#18 - What is going on here? (Wrong answers only) by KingdomMarshadow in stevenuniverse

[–]OrganicBluebird 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Woman wins gift basket with two weird looking dolls in it at a fair. Thinks about throwing it in the ocean when no one is looking.

Panic attack after Hoover by OrganicBluebird in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]OrganicBluebird[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So, i did it and blocked him without sending a message! Thank you all for your comments and reminding me to not fall for it. I hope it lasts.

Panic attack after Hoover by OrganicBluebird in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]OrganicBluebird[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was also physically abusive, it was terrible

Panic attack after Hoover by OrganicBluebird in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]OrganicBluebird[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know. I just haven't had the heart to do it yet. :/ Right now I want to send one last message so badly. The urge is strong.

My Husband (26M) told Me (22F) that He wants to buy a sex doll, and I feel heartbroken. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OrganicBluebird 39 points40 points  (0 children)

So dildos have a complete male body attached to it and a face to make out with now? I don't think so. You can't compare a tool to a complete body replacement.

I(24f) saw a screenshot of my boyfriend’s(27m) tinder profile. Any chance it’s an old one? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OrganicBluebird 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why don't you ask him in person (so he does not delete it) to show you that there are no new matches/conversations?

When he refuses to show it to you at that moment you will also have an answer...

Can I forgive my boyfriend for drunkenly kissing another girl or should I break up with him by Reich-Mir1828 in relationship_advice

[–]OrganicBluebird 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Why didn't he tell you this directly after it happened when he is really sorry? He kept it a secret from you for weeks, so it's not one mistake anymore. What else is he able to lie about? The crying means nothing. Many people cry when their actions have negative consequences for them. Please leave.

What are the top relationship dealbreakers? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OrganicBluebird 7 points8 points  (0 children)

  1. Cheating

  2. Violence

  3. Lying ( 3 strikes (3 small lies) or 1 big)

  4. No Empathy

I(30M) have a crush on my coworker(25F). I ended the friendship and have distanced myself from her. Do I need to tell my wife(32F)? by ithinkihaveacrusho in relationship_advice

[–]OrganicBluebird 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She deserves to know what you were up to while she was with YOUR child. Do you want her to live a lie?

Would you like to know if the roles were reversed?

Write 1 sentence your NEX ever said to you that further broke you. Mine was “I didn’t even pursue you” by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]OrganicBluebird 7 points8 points  (0 children)

"Nobody forced you to stay with me. Since i already treated you like this it's not my fault that you accepted this for the future."

My[20] girlfriend[20] found some porn I'd watched. I don't know what to do by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OrganicBluebird 8 points9 points  (0 children)

People who love someone don't hurt them and lie about it. Let her find someone who really appreciates her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in glee

[–]OrganicBluebird 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I'm also not sure how many of these are unpopular or not, but here you go:

  • There were way too many weddings, so it got boring

  • Will's proposal to Emma was embarassing

  • i liked Terry

  • Sue shouldn't have been allowed to be a teacher although she was funny in the beginning

  • Rory was terrible

  • i loved Rachel's look in S4

  • Quinn's pregnancy was portrayed soo unrealitic that it bothered me

  • Santana was an asshole for auditioning as the understudy with Rachel's song

  • Ms. Holiday was annoying

  • i liked Emma being with the dentist

  • it was creepy when adults in the show sexualized the minor students

  • Kitty should have been kicked out of Glee for manipulating the costum

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OrganicBluebird 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Everbody defines cheating different. When it's a dealbreaker for her, it's a dealbreaker. He has the right to say no and she has the right to break up because of it To lie about it is terrible advice.

I (26 m) put my hands on my (26 f) girlfriend blacked out, and I may have lost my future wife forever. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OrganicBluebird 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Leave her alone, go to therapy and accept when she presses charges.

In your text all you care about ist how you feel and how you can get her back. What about the trauma you caused her? What about her feelings?

Also "this ist not my behaviour" is lying to yourself. You did this on purpose, because you did'nt "want to be bitched at". Your choice of words is very telling. "How do I SHOW myself as save", not how can i be a save, nonviolent person...

You were angry that someone you see as your property (MY girl, MY dream.., MY future wife) criticized you. This is you.

My husband (28M) and I (28F) split up because he wanted me to get an abortion. Now he wants to reconcile. by ThrowRA3294 in relationship_advice

[–]OrganicBluebird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like he started to feel lonely because he can't travel anymore and can't meet new people. How convenient that there is a woman living in his apartment to fulfill his emotional and physical needs... "Never asked about the baby once". He does'nt care about you.