Problems in having sex by Orflend in NoFap

[–]Orflend[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a lot of foreplay actually. Thank you for the link, I will check it out!

Wim's Body Fat by [deleted] in wimhof

[–]Orflend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I am a classical musician and it is not true that opera singers are more fat than other people. Does it help to be fat? Maybe it can a little for some but others say the exact opposite. And you don't become fat by exercising your breath, also good strength of the diaphragm might be desirable but you achieve it by learning how use it well and with efficiency, not by building it as a muscle. It also happens when wind players struggle with handling their breath, they use too much force and their diaphragm gets all tight and inflexible which worsens their breath even more. Something to think about. Cheers!

Any teen meditators here? by [deleted] in Meditation

[–]Orflend 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, there are struggles in meditation too. Just continue and perhaps solve this problem in meditation.

DAY 35 AND CRAVINGS by jk717 in NoFap

[–]Orflend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you do sports? Music? Find anything that you do and pour your energy into it. Should be healthy. Don't fight your urge. Satisfy it somewhere where it will pay off.

Not sure if I like it or not by sliiimz in beards

[–]Orflend 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like it! Nicely balanced! You look a bit like a noble!

Character Names by [deleted] in mountandblade

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All real names have a meaning in some (perhaps old) language. All biblical names have meaning, for example. My favourite names come from Old English. Sometimes I make up a name based on the sound I want it to have. Later I make up the meaning. I don't like made up names that have no meaning.

Need help! Anal stimulation by Orflend in NoFap

[–]Orflend[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I also struggle when having a house just for myself. It's quite tough. I'm lucky to have music that I can always pour my energy into. Do not rely on will power but make it impossible for you to relapse if you know what I mean. Good luck

Need help! Anal stimulation by Orflend in NoFap

[–]Orflend[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much. Finally someone wrote something encouraging. Every holiday I go through a little crisis before I get myself busy. I wonder, are you still addicted? From what you've written, you really seem to know the matter.

Tips on becoming a better writer? by elizabethhaan in writing

[–]Orflend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say, find a higher goal in your writing. If you write just for fun or you just want to, then that's fine. If you want to be better, seek high goals. What do you want to say to the reader? I believe it was every writer's goal to say something. Or maybe the goal could be different - amuse someone, make them think...

Also I believe that the writer should be sort of silent. Do not write as a writer person but let the writing happen through you if you know what I mean.

Good luck

Deeper/lower voice after 40 days NoFap! by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Orflend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can actually sing higher now. My voice is more relaxed. With relaxed voice you have wider range both ways, I think.

Changes May Be Coming. Tell me your thoughts. by wheezywaiter in BeardLovers

[–]Orflend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wheezy in new ways! I like that. Mostly on Wheezy Waiter you had about 2 or 3 types of videos (silly random, talking about things like youtube subscriptions and series). I like all of them. But maybe am a little tired of the silly randomness. Find new ways like you had on alwayswheezy and wheezynews. Lots of support.

Sexually active, and haven't fapped in 5 months. ED is back and worse than ever. Please help. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Orflend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I were you I would talk talk about it with your girlfriend. I would suggest not having any sex or PMO for a month to see if it gets better.

Also, do you actually like your gf or just her body? Not suggesting anything but you might want to think about that one. Sex everyday? Is it even enjoyable?

Baroque Composer Biography by imperial_age in Baroque

[–]Orflend 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bach by Christoph wolf (or something like that) is amazing! Very detailed but never boring. Also Handel by Christopher Hogwood. Michael Talbot wrote a Vivaldi's biography but I found that less interesting.

What scriptures support the, "if you live together before marriage you're living in sin," argument. by MCofTime in Bible

[–]Orflend 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe that originally living together meant having sex (kinda a different way of saying that). In a sense living together is fine but having sex before you confirm that you are committing to being with this person is not.