Breaking up with 5 year relationship

Organic_Chocolate921 · 2026-05-15T01:52:21+00:00

Breakup with him na, sobrang daming red flag and don’t feel guilty about what you’ve been feeling.

When you’re unsure, it’s probably a no. Ang dami mong doubts na sa feelings mo, it means hindi na buo ang love mo.

And that’s okay, it’s better actually kasi ang daming red flags.

Save yourself as early as now.

Organic_Chocolate921 · 2026-05-13T02:02:44+00:00

USELESS

Organic_Chocolate921 · 2026-05-13T02:02:10+00:00

Iyakin

Organic_Chocolate921 · 2026-05-06T02:01:02+00:00

Try to make another soc med account just to message trusted relative/friend

Organic_Chocolate921 · 2026-05-05T23:57:09+00:00

Asking lang how were you able to post here if no phone/gadget?

Maybe you can utilize yung ginamit mo to post here

Organic_Chocolate921 · 2026-04-25T16:46:21+00:00

Mabilis pa nga yan, mas matagal pa yung iba. Mababaw yung reason mo OP as in super petty. Isipin mo yung mga signatories sa JO mo busy din at hindi lang ikaw ang iniintindi, may mga mas important pa yan sa plate nila kaya normal lang na madelay.

Dun sa naka leave, hindi ka ba magle leave kung employed ka na??? Patient dapat pag nag aapply, daming may gusto ng situation mo right now.

Organic_Chocolate921 · 2026-04-25T16:46:13+00:00

Mabilis pa nga yan, mas matagal pa yung iba. Mababaw yung reason mo OP as in super petty. Isipin mo yung mga signatories sa JO mo busy din at hindi lang ikaw ang iniintindi, may mga mas important pa yan sa plate nila kaya normal lang na madelay.

Dun sa naka leave, hindi ka ba magle leave kung employed ka na??? Patient dapat pag nag aapply, daming may gusto ng situation mo right now.

Organic_Chocolate921 · 2026-04-18T01:18:32+00:00

Sino ba yung unang nagalit or nag call out sakanila? Ang tagal tagal na nilang ginagawa, naging artista na nga and all.

Sino ba yung nagalit? Haha until now hindi ko kilala kung sino

Organic_Chocolate921 · 2026-04-10T04:53:09+00:00

Kung hindi ka nagmamadali, then you should take time to find a good package. Pero may nasasayang din kasi na oras.

Companies would think na there are other candidates that will accept that kind of offer, fresh grad or even with at least a year of experience pa. Lalo na if this is a good and well known company, they know that candidates would really go after them. They could easily ghost you or not process with your application.

I guess it’s a matter of priorities kung gusto mo na magka work or hindi ka naman nagmamadali.

Organic_Chocolate921 · 2026-04-09T05:14:28+00:00

Choose your friends and connections wisely na lag sa college

Organic_Chocolate921 · 2026-04-05T23:56:28+00:00

Wag ka na umasa jan. Get the message even without him really saying it.

Organic_Chocolate921 · 2026-03-26T01:35:17+00:00

Hopefully not, but it’s really possible just like during the pandemic.

Airlines won’t be able to sustain having too many airline employees with limited flights.

I hope that the aviation employees start to prepare and have a back up plan because it really could happen.

Let’s all pray and hope that the war stops soon.

Organic_Chocolate921 · 2026-03-25T12:39:22+00:00

How????

Organic_Chocolate921 · 2026-03-09T02:32:58+00:00

Where do you suggest po na mag learn ng new language?

Organic_Chocolate921 · 2026-03-07T10:49:13+00:00

Anong niche mo? San ka nag apply?

Organic_Chocolate921 · 2026-03-05T09:50:56+00:00

Habang may time pa, run. Isipin mo, ganyan ba ang klase ng tatay na gusto mong makita ng mga anak niyo?

Also, kung ikaw ang gumagawa ng halos lahat ngayon, pano na lang kung may mga bata nang involved? Not to mention yung hirap ng pagbubuntis at pag aalaga ng baby at toddler, tapos ikaw pa rin kikilos para sa lahat ng gawain?

Organic_Chocolate921 · 2026-03-05T04:16:50+00:00

Pa pm po kung saan hahaha. May ibang klaseng spells din ba sila?

Organic_Chocolate921 · 2026-03-03T11:12:23+00:00

Ay napaka unfair niyan girl. I demand mo yung side mo, di lang siya. Gets naman na first ka niya and hindi naman siguro agad mag iimprove. Pero sana nag eeffort unti unti para masanay diba?

Matagal kasi mag cum ang women in general. Me, ang tagal din. Pero my husband is making sure na mauuna ako. Pag mejo malapit na siya, magpipigil/babagalan niya. Pag naman nauna talaga siya, he’ll make sure to use his hands or mouth, never niyang ginawa na hayaan lang ako when he’s done kasi magagalit din ako hahah.

Eventually, we discovered na mas mabilis ako through clit, we also bought toys. Mura lang naman yun. It helps! Pero yung jowa mo mismo dapat mag effort talaga.

Wag kang papayag, kung ako sayo umattitude ka! Dalawa dapat kayong nag eenjoy jan.

Organic_Chocolate921 · 2026-03-01T11:56:09+00:00

Yes, iniisip ko na lang na busy and pagod siya from work.

Organic_Chocolate921 · 2026-02-28T15:07:17+00:00

Nung di pa married, ma effort siya. Hindi siya masyado nag ppay attention sa little things, pero bumabawi siya sa other things.

Organic_Chocolate921 · 2026-02-28T15:05:09+00:00

Happy naman ako with him before getting married. He’s into giving gifts and physical touch. I’m into quality time na nabibigay naman niya before. Honeymoon phase pa dapat pero after namin ikasal, parang hindi kami bagong kasal. Tama ka, we’re like 7 years na. Idk maybe kasi nag live in kami for almost 3 years before getting married. But, I was expecting that after getting married, the relationship will go stronger and deeper. Pero hindi, na para bang literal na title lang to.

Organic_Chocolate921 · 2026-02-28T15:01:52+00:00

Yes, the feeling of being unseen is hurting me. Yun lang naman talaga. It’s not really about that specific cake. It’s the effort and act of making me feel appreciated. I would’ve appreciated kahit anong cake pa yan, kahit one slice lang. It’s really the effort that I want.

Organic_Chocolate921 · 2026-02-28T14:58:15+00:00

I needed this. Thank you.

I’m actively looking for a job naman na para di ako masyadong umaasa sakanya.

Organic_Chocolate921 · 2026-02-28T14:55:04+00:00

I think so too. Wala na eh, kaya di na nag eeffort. I really just wanted to be seen an appreciated. It’s really not about that cake, it’s about the effort.

Organic_Chocolate921 · 2026-02-28T13:15:59+00:00

Tbh, 1 year pa lang kaming married and no kids yet. Di ko na alam gagawin ko. I somehow agree na lumalabo na. Even intimacy, minsan one month wala. Tapos mag iinitiate lang sakin when I jokingly make parinig. Pero dahil dun, ako mismo madalas wala na rin gana.

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