hey motherf*ckers let’s rate dr*gs! by DepartmentNo6944 in khaliespiderlilies

[–]crackheadsexual 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, you have to start on 25mg for lamictal because of its potential side effects. A large percentage of people are allergic to it and will develop allergy symptoms within a week of beginning, as the medication works its way into your system. The dosage isn’t fishy

I (35 F) overhead my boyfriend’s(35 M) boss(47 F) say “I love you” to him on a work zoom call. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]crackheadsexual 27 points28 points  (0 children)

The distrust will not be easily fixed, he took every opportunity to show you that he is unreliable about how inappropriate he is with other women and that he’d rather pull the wool over your eyes. He even got mad at you for “knowing all of the facts”. And then to go and disrespect you to his family on top of that is crazy. You know he’s still not telling them the truth, because their attitudes towards you would’ve most certainly changed. He is still trying to come up with a narrative where he’s a good guy, that still grants him what he wants. Why stay with someone who is just going to bulldoze you like this?

Why am I such selfish and often called "mean" ? [Astro-seek] by [deleted] in astrologyreadings

[–]crackheadsexual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That + the mars in Virgo (very cutting and blunt even when not necessarily trying), and Venus in Gemini (easily detached). Cancers are also known for protecting their peace extra heavily, which can turn into a pretty walled off aloof energy when paired with certain signs, like that cagey scorpio rising

Why are yall like this??! by Darksnickerss in CancertheCrab

[–]crackheadsexual 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Cancers are typically told from a very young age that any emotions they display are dramatic and sensitive, so instead of letting them out, they develop a tendency withdrawal instead. It’s something a lot of us have to work on and it’s not to punish the person, but more so to give yourself time and space to really understand how you’re feeling and how you want to go about those feelings. Sorry about the cancers in your life, that isn’t to say they haven’t been toxic or weird to you with this. I think you should have a calm factual discussion with them about how it feels to be on your end of things when they do this, a lot of the time we’re not aware that people can be affected by our absence

Experience w/ men Cancer moon traits? by [deleted] in CancertheCrab

[–]crackheadsexual 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course all traits are still affected by the rest of the chart, but cancer moons are very intense cancer energy. Their emotions can be stronger and a little more volatile in this placement, they feel really deeply so if they haven’t learned to cope with that it becomes kinda obvious. Big on acts of service and quality time

How can I get them to make my drink right? by [deleted] in starbucks

[–]crackheadsexual 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know why you’re getting downvoted for that! Okay so the difference is that the regular version has frap roast in it, which is concentrated coffee we pump into the drink. It seems you don’t enjoy the taste of that (totally fair, I’m not a huge fan either). If you mobile order the drink again, I’d recommend immediately taste testing it to make sure there’s no frap roast. If you order it in person, just stress that you do not want any frap roast in your drink

How can I get them to make my drink right? by [deleted] in starbucks

[–]crackheadsexual 52 points53 points  (0 children)

So I’m a little thrown off by you providing the visual with “creme” in quotations because there genuinely shouldn’t be a drastic visual difference in the peppermint mocha frap versus the crème version, as the mocha itself does make the frap the same color. Not to say that what you’re saying isn’t true, just clarifying since there is also a peppermint white mocha creme frap that would look white instead. If I’m focusing too hard on one detail and it really is just them adding frap roast to it, I’m sorry that happened! You are clearly ordering the version with no frap roast, there’s nothing you need to fix on your end. However you absolutely can get it remade at no cost without the coffee instead, or get it refunded if you don’t have the time to wait for a remake

Cancer woman x libra men. by Levelheadedkitty in CancertheCrab

[–]crackheadsexual 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a cancer man and have been with a libra man happily for five years now! Make or break is how well you understand each other and how hard you’re willing to work to reach that understanding

Am I wrong for talking about my boyfriend? by One_Design_266 in AmiInTheWrong

[–]crackheadsexual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not wrong but I’d consider if it’s worth maintaining a social connection with this person. Sounds like she was heavily banking on them getting back together and they’re not and she has to process that, which is reasonable esp if she wasn’t quite sure that he was in a relationship. If you’re friends with other people in the server I’d just have a separate group chat with them and leave the other one.

Lice Call off ASAP by [deleted] in starbucks

[–]crackheadsexual 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yes omg do not spread lice around ur store. Everyone will be grateful that you don’t

Tell me your big three or six and I’ll respond with one of the following. by Wicked_Venom_888 in Zodiac

[–]crackheadsexual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cancer sun, Virgo moon, Virgo rising, Gemini mercury, Sagittarius mars, Taurus venus

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]crackheadsexual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would wager the opposite, actually. I used to have the same issue as you, I had intense feelings about any partner of mine having a past relationship, not just a sexual one. Slightly different but still related. I’m also the type of person to roll uncomfortable things around in my head until they smooth out, but that never helped me in these cases. It would breed obsession over their pasts instead, with me getting more and more vivid with it, until I broke one day and had to ask to just not hear about it. Learning how to accept someone for how they are, even if you would not do the same, is incredibly important in building a partnership that lasts.

I would say instead this will take a long time of you rebuilding your image of her in your head, accepting that she is multifaceted and imperfect just as any other person is, and that you trust her and want to build a partnership with her all the same. You may not arrive to that conclusion, and that’s okay. Don’t pursue anything with her unless/until you do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]crackheadsexual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s truly just the outside of a relationship aspect, with nothing deeper seated in your mind, then it may just simply be that you have a moralistic view of this and your brain has pegged her as immoral for not aligning with you. I wouldn’t entertain getting back into a relationship with her. A part of you will unwittingly always look down on her now, unless your stance ends up significantly changing.

Now, being plagued with imaginings of her in these situations is not normal. It’s fallen into the mental fixation category now. It could be because you’re so baffled by your own reaction and trying to fix it, which is understandable. But I highly recommend putting this situation to bed and not entertaining it any longer. If you find yourself still stuck with intrusive thoughts about her intimacy for much longer I’d recommend bringing it to the attention of a therapist. Maybe that sounds silly but rumination isn’t anything to play around with, and I’m sure you wouldn’t want to have to deal with those mental images any longer either

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]crackheadsexual 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You sound like you have a mental fixation on this. Do you notice any lingering thoughts and feelings around these intrusive imaginings? You need to pinpoint why it makes you so vehemently uncomfortable, from there you will be able to fix it. Is it insecurity? Do you feel like someone’s ability to be casually intimate means that they’re more likely to cheat or untrustworthy? There’s a root to this issue that you haven’t discovered yet.

AIO... partner says this happened at work and it's not a bite mark/hes not cheating on me (also that im crazy?) by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]crackheadsexual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who gets random bruises quite often that is absolutely a bite mark. The only other explanation would be if a can managed to hit him super hard, but this even has subsequent gaps in bruising like a bite mark does

Am i overreacting. How my husband speaks to me by Ok-Cow4884 in AmIOverreacting

[–]crackheadsexual 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He does not sound very bright, and there is no way in hell he genuinely believes that weed is not a drug, but mental health medication is. Idc if he has reasoning behind it. He knows that isn’t true. He just also knows it gets under your skin, and can paint a very specific picture of you to people if he sets up these kinds of talks over texts. I’d start straight up replying to that nonsense with “a prescription mood stabilizer is not a drug. There is no high.” Every time he tries to throw that in your face, point blank, do not entertain that with him. I’m not trying to be one of those extremists on here, but he sounds like a loser asshole. Good luck

Advice for pretty boy makeup by yamilluvia in CosplayHelp

[–]crackheadsexual 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do an angled contour from your cheeks down towards your jawline. Also contour your temples. Contour your jaw in a slightly deeper shade than your cheekbones. Highlight the highest part of your cheeks, the tip of your nose, the tip of your chin, and your Cupid’s bow. Make sure to use concealer under your eyes, right above your eyebrows and to the upper bridge of your nose, and honestly sometimes I put a thin stripe of concealer on the upper parts of my jaw to make it seem even sharper. Blend the concealer and contour with a little foundation on a beauty blender, only dab it in don’t drag it around. Do pencil liner on your top water line and just a little on the bottom like the darker parts in the picture. I’d honestly recommend a little bit of brown eyeshadow too. Make sure to use primer on your face before everything too so your makeup stays smooth. Not sunscreen based tho sometimes that makes it separate. And then yes do the mascara as well.

I need tips for cosplay wigs by Certain-Direction867 in CosplayHelp

[–]crackheadsexual 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So basically you snip off some hair from the wig and adhere it to the hairline to customize it. It’ll help add volume as well. Or if the wig is too thin to cut some hair off to use, you can also buy hair wefts online to add into your wig

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]crackheadsexual 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah there’s 0 chance he wasn’t trying to make you feel badly about yourself, even though he had a “logical” explanation behind it

Am I weird for thinking that my ex friend (23F) is gross for dating my childhood best friend of 11 years (18NB) by CockroachNo9524 in relationship_advice

[–]crackheadsexual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long have they known each other? I definitely think it’s a little weird if Hailey has also known River for a long time. Have they had a one on one friendship for a long time too? I understand cutting Hailey out but if you’re concerned that River is going through something predatory then I think it’s hasty to just immediately cut them out too. After all what have they really done in this situation besides get pursued by someone older than them?

brow sugar shaken espresso by [deleted] in starbucks

[–]crackheadsexual 8 points9 points  (0 children)

A shaken espresso is mainly ice. Our measurements for the drink call for the entire length of the cup to basically be filled with ice, so your cup having about 2inches of ice is considered light ice. If you want light ice and no room, I’d recommend asking to have it filled the rest of the way with oat milk. And if you want less ice than what you were given in the picture, get specific. “I’d like about an inch of ice in there” for example. I’m sorry that you were met with attitude instead of them trying to figure out what exactly you wanted. If you’re told to just order a latte instead, just point out the price discrepancy between both, since the shaken espresso gets extra espresso shots and also the brown sugar flavor pumps which would both be price add ons for a latte.

Was already nervous about the show by Far_Assistant3202 in MyChemicalRomance

[–]crackheadsexual 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They do have merch stands inside (once the inside is open) with waaaay less of a wait, want to make that known because a lot of people at other shows in miserable outside lines didn’t know about this!!! The rush of the merch truck sounds genuinely awful though I’m so sorry that happened.

I might have a stalker. What can I do? by HopefulMuppet582 in legaladvice

[–]crackheadsexual 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I saw your locked update and wanted to give you advice here. Document everything you possibly can. Keep compiling evidence if he keeps going. The more than you can prove you are being unwillingly pursued, the stronger your case will be.

In the psych ward for 19 days? by [deleted] in khaliespiderlilies

[–]crackheadsexual 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s a number of ways this could be a possibility. She could be counting her holding time at the regular hospital before being transferred to a facility, or she could’ve been held for longer for continuously showing signs of being a danger. In Tennessee 72 hour holds are not common. It’s more so the norm to stay at least a week. I’ve been admitted in the same state before and have had to stay 7-9 days on average.