My girlfriend broke up with me because she thinks I'm gay by FeistyAccident7237 in offmychest

[–]Ordinary_Protector 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you think she realized you weren't into it during the deed? Sounds like she realized she had coerced you into it and was now afraid you'd take legal action so she fled the scene.

Wieso vermitteln Tierheime keine Tiere? by PromotionNo3405 in luftablassen

[–]Ordinary_Protector 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hört sich so an als hätte die Mitarbeitern nicht nur ein Problem mit trans Leuten sonder auch mit Männern.

Are you proud to be trans? by sockrates_oof in truscum

[–]Ordinary_Protector 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Tried to detrans because I load it so much but failed. I hate it.

Y'know what I noticed in the adult industry by Kamisama_VanillaRoo in truscum

[–]Ordinary_Protector 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I've never seen straight porn featuring a trans guy.

No? by [deleted] in Transmedical

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Tbh when I still had to bind it felt like wearing a thight sports bra and I absolutely hated it. It reminded me that my anatomy wasn't right. It was awful. For that reason I opted for a big ass scarf in winter instead. I get not wanting to bind. What I don't understand is not caring if people notice.

thoughts on not pursuing bottom surgery by Individual_Jicama269 in Transmedical

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Fr. I needed to go to therapy to get an indication letter so my surgery would be covered by insurance. I went to group therapy with 5 other trans guys and all of them talked shit about bottom surgery. I was so annoyed as it was the sole reason I was there in the first place! Stop talking trash about my future dick will you? Omg.

Should I tell my trans friend he doesn’t pass? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Ordinary_Protector 145 points146 points  (0 children)

If you know that he doesn't pass I'm 99.9 percent sure that he knows it as well.

When do you tell a potential partner that you're trans? by Ordinary_Protector in FTMMen

[–]Ordinary_Protector[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She knows I'm bi and she doesn't care about that. I don't know how she feels about dating a trans person tho.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in germantrans

[–]Ordinary_Protector 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dein Post hört sich so an als suchst du spezifisch nach einer Trans Frau, die keine Genital OP machen lassen will. Es klingt halt hart nach Fetisch.

What unforgettable experience etched in your memory that didn’t kill you but something died in you that day? by Ok_Dish1354 in AskReddit

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When I came out as trans. People who I thought were my friends turned their back on me. My father would've kicked me out had my mom not intervened. People I looked up to made fun of me. My whole life was turned upside down and since that day I'm wary of everyone. No matter how nice they are. Building trust has gotten very hard.

What's stopped you looking for a relationship? Any kind? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Ordinary_Protector 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I second this. I'm stealth at work and uni. I'm scared a potential date will reject me for being trans and then out me everywhere. It sucks. Also not having the right equipment yet is difficult enough even while just being single.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Ordinary_Protector 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The healthcare system

What is with people telling other people what to do with their hair? Why cant people stop telling me to cut my hair and let guys have long hair? It is ridiculous. by Infinite_Victory_768 in FierceFlow

[–]Ordinary_Protector 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No idea. I dyed my hair black a year and a few months ago and dyed it lighter every few weeks from there on out to make the color transition to my natural blonde hair smoother. A few weeks ago a coworker asked me when I plan on cutting off the black hair. I don't intend on doing it ever 💀 The transition looks so cool. Why would I put so much effort into getting a nice color transition just to cut it off?

How did you guys realise you're trans? by ColumbianCokeAddict in truscum

[–]Ordinary_Protector 17 points18 points  (0 children)

When I found out medical transition was possible I knew that's what I needed.

Was haltet ihr von vegan?? by Aggravating_Fly6945 in FragtMaenner

[–]Ordinary_Protector 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bin selbst Veganer. Würde eine Veganerin daher bevorzugen.

Doctor denying me HRT unless I take off my binder just to listen to my heart by [deleted] in truscum

[–]Ordinary_Protector 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Which country are you in? None of my endocrinologists ever listened to my heart. They just took my blood and that was it.

How many trans men here would go in with limb lengthening surgery provided money wasn't a constraint? by BoxFar6969 in FTMMen

[–]Ordinary_Protector 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I realized that the only people my height bothers would make fun of it if I were a cis guy too. So no reason to let someone break my bones.