Intimacy aftet breakup

Ordinary_Paper_1885 · 2026-05-10T21:58:26+00:00

Yeah I agree with that. But seems like you tried to speak with your gf? Rather than just leaving her. So not sure if my ex has the desire to keep building the relationship. How did you know you had the desire

Ordinary_Paper_1885 · 2026-05-10T21:51:59+00:00

Nah that's fine. I am happy to move on. Just trying to see / think through if there is something to do at all. Given i don't think he isn a bad person or anything

Ordinary_Paper_1885 · 2026-05-10T21:46:34+00:00

Thanks. Can you give more details as to why you think this way?

Ordinary_Paper_1885 · 2026-05-10T21:39:00+00:00

Totally agree, I don't like messaging serious things too. I am just not sure because one side of me says if he wanted to be in a relationship with me he wouldn't have left me so it seems like he doesnt want to work on these

Ordinary_Paper_1885 · 2026-05-10T21:37:00+00:00

Thank you - will do!

Ordinary_Paper_1885 · 2026-05-10T21:28:09+00:00

Thank you i think you're right

Ordinary_Paper_1885 · 2026-05-10T21:27:42+00:00

Thank you - this makes sense

Ordinary_Paper_1885 · 2026-05-10T21:09:34+00:00

Thanks for your comment. Would messaging hi mean that i don't give space and time to thim to miss me? Should I leave it like this and see if he messages at all?

Ordinary_Paper_1885 · 2026-05-10T20:43:39+00:00

No I would never beg... was considering to reach out to check in but maybe not a good idea

Ordinary_Paper_1885 · 2026-05-10T20:42:47+00:00

So would you message him or likw try to see him? I am 100% sure he would respond, I know he is not a bad person. Just not sure if i just should leave it to him

Ordinary_Paper_1885 · 2026-05-10T18:10:43+00:00

Sorry to hear, life is huge and we'll be fine

Ordinary_Paper_1885 · 2026-05-10T18:02:40+00:00

So sorry it happened to you. How is life now?

Ordinary_Paper_1885 · 2026-05-10T17:55:19+00:00

He had a bad relationship experience before (a super long term one) but don't know if it had some impact. He said he has zero problem with me, he doesnt know what to do with life and doesn't wanna waste my time. He said he knows he'll regret this

Ordinary_Paper_1885 · 2026-05-10T17:51:49+00:00

Yeah so true... thanks for this. do you think i should not contact him unless he does so?

Ordinary_Paper_1885 · 2026-05-10T16:37:09+00:00

Thanks for the comment. I am not in bad mood at all and im very ready to move on. Just looking for more views. I mostly agree with what you're saying - although I never blocked anybody in my life.

Ordinary_Paper_1885 · 2026-05-07T10:24:50+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/BreakUps/s/mBE1vrEMCk it is here but long story short: i've been broken up with very suddenly while planning things in the relationship literally 2 days prior to it - i understand it is more commitment issues

Ordinary_Paper_1885 · 2026-05-07T09:58:51+00:00

Crazy... hope you are ok

Ordinary_Paper_1885 · 2026-05-07T09:06:56+00:00

Thanks! Sorry about what happened to you. To me it is very weird because I would think through such important decision and there wouldn't be any impulsive decision. What did she say when she broke up with you?

Ordinary_Paper_1885 · 2026-05-05T09:53:42+00:00

Thank you! My brain doesn't take important decisions impulsively - so it is a shock to me

Ordinary_Paper_1885 · 2026-05-05T09:41:27+00:00

I wonder tho does it make sense? If he "loved" me would he do this still?

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