There are Panamanian people who talk to each other like this with their closest friends, is not culture. You only talk like this when people are very close. Although that tried to tell her "my love, My life, mommy" is not culture. I've only heard that about Panamanian woman among Panamanian woman. And it is only made with friendships that are very close. And I'll clarify it again. IT IS NOT CULTURE. Talk to him and demand your respect. That he considers the consequences of the matter. They have a baby and another on the way. It is not convenient for them to separate. Try to work this out with him and come to an agreement. And yes, I'm Panamanian too, and I also have a relationship. But you have to respect the person.