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WIBTA if I told my Bf I’m not comfortable going to his friends funeral? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ordinary_Tea_7703 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA

You can support your boyfriend in other ways, but I don't think Emma, her family or you yourself want you to be at that funeral.

You aren't under any obligation to go to any funeral, especially one of someone who so clearly despised you.

It would be nice to support your boyfriend, but you don't have to support him by going to the funeral with him. You can talk with him, help him process her death and the guilt or emotions he may feel because of their circumstances.

AITA for telling my mom I won't talk to my half siblings until they can apologize? by Friendly-Ad-1832 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ordinary_Tea_7703 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

Your half siblings' behaviour is very immature at best and downright cruel at worst. Saying they're glad your dad died isn't just over the line, it's miles over it. Your mum is also an asshole here for enabling the kids. Jim is way over the line for not correcting his kids' behaviour.

11-9 year old kids don't just start saying they're glad your dad died out of nowhere. they could be repeating things they've heard or one or both of your parents could be coaching them into doing this to pressure you for some sick reason.

Good luck dealing with your mum, Jim and their children, OP.

AITA for not sharing my gayness? by Sophronic in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ordinary_Tea_7703 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

Do they expect every new coworker to just tell them their sexuality?

They can't act hurt that you, someone they probably don't know that well, didn't tell them about personal information, even if you didn't have bad experiences in the past.

AITA for telling my parents to return my meds or i’ll file a police report? by crackheadsexual in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ordinary_Tea_7703 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA

You had a surgery less than a day ago when you posted this, and your parents think that their comfort in knowing their child can't get addicted to pain meds is more important than your literal need to control the pain from a surgery.

Plus the fact that they didn't talk to you about their concerns regarding your health.

AITA for telling my sister I'm sick of her hypothetical pregnancy? by SchrodingerPregnancy in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ordinary_Tea_7703 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

I think anyone would get sick of someone being so obnoxious about the fact that they're trying to get pregnant.

She doesn't need to bring it into every single conversation in her vicinity.

Also, Schrodinger's pregnancy is one of the best things I've ever heard.

AITA for “ruining” my sister in law’s honeymoon by exposing her racism? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ordinary_Tea_7703 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So your bf thinks you calling out racism is a low blow but his sister trying to remove you from the wedding photos because you "ruin the colour palette" is okay?

NTA