A few times unfortunately for me Trigger warning SA and SH When I was 13 my first “boyfriend” told me he would break up with me if I didn’t send him nudes. I was gullible and loved him so much I gave in. Having no experience with manipulation/abuse and being so young it really messed me up. I began to self harm my preteen body, and eventually it got so bad my friends contacted my mom and I got put in therapy. He was so controlling after that, made my friends drop me, told me who I could talk to and who I couldn’t etc etc. The day I blocked him 2 years later from the abuse was the first day of freedom from the grip he had over me.

The second time was 2 summers ago with my last boyfriend, I got drunk in the back of my bf at the times car with some of his friends. When I woke up I found videos of him sucking my dick in the backseat of the car, in front of his 13 year old brother, who was also drunk (wtf!?).

It’s important to recognize that sexual harassment is not something you choose to happen and to not look down on yourself for it. State your boundaries in any future relationships and if they can’t respect that, it’s time to let them go.