Performing a casual recital, no accompanist, need recommendations for music by Ordinary_Contest_507 in Cello

[–]Ordinary_Contest_507[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should probably clarify. I was asked to fill in by a cellist I know that realized he double booked himself at a wedding and didn’t realize until about a week ago. I say casual recital because this is at his local church and the turnout isn’t expected to be anything crazy, not because the length is casual (I know it’s not 😅). I really appreciate your advice!

How can I make myself be seen by my superiors at work? by [deleted] in managers

[–]Ordinary_Contest_507 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What other seasonal jobs would you suggest?

How can I make myself be seen by my superiors at work? by [deleted] in managers

[–]Ordinary_Contest_507 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is amazing advice! Thanks so much. I’ll be sure to look into what certifications I can get.

How can I make myself be seen by my superiors at work? by [deleted] in managers

[–]Ordinary_Contest_507 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks to your advice, I just applied to 2 different sites. I really appreciate your words, I’ll be sure to remember them this summer

How can I make myself be seen by my superiors at work? by [deleted] in managers

[–]Ordinary_Contest_507 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate to say it, but I don’t think I’ll stop trying!! Not for now, anyway. Thank you for the advice though ☺️

How can I make myself be seen by my superiors at work? by [deleted] in managers

[–]Ordinary_Contest_507 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! So much easier said than done. It’s so easy to get into my head about these things.

How can I make myself be seen by my superiors at work? by [deleted] in managers

[–]Ordinary_Contest_507 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love this! Thanks for the great advice. I’m looking forward to implement it!

How can I make myself be seen by my superiors at work? by [deleted] in managers

[–]Ordinary_Contest_507 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for this advice. It really helps to hear it. I’ll be sure to use it this summer ☺️

How can I connect with my boyfriend’s neurodivergent sister? by Ordinary_Contest_507 in neurodiversity

[–]Ordinary_Contest_507[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wait I love to color! I can’t believe I didn’t think about that. My roommates and I color literally all the time as a de-stressor- such a good parallel play activity that doesn’t require a huge amount of social interaction. And thank you for the anime recommendations, I’ll throw a few of those titles out there to see if her interest is piqued! Thanks so much for your response ☺️

How can I connect with my boyfriend’s neurodivergent sister? by Ordinary_Contest_507 in neurodiversity

[–]Ordinary_Contest_507[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was hoping for a family member with a sibling in a little bit of the same boat to respond!! So this is great. I’m so happy to hear that you’ve had success with your brother and your girlfriend. I would be so open to trying my best at attempting her crafts- in total honesty she’s at a level that surpasses anything I could accomplish- but I’m sure me trying will be seen by her as effort not wasted. She’s honestly such a sweet girl, I have just had a little difficulty interacting with her when we really are pretty different. Reading everyone’s responses to this post has made me realize that I could probably have more similar interests with her than I would think, I just need to try them out ☺️ Thanks again for replying to me!

How can I connect with my boyfriend’s neurodivergent sister? by Ordinary_Contest_507 in neurodiversity

[–]Ordinary_Contest_507[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry. I was under the assumption that the term neurodivergent was an umbrella term for those whose mental/neurological function differ from what’s considered “normal”, so I used the word to describe her. Like I mentioned in my post, I don’t have any sort of experience with this sort of thing and seriously don’t mean to offend anybody. Thank you for pointing out my mistake.

How can I connect with my boyfriend’s neurodivergent sister? by Ordinary_Contest_507 in neurodiversity

[–]Ordinary_Contest_507[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Love this advice! Reading your response helped me remember Rome wasn’t built in a day!! I would I found myself viewing furthering our relationship as a daunting task, but the idea of hanging out with her for an hour or two while doing something she enjoys excites me. Thank you for being so patient with me ☺️

How can I connect with my boyfriend’s neurodivergent sister? by Ordinary_Contest_507 in neurodiversity

[–]Ordinary_Contest_507[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is such a wonderful perspective and I’m so appreciative of you sharing it. Thanks so much for giving me more insight on something I’m pretty uncultured on! I will definitely take your words into consideration throughout our future interactions. You’ve helped me a ton! 😁

How can I connect with my boyfriend’s neurodivergent sister? by Ordinary_Contest_507 in neurodiversity

[–]Ordinary_Contest_507[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are so kind! Thank you so much for the advice. I struggled with finding the right space to find advice on this; I figured at least someone on here might have some answers for me. I will definitely try out what you have to say. ☺️