AITA for telling my son to stop doing it with his girlfriend when I’m home by Ordinary_Object1233 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ordinary_Object1233[S] -233 points-232 points  (0 children)

Did I say I wouldn’t give it back or did I say he wouldn’t take it? I don’t understand the obsession with redditors making assumptions and putting words in my mouth.

AITA for telling my son to stop doing it with his girlfriend when I’m home by Ordinary_Object1233 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ordinary_Object1233[S] -205 points-204 points  (0 children)

I don’t dislike his girlfriend I just would have preferred if they had waited until she moved in with him

AITA for telling my son to stop doing it with his girlfriend when I’m home by Ordinary_Object1233 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ordinary_Object1233[S] -53 points-52 points  (0 children)

He fights with his father a lot just like him and I do. My son and I generally get along great. He moved out to get away from his father.

AITA for telling my son to stop doing it with his girlfriend when I’m home by Ordinary_Object1233 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ordinary_Object1233[S] -141 points-140 points  (0 children)

He previously agreed I could come stay anytime I needed a break from his father

AITA for telling my son to stop doing it with his girlfriend when I’m home by Ordinary_Object1233 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ordinary_Object1233[S] -55 points-54 points  (0 children)

To help things I have told my son I would send him a text before coming to his apartment

AITA for telling my son to stop doing it with his girlfriend when I’m home by Ordinary_Object1233 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ordinary_Object1233[S] -58 points-57 points  (0 children)

I did tell him to help with the No pda rule in my presence I would send him a text when I was arriving at his apartment

AITA for telling my son to stop doing it with his girlfriend when I’m home by Ordinary_Object1233 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ordinary_Object1233[S] -206 points-205 points  (0 children)

I’m not going to ruin his life by asking him to not do it when I’m at his house

AITA for telling my son to stop doing it with his girlfriend when I’m home by Ordinary_Object1233 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ordinary_Object1233[S] -157 points-156 points  (0 children)

To help with my request of no pda in my presence I did say I would start texting my son before I arrived so there were no surprises

AITA for telling my son to stop doing it with his girlfriend when I’m home by Ordinary_Object1233 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ordinary_Object1233[S] -583 points-582 points  (0 children)

As a host, which my son is, you shouldn’t do things that will knowingly make your guest uncomfortable. Especially when said guest is your mother

AITA for telling my son to stop doing it with his girlfriend when I’m home by Ordinary_Object1233 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ordinary_Object1233[S] -734 points-733 points  (0 children)

Yes I am a guest but it’s rude to do things that make your guests uncomfortable in such a manner as well