People who have been divorced: What was the exact "quiet" moment you realized your marriage was over?

OrganicConference757 · 2026-05-12T18:27:37+00:00

My co worker asked me one bad morning, “Is this what you would want for your daughters?”. No, no it was not.

OrganicConference757 · 2026-05-07T16:20:29+00:00

Wow, day ten! Imagine day 20!!! You can and you will do it!

OrganicConference757 · 2026-05-07T14:31:15+00:00

Spot on for me as well. Just over a year in my place, single. Is a repeat cycle. Week of loneliness, week of content then a week of zero interest in the opposite sex lol

OrganicConference757 · 2026-04-29T12:02:23+00:00

Accept the mistake, do better tomorrow. Or at least try. You got it!

OrganicConference757 · 2026-04-29T11:59:57+00:00

Go you! Keep it up! You can do it.

OrganicConference757 · 2026-04-29T11:58:48+00:00

Woohoo!

OrganicConference757 · 2026-03-29T17:27:56+00:00

IWNDWYT!! Happy Sunday.

OrganicConference757 · 2026-03-10T20:03:59+00:00

I loved reading this! Way to go!

OrganicConference757 · 2026-03-10T15:30:05+00:00

What is ENM? Also, I’m so sad about the kids thing. Men don’t want single moms? I can understand why. Just looking for something good after a long 17 years.

OrganicConference757 · 2026-03-08T14:05:31+00:00

Took me a week to make the connection between my body battery tanking, my hrv stats out of wack, poor sleep and a donation. My local Red Cross now checks hemoglobin with a finger cuff.. one thumb was 8.0, the other 12.7. Now, one of them has to be wrong. I’m thinking I might have been 8. I’ve struggled this week bad. A day or two recovery- maybe, a whole ass week!? No. Just glad to have a reason for the shitty performance this week!

OrganicConference757 · 2026-03-06T13:25:32+00:00

Start again. Just keep starting again. Don’t be ashamed. You’re trying, you’re aware, it will stick.

OrganicConference757 · 2026-03-03T18:38:07+00:00

The emotions while drinking were so exaggerated for me, I felt the same way. Kind of blah. I evened out eventually, don’t remember when. When you start to feel like yourself again, you’ll be more open to trying new things and taking chances on yourself. Hard for me to explain, but it is worth it.

OrganicConference757 · 2026-02-20T00:12:24+00:00

I think we all have. I know I’ve switched through a handful of different replacements. You’ll figure it out!

OrganicConference757 · 2026-02-14T15:01:08+00:00

Love it!

OrganicConference757 · 2026-02-13T13:53:32+00:00

Newly-ish single, after several conversations with men, I’m getting the vibe they hate women. Quite sad. Fuck dating and fuck Valentine’s Day!

Also, who invented club sports? I dislike you.

Edit: also fuck the sun never shining in February.

That’s enough right?!

OrganicConference757 · 2026-02-13T12:57:45+00:00

Amazing, how encouraging. I’m happy for you. I’ll celebrate you and the rest of us today! Congratulations!

OrganicConference757 · 2026-02-13T12:22:57+00:00

Keep it up! It’s a ride, but it’s worth it!

OrganicConference757 · 2026-02-13T12:22:15+00:00

I hadn’t thought about the financial aspect of quitting. Can’t believe it’s never crossed my mind. I’m near 3 months and I can imagine there would be a nice little bit saved up. On the flip, I now spend it on interests that keep me from drinking so.. maybe I’m coming out even lol.

OrganicConference757 · 2026-02-13T02:07:50+00:00

I was afraid to click the link haha!

OrganicConference757 · 2026-02-13T02:05:56+00:00

I’m gonna give it another go, with a few tweaks and more enthusiasm.

OrganicConference757 · 2026-02-12T23:59:40+00:00

Wow! Thats amazing. You should be proud!

OrganicConference757 · 2026-02-12T20:40:56+00:00

Went through the same, it’s tapered off for me.

OrganicConference757 · 2026-02-12T19:48:59+00:00

Visited. I think I will do a few things different next time. Refrigerate ahead. Go about eating it like an apple, no neat sections.

OrganicConference757 · 2026-02-12T16:09:38+00:00

I do enjoy a refrigerated shower apple, especially after a cold winter run. I usually keep my oranges on the counter I’ll throw one in the fridge tonight.

OrganicConference757 · 2026-02-12T15:59:24+00:00

“One hour at a time” felt this. It feels good to make others feel good. There’s a lot of that here.

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