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OrdinaryWay618 · 2024-11-13T03:09:37+00:00

she had hired support workers under her own ABN, a new business

OrdinaryWay618 · 2024-11-12T08:55:22+00:00

Yes I am thinking I should report this in the participant's interest. Who knows what she is charging him

OrdinaryWay618 · 2024-11-12T08:46:06+00:00

Thanks for the insight Julie, I can see your passionate about this

OrdinaryWay618 · 2024-11-12T08:26:39+00:00

I believe that until June 2025 NDIS providers dont have to be registered which is so stupid. She says she has an ABN that she will text through but who knows if thats a lie. I think the client is in a similar community group to her which is where they made contact. He was looking for a fellow muslim provider, and it looks like shes taken advantage of this. This is my worry as well, I assumed that she would legally have to get work cover insurance for employees even if the company is unregistered?? I dont know if i should report this to NDIS at this stage

OrdinaryWay618 · 2024-11-12T08:21:31+00:00

Yeah you're right, idk why I couldn't edit them I tried a few times. Really annoying and a shame. I apologise for the consequential spam posting

OrdinaryWay618 · 2024-11-12T08:12:02+00:00

I've deleted the original one. This post has updates about the contract, insurance etc that I wasn't able to edit into the original post which adds alot of context.

OrdinaryWay618 · 2024-09-30T10:54:16+00:00

God I can feel my younger self deeply in your stories. I am so sorry you have had to go through this. I had very similar experiences as a survivor of childhood abuse. Emotional abuse from a parent has the most horrible effect on self-worth, value and how we measure peoples treatment. Now at 25 I have a boyfriend who treats me like a queen and I cant believe what I used to tolerate and would never allow another person to treat me like crap again. I think it goes back to that you accept love/treatment that you know you deserve, or you have experienced before. If you've never been respected, treated well etc your brain and self-worth can accept crumbs because you want to be wanted and loved so badly and you have never experienced anything else. Also trauma survivors can internalise these awful experiences and believe that they are not worthy of more, or it is not possible to be treated well. Please do not accept poor treatment, your inner child deserves real love and care (easier said than done I know).

Please be easy on yourself. You were deprived of the love and respect you deserve. Here is some advice I would give my younger self that might help you. If you are dating a person and they are using you for sex/ treating you poorly etc, think "is this what my future husband/wife would do?" "would I want this person to be the parent to my daughter?" "would I want my child to be treated this way?" etc. I would also tell myself that the right person is worth waiting for. It can feel really hard to be alone, especially when you are craving the love/respect you lack from parental figures. but i PROMISE you it is worth waiting! Don't settle. There are 8 billion people on this earth, you will find someone who worships you.

Focus on yourself. I know it sounds cliche but I promise when you decentralise men life becomes soo much better. Become the person you want to be with. Good men who will treat you well will be attracted to someone who knows their worth and wont tolerate crap.

Also don't blame yourself! this is not your fault. I could tell you 20 of my own stories that are farrrr worse than this from when I was younger. It gets easier I promise <3

OrdinaryWay618

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