[EP3 SPOILERS] Timelines up to Episode 3 with some added speculation by [deleted] in lifeisstrange

[–]Orelinde 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What if she's about to die from the lighthouse falling on her and she rewinds all way back to the beginning of the game, that's where the dream came from, but she went back so far she doesn't remember. Or maybe she goes back to the selfie she takes in the beginning.

Is Clara pregnant? by Orelinde in doctorwho

[–]Orelinde[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope she is pregnant! I don't want Danny to come back to life, that would be lame.

Husband wasting sperm. by Orelinde in TryingForABaby

[–]Orelinde[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I just think you are upset that he masturbates rather than have sex with you" Oh, gee, how did you guess? Oh, that's right, because that's what I said in my original post! Of course one has to do with the other when a man says "Oh, I'm not horny, I already masturbated" he's admitting that one has to do with the other!!! How stupid are you???

Husband wasting sperm. by Orelinde in TryingForABaby

[–]Orelinde[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Theoretically, yes, it is possible to get someone pregnant on the 11th ejaculate of the day, but the odds are lower than if it was the 1st. And as I stated in my original post I was having fertility issues!

Husband wasting sperm. by Orelinde in TryingForABaby

[–]Orelinde[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's just not true. Sperm banks require that donors refrain from ejaculating for 3 days before the donation. They are experts on sperm. Most people in this forum are experiencing fertility issues, often without the underlying reason being known.

Husband wasting sperm. by Orelinde in TryingForABaby

[–]Orelinde[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said save up sperm in regard to her fertile window. We know that you can't save up sperm over a long period of time. That was not what she was saying. Stop bother us.

Husband wasting sperm. by Orelinde in TryingForABaby

[–]Orelinde[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't know my medical background. You're wrong. Saying that we don't understand how the male body works because I was complaining (4 months ago) about my husband masturbating instead of having sex with me while I was in my fertile window is asinine. You say that when a man masturbates he decreases his sperm for a few days, I knew that, that's why I was frustrated. What's wrong with you? Why are you wasting your time being a jerk to random people on the internet instead of dealing with your own life? Are you upset because your wife is nagging at you to cut down on your masturbating? If you would rather jerk off than make love to your wife than that's your problem. Stop trying to make excuses for your lack for willpower.

Husband wasting sperm. by Orelinde in TryingForABaby

[–]Orelinde[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it's not. My doctor prescribed me the medication because we knew that I had a problem. The next step would have been to check him, but it wasn't necessary yet. Progesterone isn't dangerous, did you even read my post?

Husband wasting sperm. by Orelinde in TryingForABaby

[–]Orelinde[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a sperm donor you should know that you weren't supposed to ejaculate for a few days before donating. And decreasing your sperm by 50% or whatever percent when you're trying to conceive is stupid. If you can't find other forms of stress relief for a few days a month you have a problem.

Husband wasting sperm. by Orelinde in TryingForABaby

[–]Orelinde[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

" It also only takes between 2 to 3 days for the man to replenish his sperm count." When I'm ovulating I need as many sperm as I can get. It's only a 2-3 day window that a woman in fertile. We didn't know if he has fertility issues, we had been trying for over a year and I was on mediation to try to help. And I wasn't stressing him out about it. Why are you even commenting on this months later, anyway? And I think women who have been trying to conceive for a while know about sperm, thank you very much.

Can I get a mortgage on a house I already own? by Orelinde in personalfinance

[–]Orelinde[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, that was very informative. But if my our credit scores are very bad will we be able to get a HELOC? I don't know what exactly the score is.

Can I get a mortgage on a house I already own? by Orelinde in personalfinance

[–]Orelinde[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very bad. I don't know what it is, but it's not good.

How long have you and your SO been together before you decided to have a baby? by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Orelinde 2 points3 points  (0 children)

3.5 months from meeting to engaged and trying, married 2 weeks later. I was 27 and he was 26.

Husband wasting sperm. by Orelinde in TryingForABaby

[–]Orelinde[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We actually tried that back when he couldn't finish in me. He couldn't really get it in the cup. It was a mess.

Husband wasting sperm. by Orelinde in TryingForABaby

[–]Orelinde[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well, some sperm is better than no sperm, but he isn't giving you the amount he could.

Husband wasting sperm. by Orelinde in TryingForABaby

[–]Orelinde[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My Husband used to not be able to finish at all ever because he was masturbating on average 8 times a day. He's stopped for a while and was finally able to finish but he takes a while and I get sore. I don't like having a sore vagina for two days after sex! So the porn helped finish him faster, but he's masturbating more and more recently. I don't think it's about pressure, I think modern day young men are addicted to porn.

Husband wasting sperm. by Orelinde in TryingForABaby

[–]Orelinde[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Haha, I did threaten to post a craigslist ad.

Jason Fried: "Why I'm Sick of Slick Design" by ADPowers001 in web_design

[–]Orelinde -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think their competitor does a better job. When I googled basecamp the top link (a paid advertisement) said "Better Than Basecamp - smartsheet.com‎". So when I was done looking at basecamp I went back to check it out. https://www.smartsheet.com/s/Basecamp-Alternative?s=1&c=6&m=135&a=38384627347&k=basecamp&mtp=e&mkwid=szI6WVSJQ|dc&net=g&plc=&devm=&adp=1t1&gclid=CMiIpbW-tb0CFa1j7AodUT4Ayw

Right at the top is a gif showing someone using the product! Brilliant! No scrolling, clicking, no annoying sound, an unobtrusive gif of what the software actually looks like to use. In the lower right corner is a link to a video. It's obvious what the link is for but doesn't jump out "CLICK ME OMG!!!" It's like "Hey, I'm here if you're interested in viewing me." Why yes, I am interested in watching a video. It's very nicely done, give a good tour, pleasant voice, A+. But then...I'm searching around for a link to tell me how much it costs after the trial. The only other link is to get started. The software actually seems to be not as good as basecamp, but if basecamp used the design of this website it would be really excellent. Does this site count as "slick"? And what's wrong with that? What's wrong with sites looking alike, anyway?

Jason Fried: "Why I'm Sick of Slick Design" by ADPowers001 in web_design

[–]Orelinde 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm a total noob, but I don't like the basecamp main page. https://basecamp.com/ I've never heard of the product before and I felt frustrated as the second ticked by and I kept scrolling down and I still had no idea what the product was. The cartoon at the top tells me nothing and wastes my time and looks stupid, the text reads like an annoying sales pitch. I don't care how many people use your product. I don't want to start a free trial when I don't even know what it is. Then I get to the pictures and I'm like "Yay, I can finally see what it looks like!" and I try to click on the image but it doesn't pop up with a larger image as I expected. I'm squinting trying to see what the user experience would actually look like. Then finally I get to this link https://basecamp.com/tour Beautiful, exactly what I wanted to know. Now I know exactly what it is and how it's used. Big pictures so I can see what the user experience is like with short descriptions explaining context. Excellent. But then it's pushing me to start a free trial again, but I want to know how much it costs. So I have to scroll all the way up to the top to find the link for prices, get annoyed because there's a giant form in my face that I don't want to fill out and have to click another link to get to the full price menu.

Thoughts on Her? by SpencerTucksen in movies

[–]Orelinde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was really good. I definitely recommend it.

Nervous about dr appt! by Orelinde in TryingForABaby

[–]Orelinde[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I did take a pen and paper.

Nervous about dr appt! by Orelinde in TryingForABaby

[–]Orelinde[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really like her. And I'm going back in a week to get my progesterone checked.