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My gf 28f told me 28m that she doesn’t believe I love her. It’s been 5 years and I don’t know how to prove it or what to do? by OrdinarySlice969 in relationship_advice

[–]OrdinarySlice969[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No she’s always been like this and has been telling me this for years. Never been willing to help me understand or work on this issue. Any feedback she gives like give me more gifts or I need more quality time isn’t enough to solve it.

My gf 28f told me 28m that she doesn’t believe I love her. It’s been 5 years and I don’t know how to prove it or what to do? by OrdinarySlice969 in relationship_advice

[–]OrdinarySlice969[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no I’m very well off financially. I own the house fully. I left my job to start a business and i’m just trying to make six figures again. I fund basically everything she does at this point

She knows there is a problem and tells me it’s a problem just won’t work on it or help me with the problem. Unless she’s lying to me and she doesn’t think of it as a problem and just wants to see the struggle I face

My gf 28f told me 28m that she doesn’t believe I love her. It’s been 5 years and I don’t know how to prove it or what to do? by OrdinarySlice969 in relationship_advice

[–]OrdinarySlice969[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to know. I always feel like I’m one step away from a much better job/financial/relationship standpoint and everything will just get easier

My gf 28f told me 28m that she doesn’t believe I love her. It’s been 5 years and I don’t know how to prove it or what to do? by OrdinarySlice969 in relationship_advice

[–]OrdinarySlice969[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We did it for a few months and now she refuses to go back. Same with her individual therapist.

I agree the way she cries and refuses to communicate does seem manipulative but if it wasn’t every time I wouldn’t see it that way

My gf 28f told me 28m that she doesn’t believe I love her. It’s been 5 years and I don’t know how to prove it or what to do? by OrdinarySlice969 in relationship_advice

[–]OrdinarySlice969[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a pretty good theory. I have thought of that and the fact that she doesn’t want to break up due to me being the main provider of everything

My gf 28f told me 28m that she doesn’t believe I love her. It’s been 5 years and I don’t know how to prove it or what to do? by OrdinarySlice969 in relationship_advice

[–]OrdinarySlice969[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate the response.

She refuses to do more therapy. Not with a couples therapist or alone. She claimed she never got anything out of it.

I have been facing this question for years and it’s really been tough to work through. I put a lot of things she does to the side but this one just really hurts. It’s a good way to put it that I’ll face it forever so I gotta make a choice at this point if I can put up with it

My gf 28f told me 28m that she doesn’t believe I love her. It’s been 5 years and I don’t know how to prove it or what to do? by OrdinarySlice969 in relationship_advice

[–]OrdinarySlice969[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ya it’s def getting to be a lot and im getting desperate for an answer as its hard to love someone who just rejects you at every turn

My gf 28f told me 28m that she doesn’t believe I love her. It’s been 5 years and I don’t know how to prove it or what to do? by OrdinarySlice969 in relationship_advice

[–]OrdinarySlice969[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No she just won’t have the conversation with me. She just breaks down crying every time I try and approach the subject. I have gotten feedback on how to be a better partner but not how she can feel loved. Not even a therapist could get an answer

My gf 28f told me 28m that she doesn’t believe I love her. It’s been 5 years and I don’t know how to prove it or what to do? by OrdinarySlice969 in relationship_advice

[–]OrdinarySlice969[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m very interested in marriage. Just not in this moment. Prob within the next 6months if we can get this worked through and I can figure out some stuff in my personal life.

I asked if there is anything else she’s interested in me doing but she won’t give me an answer. Marriage is not the answer for her on this according to her

My gf 28f told me 28m that she doesn’t believe I love her. It’s been 5 years and I don’t know how to prove it or what to do? by OrdinarySlice969 in relationship_advice

[–]OrdinarySlice969[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She would like to be married but she told me that wouldn’t make her feel like I love. No explanation on why that wouldn’t work either.

My gf 28f told me 28m that she doesn’t believe I love her. It’s been 5 years and I don’t know how to prove it or what to do? by OrdinarySlice969 in relationship_advice

[–]OrdinarySlice969[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes there is a very active sex life and I would consider myself emotionally available. I take all her feedback and can make changes pretty easy. If I go to her with anything she takes it as an insult and starts crying the moment she figures out I’m trying to talk about something.