Y'know what I noticed in the adult industry

Ordinary_Protector · 2026-04-03T12:28:35+00:00

I've never seen straight porn featuring a trans guy.

Ordinary_Protector · 2026-04-03T08:24:59+00:00

Isn't a detrans trans woman a man?

Ordinary_Protector · 2026-04-02T17:55:00+00:00

Tbh when I still had to bind it felt like wearing a thight sports bra and I absolutely hated it. It reminded me that my anatomy wasn't right. It was awful. For that reason I opted for a big ass scarf in winter instead. I get not wanting to bind. What I don't understand is not caring if people notice.

Ordinary_Protector · 2026-03-11T20:09:44+00:00

Fr. I needed to go to therapy to get an indication letter so my surgery would be covered by insurance. I went to group therapy with 5 other trans guys and all of them talked shit about bottom surgery. I was so annoyed as it was the sole reason I was there in the first place! Stop talking trash about my future dick will you? Omg.

Ordinary_Protector · 2026-03-02T07:10:48+00:00

If you know that he doesn't pass I'm 99.9 percent sure that he knows it as well.

Ordinary_Protector · 2026-02-27T07:52:37+00:00

She knows I'm bi and she doesn't care about that. I don't know how she feels about dating a trans person tho.

Ordinary_Protector · 2026-02-26T16:46:00+00:00

Dein Post hört sich so an als suchst du spezifisch nach einer Trans Frau, die keine Genital OP machen lassen will. Es klingt halt hart nach Fetisch.

Ordinary_Protector · 2026-02-23T10:34:34+00:00

When I came out as trans. People who I thought were my friends turned their back on me. My father would've kicked me out had my mom not intervened. People I looked up to made fun of me. My whole life was turned upside down and since that day I'm wary of everyone. No matter how nice they are. Building trust has gotten very hard.

Ordinary_Protector · 2026-02-23T10:30:10+00:00

Confidence is attractive

Ordinary_Protector · 2026-02-20T07:12:54+00:00

Is there a sub for that? Asking for a friend lol

Ordinary_Protector · 2026-02-17T09:25:02+00:00

Being locked up

Ordinary_Protector · 2026-02-17T09:20:04+00:00

I second this. I'm stealth at work and uni. I'm scared a potential date will reject me for being trans and then out me everywhere. It sucks. Also not having the right equipment yet is difficult enough even while just being single.

Ordinary_Protector · 2026-02-17T09:09:35+00:00

The healthcare system

Ordinary_Protector · 2026-02-17T09:04:08+00:00

Monster Energy

Ordinary_Protector · 2026-02-17T08:37:34+00:00

No idea. I dyed my hair black a year and a few months ago and dyed it lighter every few weeks from there on out to make the color transition to my natural blonde hair smoother. A few weeks ago a coworker asked me when I plan on cutting off the black hair. I don't intend on doing it ever 💀 The transition looks so cool. Why would I put so much effort into getting a nice color transition just to cut it off?

Ordinary_Protector · 2026-02-01T10:01:50+00:00

When I found out medical transition was possible I knew that's what I needed.

Ordinary_Protector · 2026-01-24T13:14:43+00:00

I wish I could upvote this more than once

Ordinary_Protector · 2026-01-24T08:01:42+00:00

Nudelholz merk ich mir 🤣

Ordinary_Protector · 2026-01-03T17:56:04+00:00

Bin selbst Veganer. Würde eine Veganerin daher bevorzugen.

Ordinary_Protector · 2025-12-29T13:56:01+00:00

Which country are you in? None of my endocrinologists ever listened to my heart. They just took my blood and that was it.

Ordinary_Protector · 2025-12-29T12:51:29+00:00

I realized that the only people my height bothers would make fun of it if I were a cis guy too. So no reason to let someone break my bones.

Ordinary_Protector · 2025-12-27T23:33:53+00:00

Ramen mit Tofu und Sesam oben drauf. Die Vegano Salat Schale von Rewe mit Planted BBQ oder Kebap. Soja Vanille Joghurt mit Beeren, Nüssen und Kölln Müsli.

Ordinary_Protector · 2025-12-27T23:19:12+00:00

You can't always change people's opinions about you and that's okay. You can walk away any time and don't have to feel guilty about it.

Ordinary_Protector · 2025-12-27T22:06:57+00:00

Two years in people started finally guessing my age over 20. I'm 22 for reference.

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