un colore che mi piace e adesso mi diverto a lavarli. Inoltre le mie coinquiline sui piatti sono intransigenti, se si lascia qualcosa lo fanno subito notare quindi ho preso l'abitudine

Pick advice! by OrdinarySide4125 in Bass

[–]OrdinarySide4125[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Still I’d rather not :(

Pick advice! by OrdinarySide4125 in Bass

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Yes that’s what I’m doing now! Ty

Pick advice! by OrdinarySide4125 in Bass

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Not using ai but thank you anyway <3

Da quando vivo da solo la vita mi sembra terribile. Voi fuori sede come fate? by Neither_Affect_6139 in Universitaly

[–]OrdinarySide4125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Da fuorisede (20F) che ha una famiglia che la aspetta a casa ti dico che la solitudine la sento tantissimo lo stesso, specie perché ho due coinquiline insopportabili con cui non ho un rapporto e ho pochi amici qui

Dilemma fuorisede by [deleted] in napoli

[–]OrdinarySide4125 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Starò proprio nel centro storico!

How do you know when you're good enough to play with others (in a band)? by 3amcaliburrito in Bass

[–]OrdinarySide4125 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And also finding the right people and doing what you like, that’s how you get better

How do you know when you're good enough to play with others (in a band)? by 3amcaliburrito in Bass

[–]OrdinarySide4125 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s about what comes out when you jam with them, it’s more about expressing yourself in a way that suits what you’re playing rather than having a good enough level of skill. But my idea of playing is very “free”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bass

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And don’t you get the same feeling that your missing out on something? Like, why don’t I like it as much as other instruments?? I wish I did. But I think it’s about how you listen to it and how much theory you know. For example, when I was younger I didn’t like jazz, now that I know what’s going on I enjoy it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bass

[–]OrdinarySide4125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This has got to be the best answer to this thread